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Watchful waiting (..oh no, not again!)

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lyn - 25 May 2004 10:15 GMT
I did a google search and unsurprisingly there's lots of material there on this
subject (mostly from this ng of course) but I would like to elicit opinions,
from those willing to offer, on the best course for me.   I'm in the uk where it
seems to me we don't, yet anyway, have the in-depth knowledge or jargon relating
to PCa so please bear with me.

After years of poor-stream urination and occasional mild discomfort I finally
decided to see a urologist - a bit daft not to have done it sooner since my
father had an RP when he was 72 which left him ok but hobbling (I think there
was bone damage) and generally the worse for wear - in fact he died of a stroke
6 years later.  The upshot is - I apologise again for the missing detail re
Gleason etc. and all the interesting figures I hope to be able to glean at some
future point - that on the strength of a PSA of 5.5 I had a biopsy.  I'm just
approaching 60 yrs.  That first biopsy was inconclusive; there was a PIN result
(no more specific than that) but the urologist seemed to imply that the current
thinking on PCa and all other things considered in my particular case would not
yet point to any conclusion.  Of 8 cores one indicated some suspicious" tissue.
This prompted a second biopsy less than two weeks later.  This resulted in
another 9 cores of which one shows a small quantity of
'low-grade'-'non-agressive' cancer.  That's the best I can do.  I mentioned a
newsgroup where these things are discussed and said I would like to be armed
with something definite but he wasn't forthcoming.  Pleasant chap though.

So that's all I have so far.  I'm to have a meeting with a surgeon and then a
radiologist to discuss the pro-active options and the WW option - if I go for it
- will consist of PSA checks every 2 months with a twice-yearly biopsy.

Beyond the "more die with than of it" and "quality vs quantity of life" issues I
don't yet know, though judging by what I've read in past threads here it seems
that pre-45 and post-70 years are the watershed ages that suggest a rule of
thumb for early-detected PCa - radical and WW respectively.  That would put
someone at 57.5 years smack on the horns of a dilemma.

I'd be most appreciative of any thoughts aired.
c palmer - 25 May 2004 10:41 GMT
hi lyn - hummmm........57.5 years in the horns of the dilemma.......  i
was 57.3 years when i was told, and 57.5 years when i did something
about it.  i had a psa of 6.35, which is close to yours.  most cancers
are around a gleason of 5 or 6 when found, so if you were lucky and your
gleason was 3 or 4, your outcome would still be close to what my doctor
told me.  

i flat out ask him if i did watchful waiting, how long would i live?
after reviewing my records for a couple of minutes, he said that you
will not see 70 and your last three years will be pain.  so, that is
what i will pass on to you.  the average life when pca is found is 13
years if you do watchful waiting.  8 for the pca to mest. and 5 before
death would occur.  

after my doctor told me those facts, he suggested that because that i
was a young person 57.3,  i should do something.  he didn't push one
treatment over the other, but did say that either surgery or radiation
would extend my life and i need to do something within the next 60 days.

i can tell you that my dad did watchful waiting and the pain is not
something i would want to go through.  i would like to tell you that
they watch his psa climb from 6 to a level of 288 before they did
anything.  so if you wish to do the watchful waiting route, email me and
i will be more descriptive of what you can expect.  

my recommendation to you is to get either radiation or surgery.  both
have been proven to have good track records in regards to beating the
prostate cancer.

given the problems you are having already with the prostate - poor
stream and discomfort, you might look a little closer to the RP type of
treatment.  either RRP or LRP will produce similar results.  my logic -
you will do away with you poor stream problems for good.  otherwise, i
would say both treatments are pretty well equal.

hope this helps.

~ curtis

knowledge is power - growing old is mandatory - growing wise is optional    
"Many more men die with prostate cancer than of it. Growing old is
invariably fatal. Prostate cancer is only sometimes so."
lyn - 26 May 2004 01:02 GMT
>hi lyn - hummmm........57.5 years in the horns of the dilemma.......  i
>was 57.3 years when i was told, and 57.5 years when i did something
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>
>hope this helps.

It does, thanks.   I suspect the poor stream issue will, in time, persaude me to
go for RRP even if WW doesn't sound an early alarm.

