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Beachgalaz - 22 Nov 2003 06:56 GMT My mother was 6.5 years cancer free... My mother is 53 years old and she tripped and broke her upper right femur last Thur 11/13. The dr. says that she has a malignant stage 2 tumor in her bone after a biopsy. She is also complaining about her back as well.
My family and I have been told that this is the same breast cancer that she originally had and that it has metastasized to her right hip and possibly even back. She orginally had a lumpectomy and 20 nodes removed which were all neg. They went in 2x to make sure that they got the entire lump. My mom had 4 chemo sessions every 3 weeks and at least 39 radiation treatments. This was 6.5 years ago.
She had to be flown by ambulance jet across country home b/c she can not travel with her leg to begin treatment. She has begun all sorts of tests and so far they are certain that her femur has the tumor in it. Her hip bone does not. The dr. said that she also has a small nodule in her lung, but that he is not that worried about it overall. This surprised me! Is this common to metastic breast cancer, lung issues? Her liver is clear and her back they said her back looks as though it may be effected too. It is so hard to get the entire story through the second hand version my siblings give me. Plus the Dr. left out of town for the weekend!
He wants her rehabilitated leg-wise for 2 weeks and then to start radiation. She is on some meds but she could not remember the name and they have given her a pain patch for her back. Any info or feedback that anyone can give me would be so appreciated. At this pt. the cancer in her femur is stage 2 they say.
My mother's name is Candy (aka Crystal). She has a great attitude and high spirits. It is just so hard for me and my fiance to be strong. My entire family has been devastated with the news. What makes it harder is the lack of communication between the Drs. and my family. This accident happened out of state which is why it was so incredibly complicated. Now it is just a matter of time, waiting on all of these test results.
Why would God put anyone through such suffering twice. It kills me to see how much pain my mother is in. I could really use any support you could offer. I feel devastated. Tracy
Kaye301 - 22 Nov 2003 08:55 GMT Hi Tracy, I am so very sorry to hear about your mom. You wote << Why would God put anyone through such suffering twice. It kills me to see how much pain my mother is in. I could really use any support you could offer. I feel devastated.>>
I can only imagine how you are feeling. I also went through breast cancer with my mom and now have it myself. I felt both angry and sad when I read your post. I feel sad for what you and your mom are dealing with. I feel angry for the myths that we are led to believe about cancer. I was dx'd with 3 types of very aggressive cancer 2.5 years agon and had 9 positive nodes and extensive lymphovascular invasion. I am not sure where to begin but will say that I am at very high risk for recurrence/metastases. One of my 2nd opinion oncologists told me the following--'people talk about cancer 'coming back'--where does it come back from, the pathology lab?' I chuckled when he said that as I knew what he was referring to. No, it wasn't funny, but I very much understood the point he was making. The cancer didn't 'come back.' It was always there. Regarding bone metastases, well, we had this discussion a couple of weeks ago. Anyone dx'd with breast cancer has about a 67% chance of eventually getting it in their bones. So, your mom's chances of getting bone mets were greater than of not getting them. Many, if most are not told that. Also, you wrote that your mom had 20 lymphn nodes removed and all were negative. Those were most likely the axillary nerves. Latest studies suggest that about 1/3 of those with negative axillary nodes eventually get it in their bones. Most are not told that. Then there is the question of nodal involvoement--about 1/3 of those with negative axillary nodes have internal mammary nodes, which are not tested, positive for cancer. Also, from what I have read, one might be able to dx bone mets alot earlier if bone marrow biopsies were done. If that were to become the standard, there would be alot more testing positive. That would result in not only a need for updating stats, but would most likely involve identification of the cancer ata more advanced stage breast cancer from the start,and require additional treatment options.
Beachgalaz - 22 Nov 2003 18:52 GMT Thank You all so very much for your kind and helpful messages. I really appreciate you trying to help me. I am only 25 years old and I hardly know if I am coming or going these days. My mom's attitude is great and it gives me so much strength every time I talk to her. As a result, I have to be strong for her.
Knowing what I said thus far can any of you think of any questions that I should be persuing with the DR.? I already have some, but I want to make sure I cover all ground. (I know I still need to wait on some more of my Mom's tests but right now-
She has a broken femur (r. side) with a grade 2 tumor in the bone. Possible bone metastasis on or in her spine (I believe on). And a small nodule in her lung. Getting pain patch on back. Getting 2 weeks of rehab for leg and then starting radiation on leg. Doc says we can wait 2 weeks on radiation-Does that sound right to any of you? Wouldn't the problem worsen in 2wks?
Are there any meds that you would recommend based on experience or research/hearsay?
Thanks Tracy
Tim Jackson - 23 Nov 2003 00:41 GMT > Getting 2 weeks of rehab for leg and then > starting radiation on leg. Doc says we can wait 2 weeks on radiation-Does that > sound right to any of you? Wouldn't the problem worsen in 2wks? Yes, but it can't get much worse than fractured, and on the other hand rads would seriously interfere with the healing of the fracture. Be aware that the effects of radiation on pain are not immediate anyway, it takes a few weeks before you notice the change, maybe six weeks till it stops hurting. This is partly because even if the tumour dies instantly, the bone is still damaged and has to grow back.
> Are there any meds that you would recommend based on experience or > research/hearsay? Zometa or similar bisphosphonate to encourage bone regrowth, there is also evidence that it inhibits bone tumour growth.
NSAIDs like Celebrex to help with pain relief and lower analgesic dependency. But there was a study showed that the COX2 inhibitors (Celebrex, Vioxx) also slow bone regrowth, so there is a bit of a trade-off there. Older NSAIDS have more severe side effects mainly stomach inflammation.
