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Somewhat Ooff-Topic: Palliative care and suicide
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46erjoe - 19 Mar 2007 01:15 GMT As I watched my brother die of stomach cancer, I noted that he was being given heavy does of morphine to keep the pain down. Eventually, a level of the drug was reached where he was no longer responding to pain OR ANYTHING. Then recently someone told me, I don't know how much of this is true or not, that in my brother's case, that is probably what "took" his life - the morphine slowed his body functions down so much that they could not continue and everything just shut down. If this is true, then my brother did not die of his disease, but rather from the chemicals that were being put into him.
For me this raises an important issue, namely, are we actually killing (literally) our loved ones with kindness? If I choose to "go" that way, am I not choosing suicide as my means of leaving this world? This has tremendous moral consequences for me.
Anyone?
Figgertoes - 19 Mar 2007 02:04 GMT > As I watched my brother die of stomach cancer, I noted that he was > being given heavy does of morphine to keep the pain down. Eventually, [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] > > Anyone? Answer ?s with other ?s? What if it takes tremendous doses to pallitate? What if the patient is beyond communicating? What if no one knows exactly the dosage that will keep one hovering on the living side? What are the other choices? Is it suicide or murder? Absent an autopsy, how do we know exactly what pushed the person to the other side? Wouldn't autopsy be too late?
I saw this too & wondered, but whatever it took at that point I was grateful when it happened even though it meant I wasn't there at the time. When a person is very close to death, do the moral distinctions hold? I sure don't know the answers, but these are issues you want to consider in advance. If there is no great pain, there would be no problem. Socks' pain was unbearable & it sounds like Penny's was too. We could not know the extent of consciousness, but there seemed to be none or little. The look of peace on his face after death following days of torture made me glad he was able to go, In Socks' case, he was still living after taking far larger doses than anyone had ever heard of of several pain & sedation drugs. Most people seem to slip quietly into death, but what if it is not that easy?
Maybe Mike has some thoughts. Have you found any writings on this?
Thinking of you, Fig
Alex - 19 Mar 2007 02:05 GMT > As I watched my brother die of stomach cancer, I noted that he was > being given heavy does of morphine to keep the pain down. Eventually, [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] > > Anyone? I think some back door promises are made between patient and physician when to call it quits. The doctors give the patients access to the medications and let the patient decide when the time is right. I often wrestle with this issue myself, it doesn't seem right to end one's own life as a matter of convenience. But in the long run the cancer is killing them, the choice is do you take medication to keep yourself comfortable or die a very painful death. So in answer to your question, I think it is wrong to purposely take a dose of whatever drug you want for the sole purpose of ending it all but equally right to take as much pain medication to keep yourself comfortable even if it will hasten your own demise.
Alex
starfleet - 19 Mar 2007 08:18 GMT 46erjoe schreef:
> For me this raises an important issue, namely, are we actually killing > (literally) our loved ones with kindness? If I choose to "go" that [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > Anyone? > I don't think you can call it suicide if the effect of keeping pain under control with morphine can be one "forgets" to breath. If it feels like that for you you can choose to be in pain and not take morphine an/or sleeping pills to slip away from life unconsciously. In Holland there is a strict line between palliative sedation and euthanasia and for the religious people the same is true, though euthanasia is legal. Where as with euthanasia you choose for an active ending of your life, with sedation the goal is not to suffer. The side effect can be that one passes on a few days earlier than without the high doses of sedatives. There a very different goals, I think that is a crucial difference from a moral point of view.
Anne
Mike Radcliffe - 19 Mar 2007 09:10 GMT > As I watched my brother die of stomach cancer, I noted that he was > being given heavy does of morphine to keep the pain down. Eventually, [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] > > Anyone? If a doctor or anyone else kills a patient it is murder/manslaughter/negligence or accident. If a person takes his own life it is suicide or accident. Euthenasia is a euphemism for murder/manslaughter. Assisted suicide is a contradiction in terms. There is no need, in a well run, caring health system for anyone to suffer unbearable amounts of pain. While a large proportion of cancer patients suffer pain it is almost always possible to alleviate this to acceptable levels with conventional analgaesics and almost all of the rest can be treated well with more unconventional methods. Where pain and other symptoms cannot be adequately controlled then the patient has the choice to be sedated out of it but morphine would not be the drug used to do that. For anyone who is used to opiates, and that would be almost every cancer patient with moderate to severe pain, it would be very difficult to attain a lethal dose orally and the injectable dose would also need to be very large to be certain. Despite what doctors say I am loath to believe that they kill patients as often as they would have us believe.
