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> dianne
Hi Diane,
It is good that your husband is visiting his mum daily, although you are
quite right about him pacing himself, he should try and not wear himself out
too much. How is he doing emotionally, with it being his mother? We often
over look ourselves when those that we love are so ill, although time is
very valuable right now, he should also take time for himself and quality
time with you too.
Hugs to you all
Alayne
deedimples - 27 Apr 2004 14:37 GMT
Hi,
My husband feels torn because we are also looking after my mom, whom is in a
nursing home.
He does have guilt as far as his mom is concerned, he's the type of guy who
will think he must do everything. I told him he is only one part of this
family, there are two others to help.
We talked last night and he said he will think about cutting back.
It just makes us both stressed, trying to visit both mom's. He has to look
after her house too. His mom was in the middle of selling the house, because
it was too much for her. They decided to take off the market for now, one
less they for her to worry about.
thanks for the hugs, I really need them,
Dianne
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