An antacid with the NSAID to reduce stomach problems.
Fentanyl 72-hour patches for severe and chronic pain, if it is that bad, with oral liquid morphine for breakthough pain.
A laxative with the narcotic, and adjust the dose -slowly-, it takes days to work through.
This was the sort of stack of meds my wife had when she had spinal mets (except Zometa hadn't been invented in 1999).
Tim Jackson
aa - 29 Nov 2003 14:01 GMT > Zometa or similar bisphosphonate to encourage bone regrowth, there is also > evidence that it inhibits bone tumour growth. [quoted text clipped - 17 lines] > > Tim Jackson "and you were saying once that you are NOT a doctor !!!"
:) > [quoted text clipped - 34 lines] > > Tim Jackson Tim Jackson - 01 Dec 2003 00:31 GMT > "and you were saying once that you are NOT a doctor !!!" > :) Please understand that my knowledge on this is entirely amateur and is based on my experience of my wife's going through all the stages of this disease.
None of my advice is meant in any way to be a substitute for seeing a doctor or the relevant consultant. At best I hope to be able to point people in the right direction as to what questions to ask of their professionals, and to help catch mistakes.
I am actually a diagnostic engineer, a machine doctor if you like. The skills are in some ways similar to medics', but the training and knowledge base are completely different.
Tim
aa - 01 Dec 2003 08:51 GMT > Please understand that my knowledge on this is entirely amateur and is based > on my experience of my wife's going through all the stages of this disease. [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > skills are in some ways similar to medics', but the training and knowledge > base are completely different. I was just kidding................ :(
> > "and you were saying once that you are NOT a doctor !!!" > > :) [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] > > Tim Tim Jackson - 01 Dec 2003 09:26 GMT > I was just kidding................ :( Sure, I know what you meant, but some might get the wrong impression.
The disclaimer was aimed at the general readership, not you personally.
Tim
aa - 01 Dec 2003 21:17 GMT OK Boss ! Got it.
> > I was just kidding................ :( > [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > > Tim madiba - 30 Nov 2003 10:44 GMT > This was the sort of stack of meds my wife had when she had spinal mets > (except Zometa hadn't been invented in 1999). Didn't they call it Pamidronate (Aredia) back then? Aredia is also a biphosphonate and has been around for 6 or 7 years AFAIK.
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Tim Jackson - 30 Nov 2003 11:23 GMT > > This was the sort of stack of meds my wife had when she had spinal mets > > (except Zometa hadn't been invented in 1999).
> Didn't they call it Pamidronate (Aredia) back then? Aredia is also a > biphosphonate and has been around for 6 or 7 years AFAIK. That was still under trials then I think, at least it was not yet approved or widely prescribed in the UK. She got Clodronate, which I think was the first bisphosphonate approved. The whole idea of bisphosphonates seemed a bit novel and experimental to the oncologists at the time, and to be fair to them the benefit then was pretty marginal. Zometa is many times more effective. It was with Clodronate that the effect of bisphosphonates on the mets themselves (as opposed tot he bone) was discovered.
Tim
Kaye301 - 30 Nov 2003 16:00 GMT madiba wrote: << Didn't they call it Pamidronate (Aredia) back then? Aredia is also a biphosphonate and has been around for 6 or 7 years AFAIK.
Aredia is the generic for Pamidronate which is a newer bisphosponate that Clodronate. An even newer bisphosponate is Zometa. All are given through IV infusion. Zometa is the quickest to administer--it takes about 15 minutes. I have read that it is stronger and possibly the best but do not know if all the research is in and that is just public relations hype. The research that I have read does look promising. I have also read that giving Zometa prophylactically may prevent bone mets. However, the research on that is not in either. Zometa is also thought to prevent osteoporosis. A private oncologist suggested I have one infusion per year. Then I read that having it once every 6 mos. was the idea. Most recently, I read that having it once every 3 mos. was the 'best.'
Tim Jackson - 23 Nov 2003 00:48 GMT > Also, from what I have read, one might be able to dx bone mets alot earlier if > bone marrow biopsies were done. If that were to become the standard, there > would be alot more testing positive. That would result in not only a need for > updating stats, but would most likely involve identification of the cancer ata > more advanced stage breast cancer from the start,and require additional > treatment options. I thought bone marrow biopsies were only for leukaemia and other blood conditions. How do they work for bc bone mets? Do you have a reference on this? I vaguely remember you mentioning this before, forgive me if I already asked you this and forgot.
Tim
Kaye301 - 23 Nov 2003 07:47 GMT Tim wrote: << I thought bone marrow biopsies were only for leukaemia and other blood conditions. How do they work for bc bone mets? Do you have a reference on this? I vaguely remember you mentioning this before, forgive me if I already asked you this and forgot. Tim>>
In addition to the following below, it is now being suggested that prophylactic use of a bisphosphonate such as Zometa at time of b.c. dx, may prevent bone mets. I am not including that article here--but if you'd like more info about it, let me know. "http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.fcgi?db=PubMed&cmd=Retrieve&list _uids=98357981&dopt=Abstract 1: Breast Cancer Res Treat. 1998 May;49(1):27-33. Related Articles, Links
Prognostic value of bone marrow biopsy in operable breast cancer patients at the time of initial diagnosis: Results of a 20-year median follow-up.
Landys K, Persson S, Kovarik J, Hultborn R, Holmberg E.
Department of Oncology, Sahlgrenska University Hospital, Goteborg, Sweden.
