I was treated differently by different people.  Some wanted to know
more about the cancer, in an academic (what are the odds?) sort of way.
One office worker gave me heartfelt condolences and a big hug.  Others
expressed their sorrow at my situation, and seemed sad any time they
talked to me (despite my assurances that it was probably a temporary
annoyance, not a death sentence).  Others acted like nothing was
different, or did this most of the time while occasionally broaching
the subject.  Others seemed to avoid me altogether, like I might
somehow pass the disease on to them!  I learned to accept people's
various reactions, and to try to be sympathetic to *their* position.
It can be very hard to know how to deal with someone who has tragic
news.  While we accept the best that some have to give us, let's not
forget to give others the best *we* can.

LiveLoveLaugh, know that many here in asc (including me!) give you
sympathy, condolences, and best wishes.  We, by our situation, are
better able than most to understand and support you.

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CSM