>~ curtis
>
>knowledge is power - growing old is mandatory - growing wise is optional    
>"Many more men die with prostate cancer than of it. Growing old is
>invariably fatal. Prostate cancer is only sometimes so."
dale.j. - 25 May 2004 11:00 GMT
> I did a google search and unsurprisingly there's lots of material there on
> this
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>
> I'd be most appreciative of any thoughts aired.

I'm not a fan of WW, unless you happen to have  some other more serious
health issues.  If it were me I'd get it treated by operation or
radiation, both good and have plus and minus issues which should be
thought over carefully.  

The idea of having PSA tests every two months and twice yearly biopsies
is not appealing to me.  Waiting for something to happen would drive me
nutty.  

Good luck
Dale

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lyn - 26 May 2004 01:02 GMT
>> I did a google search and unsurprisingly there's lots of material there on
>> this
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>is not appealing to me.  Waiting for something to happen would drive me
>nutty.  

I'm at the beginning of this so it's hard to gauge yet if will drive me nutty
but I do take your point -  it hadn't occurred to me that this could be a strain
on the nerves.

>Good luck
>Dale
al1096@loud.bellsouth.net> - 25 May 2004 12:55 GMT
<snip>

*someone at 57.5 years smack on the horns of a dilemma.
*
*I'd be most appreciative of any thoughts aired.

Well, I'm 43 and PCa free since Feb of last yr. I'm now remembering my
Gleason as 3+3, think PSA was 6 or 7. My uro didn't push for one
treatment over another and was mildly surprised when I gave a quick
decision "I want it out!". As stated by the others, WW sounds too
risky when there's treatment available that may be much more
effective. I went for RP w/nerve sparing due to young age and overall
good health. Haven't regretted it one bit.

Al

Please be quiet if replying via email,
flames will be deleted promptly.
I won't even read the whole message...
lyn - 26 May 2004 01:02 GMT
><snip>
>
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>
>Al

that's great....I wish I was where you are in relation to all this.

>Please be quiet if replying via email,
>flames will be deleted promptly.
>I won't even read the whole message...
Ron Carter - 25 May 2004 15:39 GMT
You'll find some good information on watchful waiting at the following
websites:
http://prostate-help.org/caterryh.htm and http://www.yananow.net

Personally, I'm with Dale on this.  At your age, I think the only
thing you would be waiting for is the cancer to grow.  (Some argue
that you can reverse it or stop it with diet and supplements.  I just
haven't seen any good evidence of that.)  You'd have to undergo
regular biopsies and other tests, all of which I found were, for me,
much more distressing than the actual treatment . . . which, in my
case, was brachytherapy and which was absolutely painless with no
serious side effects at all.  (No guarantee of that, of course, but if
you choose the right doctor, the odds are greatly in your favor.)  You
also have to have the right temperament for watchful waiting.  I would
have become obsessed with my PSA, I think, and panicky over anything
that might remotely have looked like an indication that the cancer was
growing.

> I did a google search and unsurprisingly there's lots of material there on this
> subject (mostly from this ng of course) but I would like to elicit opinions,
> from those willing to offer, on the best course for me.   I'm in the uk where it

> seems to me we don't, yet anyway, have the in-depth knowledge or jargon relating
> to PCa so please bear with me.
[quoted text clipped - 27 lines]
>
> I'd be most appreciative of any thoughts aired.
lyn - 26 May 2004 01:02 GMT
>You'll find some good information on watchful waiting at the following
>websites:
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>that might remotely have looked like an indication that the cancer was
>growing.

Yes, I'm coming to realise that WW isn't just a passive process but could take a
high toll on the nerves.
As things stand, I'm tempted to give WW a crack to see how I feel while waiting
for each new PSA count or biopsy result - if I start to become obsessive about
it then real action will clearly be the only course.

>> I did a google search and unsurprisingly there's lots of material there on this
>> subject (mostly from this ng of course) but I would like to elicit opinions,
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>>
>> I'd be most appreciative of any thoughts aired.
Steve Kramer - 25 May 2004 16:11 GMT
From the sounds of it, Lyn, you might be Gleason 6 (maybe even 5) and Stage
T1a.

Of course you need to know exactly what you stage and Gleason are before
making a decision, but rather than a dilema, we'd like to think you have an
opportunity.  At 46, I had no such decision.  Like you said, after a certain
age, you lose the decision again.  However, at 57?, you can make a choice.