From May 1975 until May 1980,128 operable breast cancer patients, clinical stage I-II, had a core bone marrow biopsy (BMB) from the posterior iliac crest as a part of the routine diagnostic work-up at the time of initial diagnosis. The mean age of the patients was 56 years, range 26-93. In a previous study on this material, 10 patients (7.8 per cent) were positive for tumor cells and 118 negative by conventional histopathology of BMB [1]. In 1996 we reexamined all BMB separately at two laboratories, using monoclonal antibodies against cytokeratins AE1-AE3, KL1, CAM 5-2 (DOP), and DC10, BA17 (MCI). The number of extrinsic cells in the bone marrow was graded positive for micrometastases when
> or = 5 cells or suspicious when 1-4 cells per approximately 2 x 10(6) bone marrow cells were found, using high power field magnification. Micrometastases were detected in 17 patients (13.3 per cent) and another 8 patients were classified as suspicious. The presence of micrometastases was correlated to the axillary lymph node stage and primary tumor location. Median follow-up was 20 years. All 17 micrometastatic patients relapsed and died within 6 years of disease progression with evident osseous metastases. There was one disease-free survivor of the 8 patients with suspicious BMB after 17 years of follow-up. The median overall survival was significantly shorter in tumor-cell positive patients, being 1.9 years compared to 11.7 years in the BMB negative and BMB suspicious groups (p < 0.0001). Immunohistochemical analysis of core BMB taken postoperatively may be useful in predicting the prognosis in patients with breast cancer clinical stage I-II.
PMID: 9694608 [PubMed - indexed for MEDLINE]" http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.fcgi?cmd=Retrieve&db=PubMed&list_ uids=8931609&dopt=Abstract 1: J Natl Cancer Inst 1996 Nov 20;88(22):1652-8 Related Articles, Links Micrometastatic breast cancer cells in bone marrow at primary surgery: prognostic value in comparison with nodal status. Diel IJ, Kaufmann M, Costa SD, Holle R, von Minckwitz G, Solomayer EF, Kaul S, Bastert G. Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology, University of Heidelberg, Federal Republic of Germany. BACKGROUND: Approximately 30% of the patients with primary breast cancer who have no axillary lymph node involvement (i.e., lymph node negative) at the time of surgery will relapse within 10 years; 10%-20% of the patients with distant metastases will be lymph node negative at surgery. Axillary lymph node dissection, as a surgical procedure, is associated with frequent complications. A possible alternative to nodal dissection in terms of prognosis may be the immunocytochemical detection of tumor cells in bone marrow. PURPOSE: In a prospective study, the value of tumor cell detection (TCD) in bone marrow was compared with axillary lymph node dissection in the prognosis of primary breast cancer after surgery. METHODS: Data from 727 patients with primary, operable breast cancer were included in the analysis. All patients had surgery, including axillary lymph node dissection, from May 1985 through July 1994 at the Women's Hospital of the University of Heidelberg (Federal Republic of Germany). Bone marrow aspiration at two sites on each anterior iliac crest was performed immediately after surgery while the patients were under general anesthesia. Most patients received some type of systemic adjuvant therapy. The monoclonal antibody 2E11, directed against the polymorphic epithelial mucin TAG12, was used to detect tumor cells in bone marrow samples. The association of TCD with recognized prognostic indicators was evaluated by means of chi-squared tests. Survival without the development of distant metastases (i.e., distant disease-free survival) and overall survival were estimated by use of the Kaplan-Meier method; the logrank test was used to compare survival curves. A multivariate Cox regression analysis with stratification according to adjuvant treatment type was used to assess the independent prognostic value of TCD in bone marrow in relation to other variables. Reported P values are two-sided. RESULTS: Tumor cells were detected in the bone marrow of 203 (55%) of 367 lymph node-positive patients and in 112 (31%) of 360 lymph node-negative patients. TCD was associated with larger tumors (P < .001), lymph node involvement (P = .001), and higher tumor grade (i.e., more undifferentiated) (P = .002). After a median follow-up of 36 months, patients with tumor cells in their bone marrow experienced reduced distant disease-free survival and overall survival (both P values < .001). TCD was an independent prognostic indicator for both distant disease-free survival and overall survival that was superior to axillary lymph node status, tumor stage, and tumor grade. Among patients with tumors less than 2 cm in diameter, TCD was the most powerful predictor of outcome. CONCLUSIONS AND IMPLICATIONS: TCD in the bone marrow of patients with breast cancer is a valuable prognostic tool associated with negligible morbidity. Prospective randomized studies should be performed to determine whether TCD might replace axillary lymph node dissection in a defined subgroup of patients with small tumors. PMID: 8931609 [PubMed - indexed for MEDLINE]" "http://www.abstracts-on-line.com/abstracts/BCS/search/Results.asp?Num=0%2 E4660456 [213] Clinical implication of detection of isolated tumor cells in bone marrow in early breast cancer. Results from the Oslo study. Wiedswang G, Borgen EF, Kaaresen R, Kvalheim G, Nesland JM, Qvist H, Schlichting E, Sauer T, Janbu J, Harbitz T, Naume B. Ullevaal University Hospital, Oslo, Norway; Baerum Hospital, Gjettum, Norway; Aker University Hospital, Oslo, Norway Date/Time: Wednesday, December 11, 2002 5:30 PM Location: Session Info. : Poster Session II: Detection/Diagnosis: Marrow and Blood Micrometastases (5:30 PM-7:30 PM)
Background: Detection of tumor cells (TC) in bone marrow (BM) in breast cancer (BrCa) can potentially be used for prognostication, therapy monitoring and characterisation for individualised treatment. The presence of tumor cells (TC) has been shown to affect clinical outcome. However, the clinical significance of TC detection in node negative (N0) differs in previous studies. The aim of this study is to clarify the clinical impact of detection of TC in BM in both node positive(N1) and N0. Material and Methods: BM aspirates were collected during operation from 920 patients (pts) with early BrCa. Mononuclear cells were isolated, cytospins prepared, followed by immunocytochemical analysis (using the anticytokeratine antibodies AE1 and AE3) and detection of TC. Immunohistochemical analysis of erbB2, p53, catepsinD, ER and PgR-expression were also performed. All pts received therapy according to the National Guidelines. The pts were reexamined every 6-12 months. Results: 532 pts with N0 (63%) and 288 pts with N1 status (34%) were enrolled and evaluable (total 848 infiltrating carcinoma). TC were detected in BM in 12.6% (N0 9.4%, N1 19.5%). Median FU is 49 months. So far 189 pts have experienced a relapse, 87 locoregional and 133 systemic. BrCa death has ocurred in 100. No difference in the frequency of locoregional relapse was observed in BM+ vs BM- pts, whereas 28.8% of BM+ (N0 8.0%, N1 24.0%) and 13.1% of BM- (N0 7.8%, N1 49.1%) experienced systemic relapse. BrCa deaths were detected in 43.9% of the BM+ and 18.9% of the BM- N1 pts (p=0.003, logrank test). No difference in survival was observed in N0 pts. Conclusion: Detection of TC in BM predicts future systemic relapse and BrCa death in N1 BrCa. However, based on this study, BM status cannot be used as a prognostic factor for N0.The primary tumor analyses will be compared to the BM results and clinical outcome - and presented."
