i just did a search on amazon and found that they have both new and used
copies of "making love again" by virginia and keith laken starting from
7.47 to 17.47.  

it has a 5 star rating and i've read the book.  excellent insight and
would agree with the 5 star rating.

it is about the husband (keith) who discovers he has prostate cancer and
decides on having an RP.  the book is about their log entries.  what
each personally felt,  what actually happened, and what problems they
incurred, and how they overcame them.  

i feel that it is a good book for both partners to read to understand
what lies ahead.

i'm not pushing this book on anyone, but if everyone here is wanting to
get an idea what is going to happen or has happened and what they can do
to get back what they had.  

there are also some books in this same area of interest on amazon, but i
haven't seen them and can not comment on them.

hope this helps,

~ curtis

knowledge is power - growing old is mandatory - growing wise is optional