If all is very low and non-aggressive, I think you should lean towards
prostatectomy.  If you get up to a Gleason of 7, especially 4+3=7, and if
you are T2c or so, then radiation might be very attractive.  But, if it is
thought to be small and non-agressive, if for no other than your mental
outlook, I'd have it taken from me.

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Prostate Cancer Survivor (so far), not a doctor
PSA 16 10/17/2000 @ 46
Biopsy 11/01/2000 G7 (3+4), T2c
RRP 12/15/2000
PSA  .1  .1  .1  .27  .37  .75
EBRT 05-07/2002 @ 47
PSA  .34 .22 .15 .21 .32
Erection 05/12/2003 @ 48
HTbegins 07/21/2003 @ 48
PSA  .07 .05
Lupron 7/03, 8/03, 12/03, 4/04

> I did a google search and unsurprisingly there's lots of material there on this
> subject (mostly from this ng of course) but I would like to elicit opinions,
[quoted text clipped - 30 lines]
>
> I'd be most appreciative of any thoughts aired.
lyn - 26 May 2004 01:02 GMT
>From the sounds of it, Lyn, you might be Gleason 6 (maybe even 5) and Stage
>T1a.

I must try and get hold of those figures.

>Of course you need to know exactly what you stage and Gleason are before
>making a decision, but rather than a dilema, we'd like to think you have an
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>thought to be small and non-agressive, if for no other than your mental
>outlook, I'd have it taken from me.

But if it is low and non-agressive would this not be a candidate for watching?
Ray Walsh - 27 May 2004 01:45 GMT
This has probably been said in this thread, but just in case it gasn't, I'll
repeat it.

> But if it is low and non-agressive would this not be a candidate for watching?

I've been reading this group and researching for 4 years, and if there has
been a valid technique for testing and identifying "low and non-aggressive"
PCa, I must have missed it.

I believe, on the basis of current testing protocols, that it is no possible
to accurately determine that PCa is low and non-aggressive. By its nature
there are too many variables, both within individuals and within the PCa
itself. For example, not all PCa is non-aggressive and slow growing as many
people believe -- and there is no definitive way of assessing this.

At age 60 I was diagnosed with 3+3, stage T1c, with 1 of 12 core showing
minimal PCa. This is a pretty standard set of readings for "low-end" PCa
diagnosis. Three months later, the post-op pathology reported "extensive PCa
throughout the capsule" with PCa cells very close to perineural invasion.
Last week my uro told me he didn't need to see me again unless my PSA went
up.

Initially I considered WW. I thought I was an ideal candidate for it.
Research supported my thinking. Then, I read a post that made a huge impact
on me. I can't remember who posted it, but I thankful that he did. At the
very end of his post he asked this simple question: "Waiting for what?
Death?"

Some weeks ago I posted information about my brother-in-law's brother. We
are similar in age and were diagnosed within days of each other. He went for
WW. I opted for aggressive RRP. As near as can be said, at this stage I am
regarded as "cured" (I use that term for simplicity and with caution because
I know there is no such thing). He, after 4 years of WW has PCa that has
spread to his bones, suffers from intense and constant pain, and is
receiving heavy but palliative hormone treatment for final stage PCa.

I know it is impossible to draw conclusions from a comparative sample of 2,
but hopefully it sounds a warning. By all means research and make your own
decision about your treatment. But be aware that by waiting you may bypass
or eliminate from forms of treatment.

The final choice is yours, but please consider every factor carefully and
remember:

"Waiting for what? Death?"

Ray Walsh
Armadale WA Australia
Steve Kramer - 27 May 2004 03:10 GMT
I don't beleive so.  I don't imgine that anyone under 70 would consider WW
unless they had such other problems as to lessen their life expectency
significantly.

Signature

Prostate Cancer Survivor (so far), not a doctor
PSA 16 10/17/2000 @ 46
Biopsy 11/01/2000 G7 (3+4), T2c
RRP 12/15/2000
PSA  .1  .1  .1  .27  .37  .75
EBRT 05-07/2002 @ 47
PSA  .34 .22 .15 .21 .32
Erection 05/12/2003 @ 48
HTbegins 07/21/2003 @ 48
PSA  .07 .05
Lupron 7/03, 8/03, 12/03, 4/04

> >From the sounds of it, Lyn, you might be Gleason 6 (maybe even 5) and Stage
> >T1a.
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> >opportunity.  At 46, I had no such decision.  Like you said, after a certain
> >age, you lose the decision again.  However, at 57?, you can make a
choice.