Tim Jackson - 23 Nov 2003 11:31 GMT > Tim wrote: << I thought bone marrow biopsies were only for leukaemia and other > blood [quoted text clipped - 8 lines] > mets. I am not including that article here--but if you'd like more info about > it, let me know. Yes, I am aware of the bisphosphonate issue. One does however have to be very cautious about side effects in recommending prophylaxis.
To summarise your references: the idea is that bone marrow biopsy can work instead of axillary node dissection and detect the presence of a fairly low density of single cancer cells in the bone marrow, which statistically tracks the lymph node status.
The implication I suppose is that bone marrow is where they go next after the lymph nodes, and it is from there that they get into the bones.
It has the advantage that the cancer cells are relatively evenly distributed through the bone marrow, whereas in the lymph nodes and in the bones they are more localised. This means that useful results can be obtained from a smaller and less destructive sample than with lymph node biopsy. It also seems to give a better prediction of outcome.
It seems to me that the biopsy is a predictor of mets in general rather than bone mets specifically.
I suspect that the analysis, finding a few cells per million with antibody tags, is quite difficult (ie expensive), but I am sure that automation techniques will be developed to overcome that.
Tim
Kaye301 - 23 Nov 2003 15:28 GMT Tim wrote << This means that useful results can be obtained from a smaller and less destructive sample than with lymph node biopsy. It also seems to give a better prediction of outcome.>>
I am guessing it would reduce the % of false negatives. Thus, if it is more accurate it would better identify those who would possibly benefit from more aggressive and/or different kinds of intervention.
<<It seems to me that the biopsy is a predictor of mets in general rather than bone mets specifically.>>
I guess that is the conclusion that could be drawn. Reasoning it out--if about 67 to 70% of all women w/b.c. 'eventually' are found to have bone mets, early treatment or intervention might result in improved outcomes. I have also read that early stem cell transplant work better than those done at later stages. Perhaps, someone who tested positive for bone mets might have increased survival if given transplant before condition further worsened--as suggested.
<<I suspect that the analysis, finding a few cells per million with antibody tags, is quite difficult (ie expensive), but I am sure that automation techniques will be developed to overcome that.>>
This procedure could be done at time of initial surgery, thus reducing cost of additional anesthesis. I would think the process would actually be less expensive than lymph node dissection. It can be done through either needle or core biopsy, I believe. However, it might not be as cost-effective IFF it identifies more who are in need of treatment and additional monitoring, even if it does save lives.
Tim Jackson - 23 Nov 2003 22:40 GMT > However, it might not be as cost-effective IFF it > identifies more who are in need of treatment and additional monitoring, even if > it does save lives. Saving lives is -never- medically cost effective.
It is a truism that if you cure a cheap disease, the patient will inevitably go on to contract an expensive one.
Tim
madiba - 23 Nov 2003 13:55 GMT > I thought bone marrow biopsies were only for leukaemia and other blood > conditions. How do they work for bc bone mets? Do you have a reference on > this? I vaguely remember you mentioning this before, forgive me if I > already asked you this and forgot. Its simple: The fracture has to be operated on anyway so the orthop. surgeon just takes bits of tissue from the fracture surfaces for histology during the operation.
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Kathleen Langwell - 23 Nov 2003 19:38 GMT Kaye wrote:
>Also, from what I have read, one might > be able to dx bone mets alot earlier if [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > from the start,and require additional > treatment options. Tim is right. Your blood cells; red, white, platelets, are "manufactured" in your bone marrow. A biopsy is done to obtain the growth factors of your blood. Your marrow is in the large bones of the body. That is why a biopsy is done by either pushing a needle thru your hip bone, pelvic bone, or sternum to obtain the bone marrow. A pathology report will examine not only the counts, but also at what rate your cells are 'turning over'. This is done to confirm a diagnosis of blood cancers or disorders.
In my case, all my blood tests within a 2-week period showed all the cell counts too high. The hema/onc. would not commit to a final diagnosis and start treatment until he did a bone marrow biopsy which would confirm a greater proliferation of blood cells being 'manufactured' in the marrow. This meant that my body had a much greater blood volume and a high viscouity. My blood was like oil rather than water, putting me at great risk for a stroke. The treatment is phlebotomies. Four pints were removed over 5 weeks and the onc. goes the hematocrit count in the CBC. In my case, he wants to keep it under 40. Before treatment it was 63.7.