Being in the business of palliative care it happens that occasionally a carer will ask if we have killed a patient or even accuse us if the patient dies shortly after an injection of morphine given for pain relief. This is just coincidence. A person in the terminal phase is likely to die any time and this is often the time that symptoms are needing more aggressive symptom control.
To put things into a little perspective there are many people out there with chronic pain conditions suffering very much more pain that is often much more difficult to control than cancer pain. The cancer patient, at least, has an imminent end to his suffering. A 20 year old chronic back pain patient may have no end in sight and options are less because of this.
I hope this helps.
MIKE
starfleet - 19 Mar 2007 09:21 GMT Mike Radcliffe schreef:
> If a doctor or anyone else kills a patient it is > murder/manslaughter/negligence or accident. If a person takes his own life > it is suicide or accident. Euthenasia is a euphemism for > murder/manslaughter. Assisted suicide is a contradiction in terms. > I really would appreciate it if you put in an "imo" or "I think" when you post something like this especially in this supportgroup.
Anne
J - 19 Mar 2007 10:34 GMT > Mike Radcliffe schreef: > > [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > > Anne ??? It's all "imo" unless it's a quote from a webpage. Unless you mean "in my country" and specify ? J
starfleet - 19 Mar 2007 14:51 GMT J schreef:
> ??? It's all "imo" unless it's a quote from a webpage. > Unless you mean "in my country" and specify ? > J > > It's pretty common and bon ton to present meanings as meanings and facts as facts. Why would there exist words like "in my opnion" "I think" "From my point of view" if we had no use for them in our communication? To me the tone of this post would be completely different with an "imo" or two.
Anne
J - 20 Mar 2007 22:50 GMT > J schreef: > > [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > > Anne In my opinion, they're superfluous. Just like saying "I personally believe" is. J
starfleet - 21 Mar 2007 00:48 GMT J schreef:
> >> J schreef: [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > > I think isn't a pleonasm.
Anne
Figgertoes - 21 Mar 2007 08:27 GMT >> J schreef: >> > [quoted text clipped - 13 lines] > Just like saying "I personally believe" is. > J Hee hee, now even you are doing it!
Fig
J - 21 Mar 2007 09:21 GMT > J <nexsw@nvalid,anon> wrote : > <snip> [quoted text clipped - 6 lines] > > Fig It's contagious. - - It's like deja vu all over again. J
Mike Radcliffe - 21 Mar 2007 06:45 GMT >> If a doctor or anyone else kills a patient it is >> murder/manslaughter/negligence or accident. If a person takes his own [quoted text clipped - 5 lines] > > Anne I think you will find that in all but a very few countries the authorities would actually call the charges as I have described them. The IMO would be your input to contradict these states of law. MIKE
Sharon - 19 Mar 2007 22:35 GMT Mike, Thankyou for your thoughtful answer.You helped me. Sharon
>> As I watched my brother die of stomach cancer, I noted that he was >> being given heavy does of morphine to keep the pain down. Eventually, [quoted text clipped - 49 lines] > > MIKE islavision2004@yahoo.com - 19 Mar 2007 19:42 GMT > As I watched my brother die of stomach cancer, I noted that he was > being given heavy does of morphine to keep the pain down. Eventually, [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] > > Anyone? Who is to say if palliative care shortens or lengthens a life.
I can only see withholding available drugs that relieve suffering, as a form of torture, a cruel and horrible thing to do to someone in the last stage of their life.
Does torture shorten or lengthen a life?
isi
Bozz - 19 Mar 2007 20:25 GMT > As I watched my brother die of stomach cancer, I noted that he was > being given heavy does of morphine to keep the pain down. Eventually, [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] > > Anyone? Whatever, and I mean whatever, makes it more comfortable is the route I choose. Let those not in the situation theorise about it all. At the very blunt end the theories are just meaningless crap.