> >If all is very low and non-aggressive, I think you should lean towards
> >prostatectomy.  If you get up to a Gleason of 7, especially 4+3=7, and if
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
> But if it is low and non-agressive would this not be a candidate for watching?
Heather - 27 May 2004 19:37 GMT
Perhaps I can put it into a few choice words.  Ron was just turning 71 when
we saw the oncologist (not rad onc) for a second opinion.....PSA was 10.5,
Gleason 4 +3, etc.

Dr. Reingold didn't recommend WW at all......he simply stated "you have to
have big balls to do that"!!

Ron cracked up and that was the first time he laughed since his diagnosis.
He opted for what all 3 doctors recommended......radiation.

Listen to what the guys are telling you......watchful waiting is not at all
in the ballpark (oops, bad pun) for someone your age.

Heather

> I don't beleive so.  I don't imgine that anyone under 70 would consider WW
> unless they had such other problems as to lessen their life expectency
[quoted text clipped - 26 lines]
> > But if it is low and non-agressive would this not be a candidate for
> watching?
Leonard Evens - 25 May 2004 16:53 GMT
> I did a google search and unsurprisingly there's lots of material there on this
> subject (mostly from this ng of course) but I would like to elicit opinions,
[quoted text clipped - 18 lines]
> newsgroup where these things are discussed and said I would like to be armed
> with something definite but he wasn't forthcoming.  Pleasant chap though.

A lot depends on the Gleason score, so you really need to find out about
that.   "Low-grade, non-aggressive" could mean anything from Gleason 4
(or lower) to Gleason 6.  Gleason 6 seems to be the most common.  If
that is the case, I think you are a bit young for watchful waiting.  But
keep in mind that it is really life expectancy which is relevant, not
age.  My cancer was diagnosed as a Gleason 7 at age 67, but I was in
pretty good health and had a life expectancy of 15 years or more.  So
there was no question in my mind that watchful waiting was not a
reasonable choice.

Unfortunately, there are a lot of uncertainties in all of this, and what
you choose depends on how risk adversive you are.  If I had even a 20
percent chance of developing metastatic prostate cancer within 10 years,
I would do what I could to avoid that.   But no will can tell you with
any certainty what the risks are.

You can find out more about these matters by reading Patrick Walsh's
Guide to Surviving Prostate Cancer.

> So that's all I have so far.  I'm to have a meeting with a surgeon and then a
> radiologist to discuss the pro-active options and the WW option - if I go for it
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>
> I'd be most appreciative of any thoughts aired.
lyn - 26 May 2004 01:02 GMT
>> I did a google search and unsurprisingly there's lots of material there on this
>> subject (mostly from this ng of course) but I would like to elicit opinions,
[quoted text clipped - 28 lines]
>there was no question in my mind that watchful waiting was not a
>reasonable choice.

Not coming from particularly healthy stock I don't feel optimistic about my life
expectancy (I'm talking about a list of other intra-family ails here - not PCa).
But that's a useful insight - for me, I think it would tend to bias the scales
in favour of WW.

>Unfortunately, there are a lot of uncertainties in all of this, and what
>you choose depends on how risk adversive you are.  If I had even a 20
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>You can find out more about these matters by reading Patrick Walsh's
>Guide to Surviving Prostate Cancer.

which I shall certainly do - thanks.

>> So that's all I have so far.  I'm to have a meeting with a surgeon and then a
>> radiologist to discuss the pro-active options and the WW option - if I go for it
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>>
>> I'd be most appreciative of any thoughts aired.
ron - 25 May 2004 17:44 GMT
Hi Lyn...Unfortunately, today there are no reliable tests to tell the
newly diagnosed man whether he has indolent or aggressive PCa.  What
is known is that about 25% of the men with low-risk PCa (T1c, PSA<10,
GS<7) and who practiced WW, have not progressed after 8 years of
observation (J. Moul et. al., Journal of Clinical Oncology, Vol 21, No
21 (November 1), 2003: pp 4001-4008; Temporarily Deferred Therapy
(watchful waiting) for Men Younger Than 70 Years and With Low-Risk
Localized Prostate Cancer in the Prostate-Specific Antigen Era).
Hopkins has defined a subset of low-risk men that have what they term
"insignificant" or "low-volume" disease
(http://urology.jhu.edu/diseases/prostate/management.html).
Presumably, the number of men with non-progressive PCa in this group
would be even larger than the 25% found in Moul's study.  Find out
what all of your stats are (it's your right to know) and determine
which risk group you fit into.