So, a bone marrow biopsy would not be a way to detect breast cancer mets. It would be a way to detect leukemia or some other blood disorder. The word "bone" is the place that contains the marrow which makes your blood.
Kathie
Tim Jackson - 22 Nov 2003 13:39 GMT Replies interspersed.
> My mother was 6.5 years cancer free... > My mother is 53 years old and she tripped and broke her upper right femur last [quoted text clipped - 8 lines] > sessions every 3 weeks and at least 39 radiation treatments. This was 6.5 > years ago. Metastatic breast cancer is stage IV by definition, maybe they meant a grade 2 tumour?
She is unlucky to get metastasis at this time, for node negative tumours the rate of recurrence averages around 2% per year over the first six years after surgery (Carter, Cancer 63, 1989). She sadly has turned out to be one of those 10% or so who do get it.
> The dr. said that she also has a small nodule in her lung, but that he is not > that worried about it overall. This surprised me! Is this common to metastic > breast cancer, lung issues? Lung is one of the most common places for breast cancer to spread to, after bones. Also brain and liver metastases are quite common. Some less common forms of breast cancer have different ways of spreading. She will probably get hormone therapy which may keep the lung tumour under control, they will watch it with X-ray and if it continues to grow or becomes threatening they might take fiurther action such as chemotherapy. Chemotherapy is not very effective for bone mets.
> Her liver is clear and her back they said her back > looks as though it may be effected too. It is so hard to get the entire story [quoted text clipped - 5 lines] > a pain patch for her back. Any info or feedback that anyone can give me would > be so appreciated. At this pt. the cancer in her femur is stage 2 they say. The pain patch could be Fentanyl, a potent opiate painkiller. This is commonly used for pain control in bone metastases. It is very effective. If she is using opiates then she needs to watch out for constipation, a routine and distressing side effect. It is ususal to prescribe laxatives but doctors often forget until the problems start.
Radiation is the preferred treatment for bone metastases. You can usually only use it once on each site because of long term collateral damage, particularly around the spine where damage to spinal cord, lungs and digestive system are possible. It sets back that particular tumour for at least a year or two, so it is best kept until a particular tumour is causing problems, i.e. pain or fracture risk, you get more benefit that way.
> What makes it harder is the lack of > communication between the Drs. and my family. It can be difficult when you are not the person who is dealing directly with the doctors, information is passed along in a form of Chinese Whispers. Even when you are, it is often necessary to be quoite persistent to get the information you need. Nurses can often be a great help in this area. They see more of the practical details of case management than doctors do.
> Why would God put anyone through such suffering twice. As Kaye points out, it is fairly common to get breast cancer more than once sometime in your life.
Tim Jackson
Kaye301 - 22 Nov 2003 17:56 GMT Tim wrote << She will probably get hormone therapy which may keep the lung tumour under control, they will watch it with X-ray and if it continues to grow or becomes threatening they might take fiurther action such as chemotherapy. Chemotherapy is not very effective for bone mets. >>
I am assuming that would be if the tumor were ER+ Although chemo may not be effective for bone mets, some of the newer bisphosphonates appear to be (i.e. Zometa). If something is going on in the lung, if there was only one or two tumor surgery might be indicated. Wouldn't chemo also be helpful for that as well?
gabnet' - 22 Nov 2003 15:16 GMT Dear Tracy:
Why?? IF we knew that, perhaps we would all have our answer. I have multiple sclerosis for over 30 years plus stage 4 breast cancer which was not of course my intention. I was misdiagnosed my gyn at a major NYC hospital (so much for large hospitals always being correct) and my mammogram was mis-read by the radiologist. There will be a settlement of course BUT, I will never be the winner as there is absolutely no known cure at this time! The only winner in this will be the attorneys! Laura K.*
> My mother was 6.5 years cancer free... > My mother is 53 years old and she tripped and broke her upper right femur last [quoted text clipped - 35 lines] > feel devastated. > Tracy
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Laura K.* I'm out of estrogen and I have a gun!
aa - 29 Nov 2003 14:14 GMT Dear Tracy I am so sorry to read abt your mom,my mother have this thing too... just never give up hope...and come here again and again,
> Why would God put anyone through such suffering twice. It kills me to see how > much pain my mother is in. I could really use any support you could offer. I > feel devastated. May be this might help http://www.haqq.com.au/~salam/cosan/coshealt.html "Many people don't know but sickness is a blessing according to Islam for the faithful servant, for a patient and well-behaved Muslim who doesn't flare up or rebel, and for those adept and graceful servants who know that sickness comes from God, and who don't oppose the destiny or complain. There are many rewards and recompenses for the sick, their sufferings are compensated with spiritual honour and gifts. Our Prophet Muhammad Mustafa (s.a.w.) said:
The sick person's sleep is considered as worship and his moaning as litany of praise to Allah. He is rewarded as though he is performing his usual prayers when he was healthy although he is unable to do so now. His supplications are accepted, his sins are forgiven, all his mistakes and wrong-doings recorded in his book are deleted, and he is told `Very well, start your new life with an absolutely clean book!'
