> > Dear list,
> > Can anyone please help me understand the diagnostic grading system? I've
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> to why you are searching this out??
> Just wondering.
I was looking it up because I want some idea of what's going on with his
body. I may well be creating something out of nothing. I don't relay any of
this to my husband, btw--he's freaked out enough as it is.
> Also wanted to say it's good to hear there's no mets. Perhaps he won't need
> chemotherapy at all?
The surgeon wants him on chemo and radiation before surgery; we don't know
about after. The surgeon did say that he's known a combination of radio and
chemo pre-surgery often zaps Baz's kind of cancer into nothingness, but he
still wants to pursue surgery to make certain it's gone.
> My Dad was partially paralyzed. He's a Brit too, but lived most of his life in
> Canada.
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> was quite open about discussing everything to the last detail to the point of
> driving people away. <g>
Thanks for sharing this--I am so grateful to hear it. I'm glad your Dad was
able to deal with it so well. I think Baz will come around, but he is
naturally squeamish, and added to that he feels humiliated and kind of
shamed. He thinks he'll have to wear special clothes. I plan on finding him
some help. He's very resistant to seeing a therapist,
but he's indicated that he'll sit in with a support group.
> I'm sorry that Michelle is no longer here. Her posts really cracked us up. It
> really wasn't always funny but she tried to put a humorous spin on it. Here's
> two of her many classic posts. While she was battling rectal cancer, her
> mother was battling bile duct cancer. We must be grateful for small blessings
> especially if you are in good health yourself.
Thanks--I'll look at these.
> http://tinyurl.com/yv7vj Privacy, modesty, getting used to the idea (before
> too long she was posting very private stuff to the newsgroup, in order to get
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> Best,
> J
First thing Monday I'm checking with the doctor's office for one. Again,
thanks for all of this information! You're a Godsend.
Best,
Morgs
Trish Knight - 18 Apr 2004 01:39 GMT
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> You're a Godsend.
Yes, she is!!!
> Best,
> Morgs
Hi Morgs,
Welcome to a.s.c. Sorry you have to be here, but it's a good place to be.
Hugs,
Trish
Jamo - 18 Apr 2004 01:57 GMT
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> >
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> Hugs,
> Trish
Thanks, Trish.
When I was in lurker mode I couldn't believe how generous people were, and
now that I'm posting I am absolutely grateful for it.
Best,
Morgs
Steph - 18 Apr 2004 03:08 GMT
> The surgeon wants him on chemo and radiation before surgery; we don't know
> about after. The surgeon did say that he's known a combination of radio and
> chemo pre-surgery often zaps Baz's kind of cancer into nothingness, but he
> still wants to pursue surgery to make certain it's gone.
Standard management in Europe and most of Canada for operable rectal cancer
is pre-op radiotherapy for 1 week, followed by surgery, and the best surgery
is a type called TME. The results are excellent.
Inoperable cancers which the surgeon can't remove are often treated by preop
radiotherapy plus chemotherapy, to shrink them and render them operable.
In the US, preop radiotherapy plus chemotherapy is often given for even
operable cancers, but that will change eventually........