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Medical Forum / Diseases and Disorders / Breast Cancer / April 2007Celebration or disappointment?
I'm just back from seeing the medical oncologist and being fondled. That clinic visit alternates with the surgeon's, the mammogram comes somewhere between so I see the team three times a year. This morning lovely Dr Kumar said that she'll see me in a year's time and think about discharging me; my diagnosis and surgery were in 1998. My heart sank a little, I've become fond of all the clinic personnel and look forward to seeing them. Yet I should be celebrating! <sigh> Perhaps my head should be examined :-) Mary >I'm just back from seeing the medical oncologist and being fondled. That >clinic visit alternates with the surgeon's, the mammogram comes somewhere [quoted text clipped - 11 lines] > >Mary I know what you mean. My oncologist, also named Dr Kumar, left the hospital several months ago. According to rumours because he wanted to try a new treatment on patients and wasn't given permission. So now there is only one oncologist for the whole health region. I feel a little bereft. I still visit another oncology unit in a larger city once a year, but see an intern, not that there is anything wrong with that, and I expect my next visit will be my last as it will be five years after the end of threatment. But we'll always have you guys! Marilyn PS Mary, I'm writing - have had computer problems >My heart sank a little, I've become fond of all > the clinic personnel and look forward to > seeing them. Yet I should be celebrating! >sgh> >Perhaps my head should be examined :-) >Mary You have to ASK?? I think they must have fondled your "head" too long, Mary! It's CELEBRATION time!! I'm raising my Coca Cola to you! An Oncologist is one doctor I don't think I will ever get so fond of that I won't be dancing on the ceiling when MY discharge day ever arrives! My doc is a nice guy but he is one doc I am eager to say goodbye too. You are "free at last"! Congratulations! You made it! Bea 'NO FORWARDS OR SPAM, PLEASE" >>My heart sank a little, I've become fond of all >> the clinic personnel and look forward to [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > > You have to ASK?? I didn't ask, just reported :-) > I think they must have fondled your "head" too long, My head was seen to in 1993, I was sorry when those clinic visits came to an end too. > Mary! It's CELEBRATION time!! I'm raising my Coca Cola to you! Thanks! I'll raise my glass of wine to you tonight! ... but they're all such nice people. > An Oncologist is one doctor I don't think I will ever get so fond of > that I won't be dancing on the ceiling when MY discharge day ever > arrives! My doc is a nice guy but he is one doc I am eager to say > goodbye too. > > You are "free at last"! Congratulations! You made it! I don't think I explained well enough :-) Relationships have been built with all the staff and I look forward to seeing them, they're part of life's extended circle. It's one of my problems, I get too involved with people. When all around me were cheering and burning their school ties I didn't want to leave school so I went back on the staff. I think the medics will miss me too, after ten years ... You're right of course, that I should be glad that there are no (apparent) signs of cancer. People are important though and I owe so much to them. Hugs, Mary > I don't think I explained well enough :-) Relationships have been built > with all the staff and I look forward to seeing them, they're part of [quoted text clipped - 6 lines] > You're right of course, that I should be glad that there are no (apparent) > signs of cancer. People are important though and I owe so much to them. I'll bet they wouldn't fuss too much if you stopped in every now & again to bring them a little treat, or a bouquet of lovely flowers for the office . . . . Ann T. Remove 'dontsendspam' from address to reply by email Oh Mary, I am so so pleased for you.I hope ' my story 'pans out just like yours. Love Kathleen > I'm just back from seeing the medical oncologist and being fondled. That > clinic visit alternates with the surgeon's, the mammogram comes somewhere [quoted text clipped - 11 lines] > > Mary Hello Mary, That is wonderful news! My oncologist released me after twenty years, a few years ago and I know exactly what you mean. I made him promise that if I needed an oncologist again, I wouldn't get shifted to another Dr. I still drop them a card at Christmas, and have run into him at the grocery. I think it would be really nice if you could stop by once in a while....The staff does become like extended family. I think they like seeing long term survivors too! Congratulations to you, dear Mary! Barb > This morning lovely Dr Kumar said that she'll see me in a year's time and > think about discharging me; my diagnosis and surgery were in 1998. [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > > Mary That is wonderful news, I can understand you missing the doctor though...... >> This morning lovely Dr Kumar said that she'll see me in a year's time and >> think about discharging me; my diagnosis and surgery were in 1998. [quoted text clipped - 10 lines] > That is wonderful news, I can understand you missing the doctor > though...... Thanks to everyone! On another note, the other week I was rung to ask if I'd go to another town's hospital for my overdue hysteroscopy because there was a backlog. I agreed and was given today's date. I starved from 7 pm yesterday, had no breakfast and only small drinks because I was to have a general. When I got there it was just to mee the surgeon - not to have any more investigation than verbal and a manual. He arranged for me to have the surgery next Monday, the day before my birthday. In the admissions office I was told that I'd have to go for a pre-assessment despite my already having one in my home city, the second hospital wouldn't accept that. OK, it was last September so I didn't protest. That will be tomorrow - at 9 am - I've usually only just got out of bed by then! Worse, the surgery will be at 7.30 am next Monday <sob> - I have an hour's drive too. Pass the matchsticks! (to prop open my eyelids in case someone doesn't know that expression). My diary seems to be full of clinic visits of one kind or another this month :-) Mary A yearly donation to the charity of your choice, in their honor, is a nice way to remember them and remind them that you are thinking of them and appreciate all they have done for you. Most charities will notify the honored person. >A yearly donation to the charity of your choice, in their honor, is a > nice way to remember them and remind them that you are thinking of > them and appreciate all they have done for you. Most charities will > notify the honored person. I agree. I've been doing that since I was diagnosed. Another charity I support regularly is in gratitude for the life-saving surgery I had from a neurosurgeon. Mary I want to know whether you're bragging or complaining about the fondling part. '-) >I want to know whether you're bragging or complaining about the > fondling part. > > '-) Not complaining!You have to get your kicks where you can :-) Haven't heard much from you recently, how are things? Hugs, Mary > Haven't heard much from you recently, how are things? Doing pretty well, Mary. As I said in the other thread it looks lilke it's almost time for a treatment change - Deborah's having some issues with fluid retention but a diuretic and some potassium supplements have helped considerably. Life is good. Hope things are going well for you and Spouse as well. hugs - >> Haven't heard much from you recently, how are things? > [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > > Hope things are going well for you and Spouse as well. I'll report off group - don't want to frighten the horses :-) Mary I read somewhere that the end of treatment is often a time of depression for patients....they have been so focused on their goal that when it is gone they have to redirect, and yes, they have to say goodbye to people who have become "family."\ > I'm just back from seeing the medical oncologist and being fondled. That > clinic visit alternates with the surgeon's, the mammogram comes somewhere > between so I see the team three times a year. > > This morning lovely Dr Kumar said that she'll see me in a year's time and > think about discharging me; my diagnosis and surgery were in 1998. > > My heart sank a little, I've become fond of all the clinic personnel and > look forward to seeing them. Yet I should be celebrating! > > <sigh> > > Perhaps my head should be examined :-) > > Mary > > > > I read somewhere that the end of treatment is often a time of depression > for patients....they have been so focused on their goal that when it is > gone they have to redirect, and yes, they have to say goodbye to people > who have become "family."\ Well, in my case I haven't had any treatment for almost five years. I never had a goal either :-) But I was never depressed and I daresay I'll manage to survive without the team - just as they'll have to survive without me :-) But I'm not normal - whatever that is - nor average, apparently. Thank goodness! Life's too good to waste it worrying or being depressed. There was no point in my having a goal to focus on, that was the medical team's job, I just did what they told me to do. It doesn't happen often ... Mary |
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