Sickness wakes people up from heedlessness, guides them to give up their sins, makes them think about the Hereafter, leads them to pious foundations; makes them more thankful to Allah,the God, and teaches them the necessity of taking better care of their health and making better use of their life - something they didn't realize before, teaches them to understand other sick and pained people better, to feel sorry for them and to help them; and rises their ranks and degrees higher in the Hereafter. "
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Saima
> My mother was 6.5 years cancer free... > My mother is 53 years old and she tripped and broke her upper right femur last [quoted text clipped - 35 lines] > feel devastated. > Tracy Kaye301 - 29 Nov 2003 14:31 GMT Saima wrote << "Many people don't know but sickness is a blessing according to Islam for the faithful servant, for a patient and well-behaved Muslim who doesn't flare up or rebel, and for those adept and graceful servants who know that sickness comes from God, and who don't oppose the destiny or complain...>>
Thanks for sharing. I have always been interested in other religions but I must say that for the most part I do not find comfort or wisdom in most of what was shared. First, well I guess everyone has 'sins' to some degree but thought I'd share what one of my 12th grade, high school teachers once asked me. I was chosen by him to be the class secretary based on the previous semester's grades--I had t he hightest. One day after class he asked if I were a "Mormon" (his faith) because I was "so 'good'). I wasn't a nerd--at least not a total one ;-) but I never 'drank,' smoked or did drugs. What a reputation to have to go around with ;-) And 'no' I am not always that 'good' although we (husband and I) have that reputation and are accused by our kids of being that way. Seriously, though, the only 'sin' that comes to mind at the moment is working too hard and NEVER cheating on our taxes. (My dad was an IRS agent). Gosh, maybe if we 'learned' how, life would be alot easier. We have 3 children in higer education at private universities and my husband and I are working our tails off--to help them get through. In addition to their partial merit-based scholarships (that they, too, worked their tails off to do well to get), they still had to get loans. My husband has the reputation of practicing old-fashioned honest dentistry. In other words he doesn't try to sell his patients work that they don't need or that weakens their tooth structure. That's never gonna get us on 'easy street' but that's one of the reasons that attracted me to him. Perhaps being honest is one of our greatest 'sins'???
<< Sickness wakes people up from heedlessness, guides them to give up their sins, makes them think about the Hereafter, leads them to pious foundations; makes them more thankful to Allah,the God, >>
Okay, cancer did get me to give up my biggest 'sin' I stopped pigging out on cheese and try not to pull as many all-nighters as I was doing in order to get my job, which is illusury, done. Illusory is a new word I learned during the last presidential election. Basically it means there isn't enough time to do what is legally required in the amount of time allotted. There is no way possible to get everything that needs to be done, finished, in that amount of time we are given. Silly me--one year I did a 10-day/week assignment on 3 days/week--actually working 7 days/week with lots of overtime to eaual just about 10 days/week but only getting paid for 3. I took a part-time assignment because it allowed me to do the quality work I was trained for. Silly me, that must be a 'sin' that I need to repent for...sigh...
<<and teaches them the necessity of taking better care of their health and making better use of their life - something they didn't realize before, teaches them to understand other sick and pained people better, to feel sorry for them and to help them; and rises their ranks and degrees higher in the Hereafter. " Saima
I was guilty of the first. I didn't get enough exercise. I admit that. It was because of my lengthy work commute which is/was 1.5 hours each way and long work days. Then instead of exercising, I discovered the internet and chose to use my professional and personal knowledge to help others rather than centering the time on myself. My just reward--cancer--the fate I saw my relatives deal with throughout my childhood...Maybe, I needed to make better use of my time and BE more self-centered. Perhaps now that I am obsessed with finding out all I can about breast cancer will surfice. But, the idea of not understanding about sickness--I grew up with it. But before I go there--my mother--who suffered from rheumatoid arthritis and most likely chronic fatigue and/or fibroneuralgia (based on her medical records) related to a 6-month episode of mononucleosis she came down with in WWII, while serving our country as a nurse (R.N.) overseas in the army while working back-to-back 24 to 36 hour shifts--selflessly tending to the injured, caring for the sick--dealing with suffering in the worst of ways. She was dx'd with cancer at the age of 50 and lost many relatives to cancer, too. I grew up spending my weekends and towards the end, more often, from the ages of 7 through 11 visiting the next my mothers relatives who was dying from cancer. Then, in my mother's last year of life, after they dr's said they could do no more, while going to graduate school, I lived at home and cared for her in the evenings--cleaning her up after the nurse's aide gave her a suppository. That only took 2.5 hours and required hosing down the sheets in the back yard. I had to give her shots of morphine. I was petrified that I might do something wrong and be held responsible. I was 22 at the time and had no formal medical training. Gosh, I don't know how much better to understand what illness is than to have to go through it myself. I guess that is my just reward...Maybe I didn't understand what she and her relatives went through 'enough' so now it is my turn??? What next, I have worked with seriously emotionally disturbed and severe, developmentally disabled children---does that mean my next 'reward' is for the cancer to go to my brain so I 'really' know what that's like? Saima, I hope my commentary did not offend you but I cannot relate to the thoughts that were shared from Islam. I believe in a higher power, but feel that higher power is beyond our understanding at this point. I wanted to say that I don't believe in an 'afterlife' but that would be an oxymoron in terms of believing in a higher power that is not understood. I am not concerning myself with a life beyond the present, however. I am doing everything I possibly can to further my chances of survival. I want more than anything to give any possible, future grandchildren something my children never had--a grandmother. I don't know if I will be able to meet that goal but I am 'selfishly' or is that 'selflessly' trying to pave my way through a complicated medical maze, filled with contradictory practices in hopes of beating the odds. I am now sitting here with tears in my eyes as I type this--tears of desperation of frustration over the next medical obstacle I am about to face...In the background, though, I hear the song the band played at the 3-day walk--the one I danced to furiously, "I Will Survive." I hope that I can live up to that and make that my reality...
