Robert died at about 5pm. He had been suffering since last night. Today is
my birthday. We were with him. Sometimes people go peacefully, but he
didn't. I don't know what to do. He wants to be cremated and scattered
anywhere. He did not want a service. He was a simple man with a huge
heart. It's just not possible for me to write anymore right now. For 15
years he looked after us. Now today, on my birthday. My heart is
broken..........Chris
Gail - 14 Mar 2008 01:30 GMT
How very sad, Chris. He sounded like an amazing man. You will always have
him inside of you. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Gail
> Robert died at about 5pm. He had been suffering since last night. Today
> is my birthday. We were with him. Sometimes people go peacefully, but he
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> years he looked after us. Now today, on my birthday. My heart is
> broken..........Chris
xela56 - 14 Mar 2008 01:50 GMT
So sorry to hear about your loss.
Alex
shellz - 14 Mar 2008 04:11 GMT
> Robert died at about 5pm. He had been suffering since last night. Today is
> my birthday. We were with him. Sometimes people go peacefully, but he
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> years he looked after us. Now today, on my birthday. My heart is
> broken..........Chris
its nice to see others in pain as I am. My father is dying of cancer.
first mouth,then lung. now everyone is flipping on me because I drink
and they say that's why he died. It's so hard right now being so
hated...Michelle
J - 14 Mar 2008 08:46 GMT
> > Robert died at about 5pm. He had been suffering since last night. Today is
> > my birthday. We were with him. Sometimes people go peacefully, but he
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> and they say that's why he died. It's so hard right now being so
> hated...Michelle
I'm sorry to hear about your father.
Blame won't help things now.
Opinions aren't (necessarily) fact.
Take care of you now.
J
J - 14 Mar 2008 08:40 GMT
> Robert died at about 5pm. He had been suffering since last night. Today is
> my birthday. We were with him. Sometimes people go peacefully, but he
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> years he looked after us. Now today, on my birthday. My heart is
> broken..........Chris
And the Lord lifted Robert into His loving arms.
Robert's not suffering anymore.
Must be so hard for you, Chris.
You will get through this.
Hugs
J
Marc Bissonnette - 14 Mar 2008 15:27 GMT
> Robert died at about 5pm. He had been suffering since last night.
> Today is my birthday. We were with him. Sometimes people go
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> anymore right now. For 15 years he looked after us. Now today, on my
> birthday. My heart is broken..........Chris
May God speed his soul, Christine, and smile upon yours.

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csm7532@hotmail.com - 14 Mar 2008 16:58 GMT
> Robert died at about 5pm. He had been suffering since last night. Today is
> my birthday. We were with him. Sometimes people go peacefully, but he
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> years he looked after us. Now today, on my birthday. My heart is
> broken..........Chris
Chris,
I'm so sorry for your loss. This has to be the worst birthday ever.
Remember that the service is for the living, a chance to provide
mutual support and to remember the deceased together. May your next
birthday be a happier one, with memories of Robert's life.
Sincerely,
CSM
Janet Wilder - 14 Mar 2008 23:02 GMT
> Robert died at about 5pm. He had been suffering since last night. Today is
> my birthday. We were with him. Sometimes people go peacefully, but he
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> years he looked after us. Now today, on my birthday. My heart is
> broken..........Chris
My heart is with you, Chris.

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Belle gin - 15 Mar 2008 00:19 GMT
> Robert died at about 5pm. He had been suffering since last night. Today is
> my birthday. We were with him. Sometimes people go peacefully, but he
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> years he looked after us. Now today, on my birthday. My heart is
> broken..........Chris
I am sorry for your loss Christine. May the happy memories you have of
Robert comfort you during this sad time.
My dad died on my birthday, which was also Father's Day. I believe a
time will come when I will be able to remember the good times around
that time of year. I think it will be so if I wish it to be.
tanadashoes - 15 Mar 2008 01:04 GMT
I'm sorry Christine. There are no words to make one feel better at a time
like this. Please accept my sympathy and kind thoughts for all you've been
through.
Pam S.
> Robert died at about 5pm. He had been suffering since last night. Today
> is my birthday. We were with him. Sometimes people go peacefully, but he
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> years he looked after us. Now today, on my birthday. My heart is
> broken..........Chris
sharx35 - 15 Mar 2008 01:12 GMT
> Robert died at about 5pm. He had been suffering since last night. Today
> is my birthday. We were with him. Sometimes people go peacefully, but he
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> years he looked after us. Now today, on my birthday. My heart is
> broken..........Chris
I don't know what to say, except that I am so sorry for your loss.
MZB - 15 Mar 2008 23:21 GMT
> Robert died at about 5pm. He had been suffering since last night. Today
> is my birthday. We were with him. Sometimes people go peacefully, but he
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> years he looked after us. Now today, on my birthday. My heart is
> broken..........Chris
I'd like to add my condolences--there's not much more to
say.
Mel
pepsicaps@webtv.net - 23 Mar 2008 20:10 GMT
I am sorry for your loss....IF you can look at it like this ,just maybe
Robert was giving you his gift ....so you would not see him in any more
pain.
Nancy
Figgertoes - 16 Mar 2008 16:38 GMT
> Robert died at about 5pm. He had been suffering since last night.
> Today is my birthday. We were with him. Sometimes people go
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> anymore right now. For 15 years he looked after us. Now today, on my
> birthday. My heart is broken..........Chris
Chris,
I am so sorry to hear about Robert & that he left on your birthday. His
suffering is over & he is in a better place, although he has left a hole in
your life & heart.
It might help you to gather friends/family who cared about Robert & spend
an hour or so sharing rememberances. When stories start floating around
the room, they trigger other memories of happier times. Sort through
pictures/put together a scrapbook of memories of when Robert was healthy &
vital. The essence of Robert's time here is in the the lifetime you
shared, not entirely in his last months of suffering. You want to remember
those too.
I will be thinking of you.
Fig
Steve Gossman - 20 Mar 2008 00:28 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss, my heart and love go out to you
Steve
> Robert died at about 5pm. He had been suffering since last night. Today
> is my birthday. We were with him. Sometimes people go peacefully, but he
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> years he looked after us. Now today, on my birthday. My heart is
> broken..........Chris
anon - 21 Mar 2008 04:32 GMT
Dear Chris,
I just wanted you to know that I read your story and was very touched.
In what you wrote I can feel that you loved Robert. I have no doubt that he
felt it from you. And I am sure that made a great deal of difference for
him.
In that sense, Robert was fortunate. To have someone who loves you is the
world.
My heart goes out to you.
Anon