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deedimples - 03 May 2004 16:35 GMT
Good morning,

Things are progressing quickly with my mother-in-law.  Friday my husband
called to say she isn't doing very good and he came and picked me up.  We
got to the hospital and  couldn't believe the change.  Just two days ago she
was fine and talking about everything and everyone.  But when we arrived,
her breathing was laboured.  The oncologist was there and told us they are
going to keep her comfortable and that she may only have days left.
Saturday was no different then Friday, still laboured breathing  and didn't
know if anyone was there.  All her grandchildren and her children(with their
spouses) were there to see her.
Sunday has my husband and I walked in, to our surprise, she was awake and
talking when she could get things out.  The saddest part of the day came,
when my husband bent over to say a prayer and she started to say it with him
and also told him he was a good boy.  I lost it then and so did the rest of
the room.  She also told my husband she was ready to go.  There wasn't a dry
eye in the room.  As I sat holding her hand, my mother-in-law whispered, she
was going to heaven. She stayed that way all day and when we decided to go
home for the night, the nurses gave her something to calm her down and
sleep. We left thinking how strong she was that day and the body as its own
agenda.

thanks for listening,
dianne
Daffman - 03 May 2004 17:11 GMT
Sorry to hear about you MIL.  I lost my husband two months ago to cancer,
and he knew when it was time to go.  I think that he started to believe in
something as the time drew on, and I know he saw something the day before he
actually passed.  I honestly believe that his spirit left the day before his
body died, but it may have lingered long enough for us to make our peace and
say goodbye.  take care, and your MIL is in my prayers.
Salisha
Alayne - 03 May 2004 18:06 GMT
> Good morning,
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> thanks for listening,
> dianne

Hello Dianne,

I am sorry to learn that things are progressing very quickly with your
mother-in-law, that seems to happen sometimes.  We almost get lulled into a
false sense of security that they will go on forever.  We all think that we
are prepared for the final chapter, but we never are.

It is very good that she has had a chance to speak with her family and I am
sure that you will draw upon this in future days.

Thinking of you and your family right now Dianne, it's hard to lose a loved
one but her pain and suffering will be over and she will be at peace.

Hugs to you all

Alayne
J - 03 May 2004 18:38 GMT
> Good morning,
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> thanks for listening,
> dianne

My thoughts will be with you all as your MIL approaches the end of her journey
on this earth.
J
Phyllis Copp - 03 May 2004 18:46 GMT
> Good morning,
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> I just lost my husband last month to LC, his went very quickly too. This
must be a very difficult time for you. My prayers are with you and your
family.
                    Phyllis
 
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