Traditionally WW has been a consideration for men with a remaining
lifespan of 10-15 years, but it is becoming somewhat more common among
younger men today.  WW is a bit of a misnomer as most who practice it
seem to make significant lifestyle changes (stress reduction, diet,
exercise) and actively monitor the status of their cancer.  Color
Doppler by an artist is one of the monitoring tools used.  It would be
highly recommended to have a Color Doppler run at the outset to make
sure the cancer is not near the edge of the capsule.  While WW does
not have the morbidities associated with the more traditional
treatments, it does have its own set of drawbacks.  For example, some
men would have psychological difficulty living day-to-day with cancer
inside of them.  Further, it has yet to be demonstrated that men who
start with WW and later move on to traditional treatment have not
"lost" anything.  Moul is currently studying this question.

You are wise to consider WW among your various treatment options.  WW
isn't right for most men, it wasn't right for me, but only by
considering all options can you make an informed decision and a
decision that is best for you...Best wishes and good health, Ron

> I did a google search and unsurprisingly there's lots of material there on this
> subject (mostly from this ng of course) but I would like to elicit opinions,
[quoted text clipped - 30 lines]
>
> I'd be most appreciative of any thoughts aired.
lyn - 26 May 2004 01:02 GMT
>Hi Lyn...Unfortunately, today there are no reliable tests to tell the
>newly diagnosed man whether he has indolent or aggressive PCa.  What
[quoted text clipped - 17 lines]
>seem to make significant lifestyle changes (stress reduction, diet,
>exercise) and actively monitor the status of their cancer.

yes, I'm pretty sure if I take up WW i'll be concientious about trying to lead a
healthier life.

Color
>Doppler by an artist is one of the monitoring tools used.  It would be
>highly recommended to have a Color Doppler run at the outset to make
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>start with WW and later move on to traditional treatment have not
>"lost" anything.  Moul is currently studying this question.

that's an intriguing line of research - is anything available to read?  Am I
being too sanguine in assuming that if my cancer is not immediately threatening
(of course I must do something about getting hold of my figures) then a short
bout of WW is unlikely to be prejudicial to the success of a traditional
treatment if subsequently followed?  I'm thinking here that perhaps I can at
least allow myself the luxury of getting to know in reasonable detail what all
those active options are and taking the time to do so.

>You are wise to consider WW among your various treatment options.  WW
>isn't right for most men, it wasn't right for me, but only by
>considering all options can you make an informed decision and a
>decision that is best for you...Best wishes and good health, Ron

much appreciated - thanks.

>> I did a google search and unsurprisingly there's lots of material there on this
>> subject (mostly from this ng of course) but I would like to elicit opinions,
[quoted text clipped - 30 lines]
>>
>> I'd be most appreciative of any thoughts aired.
ron - 26 May 2004 15:21 GMT
> that's an intriguing line of research - is anything available to read?

Lyn...Take a look at Moul's article referenced in my earlier post.
Also, the following link will take you to some information about WW
studies going on at Hopkins
http://urology.jhu.edu/prostate/cancer.php?var=advice1.php

>  Am I
> being too sanguine in assuming that if my cancer is not immediately
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> least allow myself the luxury of getting to know in reasonable detail what all
> those active options are and taking the time to do so.

Two published studies suggest that waiting a few months from the time
of diagnosis in order to make a treatment decision is generally OK for
low-risk men.  Again, you need to find out what risk group you are in
and then confirm it by having an expert biopsy reading (see
http://www.prostate-help.org/cagleex.htm for a listing of expert PCa
pathologists)...Best wishes and good health, Ron
Chuck McClellan - 25 May 2004 17:55 GMT
> I did a google search and unsurprisingly there's lots of material there on this
> subject (mostly from this ng of course) but I would like to elicit opinions,
[quoted text clipped - 30 lines]
>
> I'd be most appreciative of any thoughts aired.