Ian
Giuditta - 19 Mar 2007 23:59 GMT >> As I watched my brother die of stomach cancer, I noted that he was >> being given heavy does of morphine to keep the pain down. Eventually, [quoted text clipped - 18 lines] > > Ian My aunt was screaming, and I mean screaming and moaning and crying in pain (stomach/kidney/bladder cancer), and the morphine dose had to be increased to help her. I know the continued morphine in increased doses probably ended her life, but what options did the physician have. Her grown children were begging nurses to help make her comfortable, and they would wait on giving her morphine as long as they could, but the last big dose did it. Her screams ended and her peace began. We walk a fine line here.
Giuditta
J - 22 Mar 2007 07:40 GMT > As I watched my brother die of stomach cancer, I noted that he was > being given heavy does of morphine to keep the pain down. Eventually, [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] > > Anyone? We're biochemical beings, Joe. Each time we breathe, there's a chemical reaction. If this is accurate, it's the chemical makeup of the body. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chemical_makeup_of_the_human_body (some of them are listed in our foods) Our brain releases chemicals. There's probably chemicals involved in the sperm fertilizing the egg, the embryo implanting itself so it can grow and come into life. And involved in daily life, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Apoptosis "Between 50 billion and 70 billion cells die each day due to apoptosis in the average human adult."
Cancer creates chemicals. I had a list somewhere but I can't remember where, at the moment.
If chemicals help us live, why not let them help us die (when our bodies can't go on anymore) ?
How'd you find the replies, Joe. Any help? J
46erjoe - 23 Mar 2007 22:19 GMT >> As I watched my brother die of stomach cancer, I noted that he was >> being given heavy does of morphine to keep the pain down. Eventually, [quoted text clipped - 33 lines] >How'd you find the replies, Joe. Any help? >J Just got back from a week of radiation on my liver tumor to reduce pain. And just finished reading these posts.
I think I should talk this over very carefully with my hospice people (doing that this week) and let them know my wishes. I'm still plagued by the what to do if I am in agonizing screaming God-help me pain and my family is standing around wondering what to do. They need to know my wishes ahead of time. Can't put a guilt trip on them.
I sill welcome more replies. I should talk this over with a clergyman. Whoops! I am a clergyman.
joe
betsyb - 23 Mar 2007 22:39 GMT >>> As I watched my brother die of stomach cancer, I noted that he was >>> being given heavy does of morphine to keep the pain down. Eventually, [quoted text clipped - 47 lines] > > joe So I said to myself, self? What shall we do today!! Cripes, Joe, this is a stinking dilemma you are finding yourself in. I wish I had words of wisdom to impart but alas, I have none. I am constantly thinking of you and hoping your trip thru this mess is speedy and painless. Please be smart and put your wishes in writing and have it notarised. Hope that is spelled correctly, looks wrong. I have, and my kids know and have copies. I didn't want them to get soft in the end and mess up my trip. This is my show and I won't have them babying out. Take care and I wish I had pictures of your new home. I bet the scenery is wonderful. I adore mountains. You are in my prayers.
Betsy
starfleet - 23 Mar 2007 23:07 GMT 46erjoe schreef:
> I sill welcome more replies. I should talk this over with a clergyman. > Whoops! I am a clergyman. > > joe > > Joe if you think it's okay to take a little pain medication, why would it be wrong to take more medication for heavy pain and very heavy medication to ease extreme pain. What is the difference from a moral point of view? If the intention is to ease the pain and not to speed up the end of your life it's the same as taking an aspirin when you have a headache. You could make it very clear to your family and doctor that you don't want more medication to shorten the dying itself but you do want to be as comfortable as possible and that they should do whatever they can so you don't die in agony but with dignity.
Anne
Alayne - 24 Mar 2007 11:02 GMT > Just got back from a week of radiation on my liver tumor to reduce > pain. And just finished reading these posts. [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > > joe Hi Joe,
My Tony had a GBM brain tumour and had a few excrutiating headaches with it. His biggest worry was that he would go out with an almighty one when his time came. He spoke with his consultant at the hospice and was reassured that should they ever not be able to gain control the pain, they would move to sedation. This allayed his fear. As it turned out they had to move to sedation for other reasons and when they lifted the sedation he was in a coma. It was a peaceful end Joe and nothing at all like he feared. I felt no guilt at allowing the sedation, although it would shorten his life, to find peace and be pain free was the aim.