Kaye301 - 29 Nov 2003 17:13 GMT I forgot to mention... Saima wrote << "Many people don't know but sickness is a blessing according to Islam for the faithful servant, for a patient and well-behaved Muslim who doesn't flare up or rebel, and for those adept and graceful servants who know that sickness comes from God, and who don't oppose the destiny or complain...>>
Um, that's not what I have been doing. I am protesting--loud and clearly. I AM challenging current standard protocols. I did the same for one of my children re. a medical condition--and it worked. My protests are based on valid research findings that are not in sync with latest protocol in practice. I am not one to NOT to not protest or complain when I see the need. I do NOT accept a pre-ordained 'destiny.' Now, cancer may be an inevitable fact in my case due to genetics, but I DO believe that the information is out there to better individually control its course if treatment is strong enough and long enough and directed at the correct, involved pathways. I may have been well-behaved, at least for the most part, but certainly have not been patient. I do not see my demise as a reward for the life I have lived--and refuse to do so. I do not await an afterlife or have any pre-expectations of future rewards and enjoyment. I believe in making a difference--NOW--and HERE--while I am alive on this earth. Frankly, I do not have much interest in anything personal afterwards, but I do want to be here for my children and any future grandchildren. I do not want to put my youngest daughter through yet another death, if at all possible. And, as Madiba wrote: aa <azakram2@comcast.com> wrote:
> The sick person's sleep is considered as worship and his moaning as litany > of praise to Allah. This is cynical, cruel.
This interpretation seems a denial of reality and if there is a G-d who is there and a witness to life events--the utmost form of disrespect. In fact, to me it suggests a G-d that does not have the power to intervene. It is not what G-d is all about. Sickness is a natural part of life, but so is living and wellness too. If there is an intervening G-d, that power has given us the ability to better understand, intervene and change the course of illness. There is much more knowlege that is there that has not yet or is not being consistently implemented into practice. And, that, too, is also cruel... I guess I am not a 'patient' person (no pun intended). I am a south-paw (left handed) and more of a global reasoner than ste-by-step thinker. Left-handed individuals often use more of their right, more spatially-oriented brain in processing information. Oftentimes, they're strength lies in being able to better conceptualize a pattern or the 'whole picture' rather than analyze the individual parts. Then again, I am probably over-doing the latter, too...sigh...is there no rest for the 'wicked' ;-)
aa - 29 Nov 2003 23:45 GMT hmmmm.... I have answers ...but my English...it is really poor...and also I have three kids (who are screaming right now)...I will get back to you soon,but just think about only one thing...that this whole factory of universe...this whole system of your own body....every thing of nature,it doesn't born/invented by itself...there must be someOne...who created/creates... take a little example of your own home...nothing happens itself...not a single thing...you never experience that your coffee made by itself....and somebody tell you that nobody makes this coffee,but it is prepared all by itself...no one will believe that...so how can every thing else is here without any inventor/creator??? I do not intend to impose my religion/ideas on you or on anyone else....
> > The sick person's sleep is considered as worship and his moaning as litany > > of praise to Allah. > This is cynical, cruel. The first part of the article is about health,You took it totally wrong...this is to comfort you......I believe that even we are sick He is not"enjoying"the situation....but on any kind of hardship he is rewarding a lot. You have to go and find the treatment...you have to search and research in all the fields,But you have to know that you are not alone...when you are in little or big amount of pain...he is there...when you are sad...He is there....when you are in trouble He is there.... It doesn't mean He is helpless..no no...I will get back to u soon,but please do not mind my poor English.
> Sickness is a natural part of life, but so is living and wellness too. If > there is an intervening G-d, that power has given us the ability to better > understand, intervene and change the course of illness. Totally agree...this is my concept too. But there are lot to discuss... Saima
> I forgot to mention... > Saima wrote << "Many people don't know but sickness is a blessing according to [quoted text clipped - 43 lines] > individual parts. Then again, I am probably over-doing the latter, > too...sigh...is there no rest for the 'wicked' ;-) aa - 30 Nov 2003 00:09 GMT Hi again, God says "Be sure we shall test you with something of fear and hunger, some loss in goods or lives or the fruits (of your toil), but give glad tidings to those who patiently persevere" 2:155 Quran. One other place God says "Do men think that they will be left alone on saying, "We believe", and that they will not be tested? We did test those before them, and God will certainly know those who are true from those who are false." So my dear fellows this world is exactly about this test, now some of us tested harder then the others and the reward and levels of the heavens are also different then others. By afflictions some of us find hope and some lost all hopes. Some find faith and some loose faith. The argument you used to deny God can be use to prove the God. If you lost your wealth and health in this world then if there is no God and no here after then it is total loss. And this is completely hopelessness. But for me and people of faith this is one of the sign that there will be a day of judgment and God will reward all the patient ones. Narrated 'Abdullah: I visited Allah's Apostle while he was suffering from a high fever. I said, "O Allah's Apostle! You have a high fever." He said, "Yes, I have as much fever as two men of you." I said, "Is it because you will have a double reward?" He said, "Yes, it is so. No Muslim is afflicted with any harm, even if it were the prick of a thorn, but that Allah expiates his sins because of that, as a tree sheds its leaves."
Narrated Abu Huraira: Allah's Apostle said, "The example of a believer is that of a fresh tender plant; from whatever direction the wind comes, it bends it, but when the wind becomes quiet, it becomes straight again. Similarly, a believer is afflicted with calamities (but he remains patient till Allah removes his difficulties.) And an impious wicked person is like a pine tree which keeps hard and straight till Allah cuts (breaks) it down when He wishes."
