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Update on my FIL

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Sharon - 03 Jul 2006 21:59 GMT
Hospice has told us that my father in law has at the longest 48 hours.  Mike
and I are heartbroken.  I think the hardest part is seeing him deteriorate.
I know you guys care so much about us and my father in law so I wanted to
write and let everyone know.  I think in some way, death will be merciful
for him.  I want him to stay, but that is selfish of me.  His entire
backside is covered in open sores on top of all his other sufferings.  I
will let you guys know when the end comes, I can't write any more through
all the tears.

Sadly,
Sharon
alex - 03 Jul 2006 22:11 GMT
> Hospice has told us that my father in law has at the longest 48 hours.
> Mike and I are heartbroken.  I think the hardest part is seeing him
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> Sadly,
> Sharon

Sounds like your FIL is getting good care.   Hope the end is soon and the
suffering is over. Alex
Janet Wilder - 03 Jul 2006 22:50 GMT
> Hospice has told us that my father in law has at the longest 48 hours.  Mike
> and I are heartbroken.  I think the hardest part is seeing him deteriorate.
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> will let you guys know when the end comes, I can't write any more through
> all the tears.

Sharon,
Just think of how he will be at peace now. No suffering. No pain. I've
always believed that when we grieve for the dead, we are really grieving
for ourselves---for our own loss - our inability to be with them.

Think about his blessed release and how he will be in a better place.
That is what you wanted for him all along, isn't it?

My heart is with you both.

Hugs,
Janet

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Emily - 03 Jul 2006 23:43 GMT
jmmorgan80@anywhereusa.net said...
> Hospice has told us that my father in law has at the longest 48 hours.  Mike
> and I are heartbroken.  I think the hardest part is seeing him deteriorate.
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> Sadly,
> Sharon

{{{{{{Sharon and Mike}}}}}}

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J - 04 Jul 2006 00:08 GMT
> Hospice has told us that my father in law has at the longest 48 hours.  Mike
> and I are heartbroken.  I think the hardest part is seeing him deteriorate.
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> will let you guys know when the end comes, I can't write any more through
> all the tears.

<<<<<<<< hugs to Sharon, Mike, mother-in-law and all family>>>>>>>
J
Pen - 04 Jul 2006 16:02 GMT
> Hospice has told us that my father in law has at the longest 48 hours.  Mike
> and I are heartbroken.  I think the hardest part is seeing him deteriorate.
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> Sadly,
> Sharon

Sending you lots of hugs Sharon, and to your family also. You will be
in my prayers over the coming days.

Hugs
Penny
 
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