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Medical Forum / Diseases and Disorders / Cancer / April 2004I just can't believe the time has gone so fast
It's been 8 Sundays since Patrick passed away. I just can't believe it's been that long. How can I have missed him for that long already? Where has the time gone? some days it feels like forever since I saw him, and other days it seems like just yesterday. I just miss him today, that's all. Salisha > It's been 8 Sundays since Patrick passed away. I just can't believe it's > been that long. How can I have missed him for that long already? Where has [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > >It's been two weeks for me since my husband passed, I still can't believe it, I keep thinking that I'm going to wake up from my nightmare any time! We'll make it , it's going to be the hardest thing I've ever done though. Phyllis > It's been 8 Sundays since Patrick passed away. I just can't believe it's > been that long. How can I have missed him for that long already? Where has > the time gone? some days it feels like forever since I saw him, and other > days it seems like just yesterday. I just miss him today, that's all. > Salisha Time becomes surreal when you lose someone Salisha. I can't believe that Tony will have been gone for 8 months on Wednesday, it has flown so fast, and yet the 10 months that he was ill went so slowly. It is probably because we mark each week, each month more than we have ever done before. We will get there though cos Tony and Patrick wouldn't want it any other way. Hugs now Alayne> Hello, It is four months since Dave died and I still can't believe it happened. I'm doing alright. Keeping busy with the painting decorating etc. and work. The only thing missing from my life is Dave. I don't need a husband or somebody to live with I just need Dave. Linda > Hello, > It is four months since Dave died and I still can't believe it happened. > I'm doing alright. Keeping busy with the painting decorating etc. and work. > The only thing missing from my life is Dave. I don't need a husband or > somebody to live with I just need Dave. > Linda I know how you feel Linda, unfortunately we have to accept that it is the way it will be from now on and adjust ourselves to it. It doesn't necessarily make things any easier but wishing for what we can no longer have makes life harder for us right now. I had to check myself earlier on today, the sun is shining and it has brought all the local motorbikes out. The girls and I were sat eating dinner and I heard a large bike roar past, it really took me back to the times when I used to hear Tony coming in from work, a part of me would dearly love to turn back to clock to have those times all over again, but sadly we can't. I am pleased to hear that you are doing alright Linda - painting and decorating is some therapy!! I've finished mine now, so am planning an extension (so that I have got something else to paint!!) It is good to hear from you, I know that you lurk, but if you ever want a chat, I am always around (with or without the paint brush!) Take care of yourself now hon. Hugs Alayne > I had to check myself earlier on today, the sun is shining and it has > brought all the local motorbikes out. The girls and I were sat eating > dinner and I heard a large bike roar past, it really took me back to the > times when I used to hear Tony coming in from work, a part of me would > dearly love to turn back to clock to have those times all over again, but > sadly we can't. Your post reminded me of a song... which brings me to tears... "Wheels" on the album "Shelter" - Lone Justice (sung by Maria McKee) Sometimes I feel you so close by That it takes all my might to keep from trying to track you down I can surely keep you out of sight Forget about the way you look, your smile, the way you speak But I've heard in the dead of night outside my window silence breaking With the solid destination of your lonesome speed I know the sound of your Wheels Yeah, yeah, yeah I know the sound of your Wheels Yeah, yeah, yeah I know the sound of your Wheels I had a handle on my sorrow My composure was in order if not sufficiently intact But every reminiscent echo brings a blow to chill my senses And my heart quakes and tenses 'til those moments pass ( ( ( Alayne ) ) ) J > > I had to check myself earlier on today, the sun is shining and it has > > brought all the local motorbikes out. The girls and I were sat eating [quoted text clipped - 24 lines] > ( ( ( Alayne ) ) ) > J Thanks Petal! Jasper Carrot's Funky Moped suits him better though. Hugs Alayne > > > I had to check myself earlier on today, the sun is shining and it has > > > brought all the local motorbikes out. The girls and I were sat eating [quoted text clipped - 33 lines] > > Alayne Alayne, I'm another Brit in here - you have made me laugh with the old Funky Moped! Keep smiling Sinead > I'm another Brit in here - you have made me laugh with the old Funky Moped! > > Keep smiling > Sinead Sinead - a lot of people laughed to that one, including the congregation at Tony's funeral because it was one of the tunes that I picked for his music! He started out as a "moped boy" so I thought it was rather apt. Where abouts in ole blighty are you from? Hugs Alayne > > I'm another Brit in here - you have made me laugh with the old Funky > Moped! [quoted text clipped - 11 lines] > > Alayne Channel Islands. And you? > > Where abouts in ole blighty are you from? > > [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > > > Channel Islands. And you? Oh wow, lucky you, I have been to both Jersey and Guernsey myself. I'm afraid that I don't live anywhere quite so picturesque, just two miles south of Grads. Ville (Cambridge!) and the only thing there is oodles of colleges if you like that sort of thing. Hugs Alayne > Thanks Petal! > > Jasper Carrot's Funky Moped suits him better though. Jasper's Carrot ? <grin> I think I should lose look-it-up-itis. I went looking for Jasper and got snagged by a vicious virus and worm on a web page I clicked on. All clear now, but maybe I'm cured of look-it-up-itis. Teach me, eh ? Hugs J > Hello, > It is four months since Dave died and I still can't believe it happened. > I'm doing alright. Keeping busy with the painting decorating etc. and work. > The only thing missing from my life is Dave. I don't need a husband or > somebody to live with I just need Dave. > Linda That's exactly how I feel about Casey too! Phyllis Daffman@yeah.right.com said... > I just miss him today, that's all. {{{{{Hugs}}}}}, love. |
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