lyn,
My PSA was 7.7 before I went in for the biopsy at age 55.   I then did
a bunch of studying of my options and made my decision for RRP.  It
was based on several things: one was that of the ten cores the uro
took 4 had cancerous tissue,  I wanted it out NOW, and that should
radiation in either form (seeds or EMRT) fail then surgery wasn't a
follow-up option.  As it has turned out the Gleeson 3+3+6 T1c or T2
(dependly on which report I am reading)was at the apex of the
prostate.  Now I am on Lupron (HT) and doing the EMRT.  I can't say
whether or not going the other route would have made any difference
but I am not looking back. Hindsight, or coulda, shoulda and woulda's,
just don't even factor in.
I learned a lot from listening and reading what other PCa patients had
to say about their experiences and the decision made was, I feel, the
right one for me.
Hope this helped in a small way.

Chuck McClellan
lyn - 26 May 2004 01:02 GMT
>> I did a google search and unsurprisingly there's lots of material there on this
>> subject (mostly from this ng of course) but I would like to elicit opinions,
[quoted text clipped - 49 lines]
>
>Chuck McClellan

Many thanks Chuck....It's only 24 hours since my diagnosis was delivered.  I'd
have to say that at this very moment I'm not horrified by my cancer although I
have no way whatsoever of knowing if this will change sooner or later.  
Alan Meyer - 25 May 2004 22:40 GMT
...
> So that's all I have so far.  I'm to have a meeting with a surgeon and then a
> radiologist to discuss the pro-active options and the WW option - if I go for it
> - will consist of PSA checks every 2 months with a twice-yearly biopsy.
..

This is such a tough decision!

If you get treatment, and don't die of cancer, you'll never know
whether the treatment saved you or was unnecessary.

If the treatment results in nasty side effects - incontinence,
impotence, complications - you might wind up wishing you
had never done it.  Some guys come through surgery or
radiation with no lasting after effects.  Some guys don't.

On the other hand, if you wind up with metastatic cancer,
you'll kick yourself every day for not having treated it earlier.

It might be that more extensive (and unfortunately, expensive)
testing will tell your doctor more about your condition.  One
poster suggested a color doppler ultrasound test.  I was treated
in a clinical trial, and they did a whole battery of tests (partly
because they needed accurate baseline information to get the
most scientific information they could from the trial.)  One of
those tests was a series of MRIs done with an antenna in the
rectum.  They came out with remarkably clear pictures that
showed the tumor in considerable detail - and showed that it
was fairly big and was pressed right up against, if not through,
the prostate capsule wall.

The National Health probably won't authorize anything like that.

I don't know what to recommend about treatment vs. WW.
However, if you do opt for WW, I would strongly emphasize
the "watchful" part over the "waiting" part.  Check often.  If you
see the PSA creeping up, don't delay.  Get it treated.  It sounds
like your doctor is very strong on that with 2 month PSA tests
and twice yearly biopsies.

Best of luck.

   Alan
lyn - 26 May 2004 01:02 GMT
>...
>> So that's all I have so far.  I'm to have a meeting with a surgeon and
[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
>had never done it.  Some guys come through surgery or
>radiation with no lasting after effects.  Some guys don't.

Quite, at the moment my thinking about this is dominated by fear of those
side-effects.

>On the other hand, if you wind up with metastatic cancer,
>you'll kick yourself every day for not having treated it earlier.
[quoted text clipped - 23 lines]
>
>    Alan

Cheers.
ButtercupsDad@dog.net - 26 May 2004 13:23 GMT
Do not "fear" the side effects.  There is no "right" answer for this.
You have to make a decision that can have many ramifications.  You are
faced with learning all you can, weighing the options, and then making
that treatment decision.  Then go forward and do not look back.  What
will come will come.  You can live with leaking urine.  The
overwhelming odds are that at worse you will end up like me with
having to wear 1-2 pads per day.  There are lots of guys out there who
do not need pads at all.  In my case I had ED going in, so the
impotence is not really all that different from what I faced prior to
the surgery.  Trust me, you can survive the side effects (I had RRP,
so no experience with radiation side effects).

Good luck to you.  Enjoy every day.  Don't let "fear" dominate you.

Thank you.
David S.

>>...
>
>Quite, at the moment my thinking about this is dominated by fear of those
>side-effects.
ButtercupsDad@dog.net - 26 May 2004 13:16 GMT
I can definitely say that despite the complications, incontinence and
impotence, that I do not regret that I had the surgery and got rid of
the cancer (or 95% sure).  