Warm Hugs
Alayne
Alex - 24 Mar 2007 15:25 GMT > >> As I watched my brother die of stomach cancer, I noted that he was > >> being given heavy does of morphine to keep the pain down. Eventually, [quoted text clipped - 49 lines] > > - Show quoted text - When my dad was dying, we had issues that we were withdrawing life support, which was an endotracheal tube and vent. He was in a Catholic hospital ( he was not Catholic) but the Catholic priest and his own orthodox priest both supported the decision, in their minds it was a non issue. This did help us with our decision.
Also my husband had stepped out to make a phone call, and over heard the attending doctors speak to each other and they were glad we made the decision since the other choice was a craniotomy.
I guess I am saying even clergy need support ask your colleagues.
Alex
Patrick Mullin - 26 Mar 2007 03:11 GMT >>> As I watched my brother die of stomach cancer, I noted that he was >>> being given heavy does of morphine to keep the pain down. Eventually, [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] >>> >>> Anyone? 46erjoe,
I am neither medically qualified, nor a practicing churchgoer, so please feel free to ignore me ;-)
When my father died in hospice last year, he finally asked for sedation to "let [him] go to sleep". Now, I can see that this may be seen as quasi-suicidal in that he wanted release from his pain and suffering. He may have well died technically from the sedation - without a full post-mortem, we will never know.
However, from the moral perspective, my view is that had he not made that decision, he would have died on the same day (perhaps a different hour), but would have died in agony, with no peace or dignity. He was always going to die from his disease, so I cannot personally see the sin in letting him go in peace.
I realise that your religious moral standards are probably much higher than mine, and I respect that wholeheartedly. However, in my case, I am so grateful that I was there to witness my Dad's death with dignity and peace, rather than see him in pain.
At the end of the day, for me, the outcome was always going to be the same - it was a question of how it happened.
Patrick
Alayne - 26 Mar 2007 07:59 GMT >>>> As I watched my brother die of stomach cancer, I noted that he was >>>> being given heavy does of morphine to keep the pain down. Eventually, [quoted text clipped - 39 lines] > > Patrick Thank you for sharing that Patrick. I've always felt slightly guilty at authorising my late husbands sedation (he was in a hospice with a GBM), although I knew in my heart of hearts that it was the right thing to do. And you're right, the goal to be achieved is peace.
Hugs
Alayne
Caz - 26 Mar 2007 09:46 GMT >>>> As I watched my brother die of stomach cancer, I noted that he was >>>> being given heavy does of morphine to keep the pain down. Eventually, [quoted text clipped - 39 lines] > > Patrick Very well put Patrick. My son was finally sedated, he died two days later, but at least he died peacefully. Like your father, my sons outcome would have been the same anyway. I was there when he died, he just slipped away quietly, that was hard enough, I know I couldn't have handled seeing him writhing in excruciating pain.
Best wishes to all.
Caz. Scott's mom
J - 30 Mar 2007 11:19 GMT > On Fri, 23 Mar 200746erjoe wrote: > Just got back from a week of radiation on my liver tumor to reduce [quoted text clipped - 10 lines] > > joe Nothing new to add, Joe. I don't want to take up your time if you are busy with hospice. Just so you know we're here caring, when you or Mrs Joe has time. Hugs to you both. J
J - 24 Mar 2007 12:31 GMT > As I watched my brother die of stomach cancer, I noted that he was > being given heavy does of morphine to keep the pain down. Eventually, [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] > > Anyone? It's in your lungs, Joe. Morphine helps with air hunger - gasping /labored breathing. I'm sorry. I must have a mental block - I just can't see palliation as suicide. I see it, but can't see it as wrong. Or unethical. If you choose a different way, you're still making an active decision.
I've seen many of these http://www.filmakers.com/Bioethics.htm Might be available through hospice or library
The decision might be taken from you - someone recently posted about a cerebral bleed. Lowkey died that way, in hospital (wasn't his wish but he was rushed there and they operated) but could not stop the bleed. Should such happen to you, Joe near July 1, you might want to switch instructions, prolong as long as possible, but we can't plan for everything.
Other parts could bleed and you (or family) could choose to do nothing to try to stop it, but you're still "choosing"...
J
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