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Jeannette - 25 Jul 2006 04:12 GMT
Hello all-- I have not posted in several years, but lurk and read all posts.
Today I saw my oncologist - this was final every 6 month appointment- it has
been 5 years after completing treatment for IDC.  Yes!
It was pretty anticlimactic- but that's OK.
Friends and family are happy and supportive, but don't really get the impact
this has for a woman diagnosed with  breast cancer .
I wanted to express my joy with a group that has helped me beyond
description, and one that I know understands the significance of today.
All I can say is thank you.
Jeannette
x{yz}enophil44@hotmail.com - 25 Jul 2006 09:23 GMT
>Hello all-- I have not posted in several years, but lurk and read all posts.
>Today I saw my oncologist - this was final every 6 month appointment- it has
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>description, and one that I know understands the significance of today.
>All I can say is thank you.

Wonderful news.  Congratulations.

I have to wait for another five years taking Arimidex before that
happens to me.

Happy for you.
Mary Fisher - 25 Jul 2006 10:25 GMT
> Hello all-- I have not posted in several years, but lurk and read all
> posts.
> Today I saw my oncologist - this was final every 6 month appointment- it
> has been 5 years after completing treatment for IDC.  Yes!

Good!

> It was pretty anticlimactic- but that's OK.

It is surprisingly anticlimactic, we look forward to it for such a long time
and when it comes it's nothing special, no flags, no bells, no parties -
unless we make our own.

> Friends and family are happy and supportive, but don't really get the
> impact this has for a woman diagnosed with  breast cancer .

I think they possibly do but they too have lived with it - with us - for
five years. It's very difficult to think how it could be made special.

Except by sharing with those of us who have been there - and remember those
who didn't make it.

> I wanted to express my joy with a group that has helped me beyond
> description, and one that I know understands the significance of today.
> All I can say is thank you.

Thank you for posting. Don't leave it for another five years though :-)

Open a bottle of champagne. And don't get complacent! Take care crossing the
road :-)

Good Health :-)

Mary

> Jeannette
Eva - 25 Jul 2006 11:43 GMT
> Hello all-- I have not posted in several years, but lurk and read all posts.
> Today I saw my oncologist - this was final every 6 month appointment- it has
> been 5 years after completing treatment for IDC.  Yes!
----------------
Thank you for coming back to post this.   I long for the day when I can do
the same (knock wood), and I'm sure I'm not alone.

Eva
Mary Fisher - 25 Jul 2006 11:58 GMT
>> Hello all-- I have not posted in several years, but lurk and read all
> posts.
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> Thank you for coming back to post this.   I long for the day when I can do
> the same (knock wood), and I'm sure I'm not alone.

Start planning for the celebration NOW!

Be Prepared.

Mary

> Eva
A. P. Thorsen - 25 Jul 2006 13:36 GMT
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>>Thank you for coming back to post this.   I long for the day when I can do
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> Be Prepared.

Heck, *have* the celebration now.  Have another one then.  Practice
makes perfect!

And even when life is long, life is short <grin>.

Gotta wring every last bit of fun out of it, eh?

Ann T.
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Mary Fisher - 25 Jul 2006 13:56 GMT
>>>----------------
>>>Thank you for coming back to post this.   I long for the day when I can
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> Heck, *have* the celebration now.  Have another one then.  Practice makes
> perfect!

That's what I wanted to say but it might have been misunderstood :-)

Have several rehearsals to make sure you get it right..

> And even when life is long, life is short <grin>.
>
> Gotta wring every last bit of fun out of it, eh?

Absolutely!

Mary
R. Fizek - 25 Jul 2006 14:29 GMT
I'm so happy for you - I wish the same for all of us!

Tamara

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>>>>Thank you for coming back to post this.   I long for the day when I can
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>
> Mary
Mary Fisher - 25 Jul 2006 17:07 GMT
> Hello all-- I have not posted in several years, but lurk and read all
> posts.
> Today I saw my oncologist - this was final every 6 month appointment- it
> has been 5 years after completing treatment for IDC.  Yes!
> It was pretty anticlimactic- but that's OK.

Jeanette - I'm going to have champagne this evening and drink a toast to
your five years with the first glass!

The second glass will be to your next five.

The third .. um, perhaps I should drink to my last eight!

Mary
Mary Fisher - 25 Jul 2006 21:03 GMT
>> Hello all-- I have not posted in several years, but lurk and read all
>> posts.
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>
> Mary

Hic!
alex - 25 Jul 2006 23:48 GMT
Wonderful news and thanks for sharing...Alex
> Hello all-- I have not posted in several years, but lurk and read all
> posts.
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> All I can say is thank you.
> Jeannette
Jeannette - 26 Jul 2006 03:34 GMT
All your responses have left me feeling very supported.
Thank you.
When I joined this group,  I experienced hope, tears, anger , frustration,
joy, and again, hope.
That continues.
Joining a club no one wants to join -- you can mope and feel bad (which I
did) or get on with things (which I decided after a while).
While I don't recommend cancer to anyone, it did shift my perspectives on
pretty much everything the way  that nothing else in the world can (I know
everyone is nodding in agreement!)
My life has changed for the better in many ways-I won't bore you with
minutiae.One example though--After I finished my last chemo and felt
better., I ended up meeting my fiancé via Match.com! We are happily living
together and will marry one of these days.  I would NEVER had done on-line
dating before.
We all could die tonight- cancer is just one of the factors.
I miss the members who have been my role models-- Catherine Honeyman  comes
to mind, but not to dismiss anyone else.  I wonder where Crosem is.
Again thanks to all the group members.
Jeannette
P.S. Mary-- I am cheering you with a nice glass of  chardonnay!   You and
Ann are also my role models!
Piper - 27 Jul 2006 11:10 GMT
Congratulations Jeanette and thanks for the reminder. I'm 8 years on,
like Mary, and tend to forget that life, with or without a cancer
experience, should be a celebration. It's too easy to get bogged down
again...keep celebrating and here's to the next five!

Rachel
Piper - 27 Jul 2006 11:10 GMT
Congratulations Jeanette and thanks for the reminder. I'm 8 years on,
like Mary, and tend to forget that life, with or without a cancer
experience, should be a celebration. It's too easy to get bogged down
again...keep celebrating and here's to the next five!

Rachel
 
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