>...
>
>If the treatment results in nasty side effects - incontinence,
>impotence, complications - you might wind up wishing you
>had never done it.  Some guys come through surgery or
>radiation with no lasting after effects.  Some guys don't.
jhlms - 26 May 2004 02:22 GMT
Lyn
I have read the voluminous threads on your post, and it seems to me that the
the concensus of opinion is that you really don't have enough information to
make an *informed decision*.  I am not familiar with the health care system
in the UK; however, please be aware that we in the "colonies" are an
independent bunch.
Get a second opinion....ask that the biopsy slides be sent to a second
pathologist for a reading (after researching for experts in prostate cancer
pathology)...have them sent to a SECOND Urologist of your choosing for
determination...*KNOW* your gleason scores and what they mean (there's
plethora information on the web concerning PCa)....know what the options are
relative to your gleasons (re: age, overall health, life expectancy, hopes
for quality of life....what you'd be willing to give up in favor of ?....
You must know, KNOW, *KNOW*!!!
Do NOT feel embarassed or reluctant to ask for the second opinion.....it's
YOUR cancer that you're dealing with, not the physician's.  It's YOUR life
expectancy that you're dealing with, not the physician's.  It's YOUR quality
of life that is being determined, not the physician's.
(Not to mention YOUR money that's paying for all this!!!)
Be informed, then make the decision based upon ALL of the data YOU can
aquire.
Lyn, it's all up to YOU, but don't be complacent.  Be procative in your
health, and your future.  Do the research.  It sounds like you might have
the time (and that's the key).
Sorry.....the others on this newsgroup will attest that I'm very
long-winded........the above proved only so.
Am interested, and will follow your progress......
Respectfully,
Jeff

> I did a google search and unsurprisingly there's lots of material there on this
> subject (mostly from this ng of course) but I would like to elicit opinions,
[quoted text clipped - 30 lines]
>
> I'd be most appreciative of any thoughts aired.
Beverley - 26 May 2004 04:57 GMT
WW is just ducky fine if you already have one foot in the grave so to speak.
If you were 57 years old and in congestive heart failure the a bunch of
other medical then WW would be just fine. But WW is a bit like standing in
the middle of a busy highway waiting to be hit by a big lorry. Because WW is
just waiting to die, slowly and very painfully.

Now, there is nothing wrong with taking some time to educate yourself about
PC and the various treatments. Considering the biopsy findings you have
probably caught this in the very early stages. Therefore just about every
known treatment would probably be available to you. So you need to spend
some time reading up on the various treatments and finding out who does
which and at what hospitals in your area.

Give yourself 3 to 4 months to make a decision on the type of treatment and
which doctor where. Talk to a radiation oncologist, your urologist, check
with the large university hospitals and see what is going on there and what
it would take to get into their program.

Every treatment has some side effects but a few side effects sure beats the
alternative -death. And don't figure because you have treated your PC that
you will never be the same. Things change. But that doesn't mean it a bad
thing. Most guys think if the treat their PC that they will become impotent
or incontinent. Either can happen usually for a brief time if you surgically
remove the prostate (RP) but not always. And the younger you are the better
your chances or not having a problem with that. It is extremely rare with
brachytherapy - that doesn't mean it won't happen but it usually doesn't
happen. But these are the things that you need to look at and then decide
just what you want to do.

Quite honestly I think men with loving, supportive partners have less
problems then those without. If you have a partner then you need to talk to
the partner, together you can work on the research and discuss the
side-effects of each treatment. Ultimately it is your body therefore your
decision on treatment.

One of the best websites has had some problems lately and might not be up
and running  but keep checking on it. http://www.phoenix5.org

http://www.cooleyville.com/
Is an excellent site for information on brachytherapy and the other
radiation treatments.

If you have questions along the way I'm sure you will find the folks here
willing to give their experiences on their treatment. I think just about
every possible medical treatment for PC is represented here amoungst the
posters. And just about every age group is also represented. We've also been
known to answer some very "delicate" questions with honesty.
Bev (the wife of a PC survivor who had brachytherapy)

> I did a google search and unsurprisingly there's lots of material there on this
> subject (mostly from this ng of course) but I would like to elicit opinions,
[quoted text clipped - 30 lines]
>
> I'd be most appreciative of any thoughts aired.
ron - 26 May 2004 15:37 GMT
> WW is just ducky fine if you already have one foot in the grave so to speak.
> If you were 57 years old and in congestive heart failure the a bunch of
> other medical then WW would be just fine. But WW is a bit like standing in
> the middle of a busy highway waiting to be hit by a big lorry. Because WW is
> just waiting to die, slowly and very painfully.

