I'm so sorry for your loss!
Words can not express the pain you feel.
As cruel as it is, be thankful it was a short wait.

And yes> there is no justice in this world....

Cry and cry...but focus on the many good memories
you have. Your Dad would like that!

Hi PL,

I am so sorry to learn of the loss of your Dad.  In a way I agree with you
that it was better that way, to watch a loved one deteriorate with a GBM is
truly devestating.

You will yearn for him, you will grieve for the huge loss.  It's a bit
cliche, but time is a good healer.  One day memories that you recall of the
times you had with your Dad will raise smiles rather than tears.

There is no justice in this world when it comes to illnesses like this but
try to take some comfort from the years that you had together rather than
any you may miss out on.

Warm Hugs to you and your family PL

Alayne

PL said...

Did anyone ever claim there was?  But then again, he's gone without
having to suffer the indignities you've mentioned above, so maybe there
is some justice after all.  We're all going to die one day - I can't
think of a better way than to do so quickly and relatively (note the
'relatively' - I doubt many of us will get away without pain altogether
when it comes to it) painlessly.

That said, been there, done that, cried the tears.  Have some heartfelt
{{{{{hugs}}}}} from south Wales.  I still want my dad after 25 years.

You may feel that there is no justice, but passing on instead of living
a life that you, yourself, said he would have hated, means that he must
have been a very special person to have been blessed so.  As long as you
treasure the memories, he will always be with you.

Janet

Hi there PL
I am truely sorry to hear about your dad.
It is never easy when you lose someone so dear to you.