Thanks for your response and may God heal you and return you to the health which once you enjoyed. Saima
> hmmmm.... > I have answers ...but my English...it is really poor...and also I have three [quoted text clipped - 99 lines] > > individual parts. Then again, I am probably over-doing the latter, > > too...sigh...is there no rest for the 'wicked' ;-) Kaye301 - 30 Nov 2003 15:46 GMT Saima wrote << Thanks for your response and may God heal you and return you to the health which once you enjoyed. Saima
Saima wrote << Thanks for your response and may God heal you and return you to the health which once you enjoyed.
Thank you, much appreciated.
However, Saima, you also wrote: <The argument you used to deny God can be use to prove the God. >>
I wasn't denying G-d. I do think there is a higher power beyond us that we do not yet have the capabiliity to understand. If I did deny the existence of G-d or a single G-d I would not be writing it in the manner that I have done. That is done to show that G-d is so much more than we can even fathom or comprehend. If one were to write the name of 'G-d' using the 'normal' or correct spelling that it would equivocate 'G-d' to something that can be explained in common terms. My relligion teaches that our prayers to G-d are in recognition and thanks for life. We do not yet understand what 'life' is all about. There is a comfort to those who do believe in a specific type of after life. The fact is that nobody knows what is beyond our existence here on earth. Even those who have had near death experiences do not know for sure that there is anything 'beyond.' Those experiences that they have described may be an inherent part of what happens to each of us at the end of our lives. It could be just an experience programmed into our brains. Then again, we really do not know. And for me, what is important is what I do in the here and now and the legacy I leave behind. I so very much want to live. Yet I realize that despite all that I and the doctors do cannot guarantee that will happen with cancer. My pathology report indicated that my course was 'bad news.. I have been so fortunate to havehad a physician who went beyond and allowed me a newer treatment from the start. I feel that my knowledge and background and also my personality thrust me into learning as much about the world of cancer that I am capable of understanding at this time. (I wish I had taken more sciences in college--but that is a 'differen't story I won't get into here). I have no clue if what I am doing will help me. It may. It might help others but cancer is so individualistic that it might not--or it might help for awhile. Is there any direct intervention from what I believe to be G-d. I may be wrong and hope that my error would be on the positive side for me. There may be but that is not my interpretation of what G-d is all about. Then again what may have caused me to do all that I am doing may be directly G-d-related. I/we just don't know. I do know that is where 'faith' comes in for those who do believe.
Kaye301 - 02 Dec 2003 08:11 GMT Saima wrote: << . The argument you used to deny God can be use to prove the God. >>
I can see both ways and am hoping my response clarified that. I have never denied the existence of a higher power (except for maybe when I was 15 and into different philosophies--but even then didn't deny it, although did question). My thoughts are from the humble perspective that we do not yet have the capabilty of knowing and/or understanding who/what 'G-d' IS.
aa - 03 Dec 2003 00:19 GMT I agree with you in that too.
> Saima wrote: << . The argument you used to deny God can be use to prove > the God. >> [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > My thoughts are from the humble perspective that we do not yet have the > capabilty of knowing and/or understanding who/what 'G-d' IS. Kaye301 - 03 Dec 2003 07:18 GMT Saima wrote: << I agree with you in that too.
Thanks for sharing...
aa - 03 Dec 2003 19:48 GMT no problem :) can I send you personal email ?
> Saima wrote: << I agree with you in that too. > >> > > Thanks for sharing... Kaye301 - 04 Dec 2003 06:52 GMT Saima wrote: << no problem :) can I send you personal email ?
Sure, as long as it isn't 'spam' (just kidding). Take care...
Kaye301 - 30 Nov 2003 15:25 GMT << I do not intend to impose my religion/ideas on you or on anyone else....
> > The sick person's sleep is considered as worship and his moaning as litany
> > of praise to Allah. > This is cynical, cruel. The first part of the article is about health,You took it totally wrong...this is to comfort you. >>
Saima wrote: << I do not intend to impose my religion/ideas on you or on anyone else....
> > The sick person's sleep is considered as worship and his moaning as litany
> > of praise to Allah. > This is cynical, cruel. The first part of the article is about health,You took it totally wrong...this is to comfort you. >>
Saima, I am not the one who wrote the above. I was writing a somewnat different take on it while commenting on the response that madiba had made. I realize how that interpretation was meant for 'comfort' although personally did not experience that. However, I could also see how someone else could interpret it that way. Anyway, I did realize that was not all what you or the Qaran was trying to convey.
<<but on any kind of hardship he is rewarding a lot.>>
I also understand how someone who has suffered can be made into thinking that is a positive. I have a hard time looking at that as suffering being seen as a reward. I guess though that when is in that situation, if one believes that it might make the whole process a bit 'easier.' I do not personally agree with that. I see it as a mockery of what living a good life is all about and the antithesis to believing in a good and just G-d. If leading a good life is going to result in suffering, than it makes a less than 'good' life seem all the more inviting.
madiba - 29 Nov 2003 15:15 GMT > The sick person's sleep is considered as worship and his moaning as litany > of praise to Allah. This is cynical, cruel.
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Tim Jackson - 30 Nov 2003 00:47 GMT > > The sick person's sleep is considered as worship and his moaning as litany > > of praise to Allah. > > > This is cynical, cruel. I suppose it depends how you look at it. I read it as meaning the sick person is excused the duty of worship.
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madiba - 30 Nov 2003 10:45 GMT > > > The sick person's sleep is considered as worship and his moaning > > > as litany of praise to Allah. [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > I suppose it depends how you look at it. I read it as meaning the sick > person is excused the duty of worship. So cut back on the morphine and the praising of Allah can be heard throughout the hospital... No, somethings wrong here.
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