Strong words Bev.  Are you aware of a study that shows that if a man
practices WW and his PCa stats remain stable over time, then, if at
some later date, if and when his stats do start to change, his chances
for succesful treatment have been diminished?  How would you explain
the differences between your statements and Moul's studies?  No one is
advocating WW for ever.  If it fails move on to more invasive
treatment.  The Hopkins work I referenced up above notes that 30% of
their WW patients moved on to definitive treatment; and 90% of those
men were curable.  They suspect that the other 10% were underdiagnosed
at the outset.  Hence the need for expert biopsy, color doppler, etc.
for the man who selects WW...Best wishes and good health, Ron
MH - 27 May 2004 03:30 GMT
Hi, Lyn....
You've received many replies to your post.  The overall consensus seems to
have been the suggestion that you consider all your alternatives and then
*choose some form of treatment*.  Of course, the final decision is up to
you.  But you have come to a forum where everyone has sought treatment of
some type... so I guess it's hard for us to understand why someone would
even consider WW.

In my own case, I was diagnosed at age 51 and had LRP 18 months ago.  I am
happy with my choice and would do it all again the same way.  I had been
keeping my PSA checked after an uncle was diagnosed at age 68.... His doctor
was from the *old school*, meaning he had always done things the way he did
them.... and believed in WW.  My uncle blindly followed his advice.  Six
years later he was dead.... after a very long, slow, excruciatingly painful
struggle.  So for me WW was not even a consideration.

Whatever you choose, I wish you well.

MikeH

> > I did a google search and unsurprisingly there's lots of material there on
> this
[quoted text clipped - 53 lines]
> >
> > I'd be most appreciative of any thoughts aired.
lyn - 27 May 2004 16:50 GMT
I'm grateful for everyone's reply and thanks again to those who followed up too.
I'm on the move for a couple of weeks so will be out of touch but would
appreciate a chance to pursue this further later on - this notwithstanding the
fact that for many on this NG I can see the advice is to act NOW.  I read the NY
times article referenced by a poster here, and I note also that this coincides
with a similar report (probably the same source) in the UK which undermines the
proactive cause.  What struck me most about my last meeting with the urologist
(I've yet to be introduced to the surgeon and radiologist) was his absolute
neutrality. At the end of the meeting he even asked to be reassured (by me) that
he hadn't shown any bias in favour of a particular treatment.  He hadn't, and
for me this has the ring of uncertainty about it, a sense that figures, in spite
of their abundance, hasn't yet provided solid bases or clear conclusions for
action.  

I'm still uncommitted but will be reading up what I can (thanks to all for
various refs) and may well suddenly decide to jump the WW ship after the next
PSA which I would expect soon. If the anxiety of waiting and wondering weighs on
me as much as I can see it has on some of the posters here then I will have
first-hand experience of that particular problem.

Thanks again.
Outlivecancer - 08 Jun 2004 12:55 GMT
Hi Lyn,                                                    You have begun an
intelligent journey into the world of surviving prostate cancer.Be careful not
to let ambivalence carry the day by using conflicting arguments to create
paralysis of analysis..As Omar Khayam said, I try to quote:             "When I
was young I did oft
freguent..................................................Learned men and heard
great argument...............................................But always did I
go out the door...............  as in I went.                                  
          The info in your last post seems to lean toward WW, don't forget
that the NH
has a vested interest in WW.I fear you may have also misread your DR. who may
just be holding his cards close to the vest.
The old cliche of more die with it than of it
is rationally wrong.More people are alive right now than have ever lived and
they live longer.The quality of life can suck with perfect health it's really
about a passion for life,regardless.
Also, why not do bone scans or other tests...because of NH costs...way too few
biopsies and they don't know what kind of cancer,they are wrong if they say the
word {sic}"non-aggressive".Cancer is the chaos of cells,lifesyle change is part
of the campaign, an imperative in the will to be a survivor. Be a survivor,
peace and blessings.
 
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