> I am so glad you finally went for a mammogram. It sounds like your tests
> results came back OK. I am so happy for you.
> Could you tell me if you needed pain medication? Also, could you shower
> the next day, and were you able to get out and do stuff?
> My lumpectomy is scheduled for 12/30, and I have a feeling I will not
> feel like going out for New Year's Eve. Just thought I would ask how
> you were feeling in this regard.
My 2¢ contribution: I had quadrantectomy with sentinel node biopsy -
similar to the surgery you are about to undergo. I stayed in the
hospital for 4 days after the surgery, although this was due more to
lack of doctors to sign the papers, rather than to the 'seriousness'
of my condition. I was walking and eating normally one day after
surgery, but I asked for painkillers on the first two nights, not so
much because of the wound, but because I had backache from not being
able to sleep on the side (%$£& drain tube).
I think pain in the hospital becomes a problem also because you have
nothing to do and nothing else to think about...
Wish you all the best for the upcoming surgery,
Chiara
Simplicity - 18 Dec 2004 15:17 GMT
Yes, it is hard to have to sleep on your back all night - that bothered
me too. At home, I had pillows on both sides to kind of "fence me
in".
And I didn't care for the drain tube - I understand it's importance,
but wish I could have gotten it out sooner. It is a pretty ingenious
little device - hubby was impressed! LOL
Someone mentioned sports bras for support, and that was all I had, so
that is what I used - and they weren't too difficult to get off and on.
I really wonder though if those front clasp sleeping bras wouldn't
better?
Also, wondering, since I am a bit lopsided now - if I should look into
some kind of inexpensive padding or something? It wouldn't be a big
deal - except for the few occassions when I need to dress up for
public.
I gave up wearing bras years ago because of pain under the left breast
on the bone ( it might be a cracked rib from years ago) - but should I
be wearing support for my breasts now - does that affect BC either way?
Simplicity
Tim Jackson - 18 Dec 2004 20:52 GMT
> I gave up wearing bras years ago because of pain under the left breast
> on the bone ( it might be a cracked rib from years ago) - but should I
> be wearing support for my breasts now - does that affect BC either way?
> Simplicity
I believe the answer to that is that bras do not affect bc either way.
Tim Jackson
*Annie* - 19 Dec 2004 05:18 GMT
Simplicity....
It's up to your own preference, but my BC surgeon told me it would help
to use a sport bra as long as your comfortable in it. It supports the
breast or wound and keep the bandaging in place. I'd worn them all the
time prior to bc as they're more comfortable then regular bras I think.
I don't work outside the home [Gene says I don't do much inside the home
either lol!!!], so I don't really need a really "structured" type of
bra. My bc surgeon told me he was glad I'd worn them already, as that
was something he didn't have to discuss/fight with me about..some don't
want to wear them [don't ask/geez! I practically live in mine I love
them]. I do wear a "regular" bra when I leave the house.
Take care there/God bless
annie
Ultimately.....we know deeply that the other side of every fear is a
freedom.
"Courage"...is *fear* that has said it's prayers.
Simplicity - 19 Dec 2004 12:09 GMT
Yes, I wore one for two weeks after the surgery (sports bra) and am now
finding if I don't wear one, the breast gets sore faster. I guess it
is normal for the incisions to be like welts now? Anyway, it can still
be uncomfortable at times.
Usually around the house I wore a type of stretchy t-shirt under my
shirts.
Ouch! Three drain tubes!! Goodness, I would sleep by myself too.
Hubby was aghast when he saw how long the tube was! Glad I didn't see
it!!
Doing pretty good - swear I was having PMS the other day or two - now I
am just hovering between the usual Christmas depression and the anxiety
of the move. But all this too shall pass - one way or the other!
Happy Holidays Annie!
*Annie* - 19 Dec 2004 05:25 GMT
Ahhh...The "drain tubes" how lovely...I had 3 of them and I think you
have to wait until they get down to draining below 30cc in a 24 hour
period.
Of course mine didn't co-operate and I had the last one in for a month I
think.
And yes! I hate sleeping on my back. I always sleep on my left side and
when I tried that the drain tubes pulled terribly. Ouchie!
But when I found I couldn't sleep, I took a pain pill and then didn't
give a rats pitute where or how I was sleeping.
Gene slept on the couch for the first few days as he was afraid he'd
roll over and bump into me...I thanked him saying that would be a Big
Ouchie!
I was SO relieved when they finally took these silly things out, so I
could resume sleeping the way I wanted to.
They do serve a purpose, as you certainly want that building up inside
you, as that would create more problems for you.,
And I think you're dealing woth enough, thank you very much...
Take care there dear/God bless
annie
p/s if you need anything, just email or post...whichever will be
fine...@
Ultimately.....we know deeply that the other side of every fear is a
freedom.
"Courage"...is *fear* that has said it's prayers.