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OTP:  what can i say about my absence?

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d'huit - 17 Sep 2005 21:38 GMT
after i wrote that question on the subject line, i exhaled as if its
daunting to answer.  3 months of absence,  though i popped in here briefly a
couple of times; one time with more of a 'tude than i prefer.

start from the beginning, i guess.  the gimpfest was awesome.  i sooooo
loved finally meeting some of my most favorite people in the world.  we
gotta do NW gimpfests more often!  i think i mentioned i had company for two
weeks when i returned from portland and then, had my grandson for the entire
month of july (including during the overlap of company for the first two
weeks).  it takes me awhile to recover from having so much fun.  i know how
funny that sounds.LOL  but i did and it was.

just to give you an idea of what i mean about recovery, my neice's wedding
and reception was on the 3rd of this month.  i stayed for 3 1/2 hours and
recovered for three days, cancelled out my wednesday ortho-surgeon appmt.,
because i knew i had another wedding to attend on the 10th--adding a
doctor's appmt. in the middle seemed like more than i could handle for that
week.  (sigh . . . and i saw a photo of my doctor on the web too.  what a
hubba hunk!  of course, i rescheduled!--you don't think that part of me is
dead, do you?!)  and hey, weddings are once in a lifetime things; i know my
spine is going to be forever.  truth is i've been pooped and pooped makes me
have a 'tude (even i don't like) and start thinking weird thoughts and weird
rationalizations about why i'm not doing things.  low energy levels can be
the pitts.

even my trip home from the portland gimpfest was, er, interesting---i had to
pull off i-5 every 15 minutes to shut my eyes, cuz pain was making me
inattentive (i get sleepy-ish, for want of a better word, when i can't
focus), despite having my air conditioner on its cryogenic setting and the
volume of my sound system on its "for skydivers in flight" setting.   and i
don't do drugs and drive.  one major carwreck in a lifetime was enough for
this kid (even though drugs had nothing to do with that one), thank you.

speaking of car wrecks, but more like wrecked cars---last month, i backed
out of my carport, while i was sorta "in" my rav4, with the door open
(sortal "out" too, while in motion of tossing a leftover smoothie cup in the
trash.  good thing my foot hadn't quite left the car when it started to
roll.)   yep.  you guessed it.  rav4 got a $4,000 boo-boo (but i didn't,
thank goodness.)---car doors are kinda like elbows, they only like bending
one way, for some reason.  but that was the best test possible, to determine
the structural integrity of the carport!  solid as a rock, that is.  nice to
know.  the rav left only one little mark on the lazy carport post that
wouldn't get out of the way.  with only 2200 miles on the rav's odometer, my
insurance company didn't want any bondo (neither did i, actually), so it
took two weeks for everything to be replaced (and have the cardoor post
straightened), from the front fender to the back door on the driver's side.
what i think is amusing is that, now, that side of the car (and all of its
electrical stuff) is warranteed for as long as i own it.   the rest of the
car is only warranteed for 7 years or 75,000 miles.  blessings abound.LOL
that is the very last time i will ever concern myself with tidying the
inside of my car, after i've turned on the ignition and put it into gear.

my lawn tractor kinda blew a tire.  still working on figuring out why a 5
pound piece of firewood irritated my tractor's sensibilities so much.  that
tractor, with its tire and axle, grabbed onto that chunk of wood like it was
going to strangle the life out of it.  must not have known the wood was
already dead.  but i really think the tractor just didn't want to deal with
the huge job ahead of it.  so, it transferred its aggression to the wood,
instead of strangling the weeds (which we all know are living things.
taboo--musn't strangle living things.).  soooo, since i was at a loss to
repair it for a couple of weeks, and since the alternative was posting signs
that read, "weed cultivation area for weed irradication testing--no, i am
not unconscious", i hired somebody to mow my 3 front yards.  egads!  $120
later and i was thinking---i wonder just how much do chest high weeds
reeeeally bother my neighbors?  they've never mentioned it, though their
yards are well-groomed.  so, i guess guilt by association (comparing my yard
to theirs) can be somewhat motivational, sometimes.

geesh, i just realized i'm writing a book here.  too long for a post.  will
fill in more details in later posts, (for other things, like  the garbage
disposal dying; my son replacing it and how flooding ensued), so you guys
don't have to take more painpills, because of eye-strain.  see how
considerate i am?<smile>

kate
debbie m. - 17 Sep 2005 22:00 GMT
LOL - Kate, I want the rest of the story when you feel like writing.
Glad to know your still around.

debbie m.

> after i wrote that question on the subject line, i exhaled as if its
> daunting to answer.  3 months of absence,  though i popped in here briefly a
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> kate
d'huit - 18 Sep 2005 01:44 GMT
well, today's episode entailed replacing kitchen sink fixtures.  those cool
fixture dispenser's soap and chrome fixtures from the days of their
innovation, despite the enticing photos on mfg. packaging, were often at
odds with each other.  with those old chrome fixtures, the soap dispenser's
contents (no matter what brand i used) had an appetite for chrome,
preferring to nibble at it around the edges for years, at first, no matter
how much i wiped.  and then, it got piggish and hollowed the chrome out,
like a chocolate easter bunny that buckles or fractures if you press too
hard.

picture 28 year old son (who has never installed a faucet, let alone a sink
before), his friend and his friend's girlfriend (both also having the same
expertise) vs. a two ton cast iron kohler double sink that won't get out of
the way of wrenches being employed from underneath.  after his first
grunting session, i told him i would call a plumber to install the new
fixtures, so he wouldn't have to suffer so.

but my son is a stalwart and brave soul, despite the intimidating color of
the air around him, which was punctuated by an occassional gleeful
laugh--whenever the cabalistic mysteries of the plumbing dieties surrendered
their metaphysical secrets to his determination.  but believe me, there was
no zenlike connection going on.  problem solved--jack up the sink and he's
been using an assortment of some very perplexing, but ingenious plumbing
tools for the job, like:  razor blades, firewood kindling, old socks, paint
stirrers, new hardwood flooring planks and lots of peculiar humor, uttered
between toothgrinding.

upon my last venture into the land of "no nod could ever be possible", the
glint of his eye and the facile swing of his arm, while hoisting a can of
pop to his lips, told me he pretty much conquered everest and felt ready for
k-2.  it looks good, it works, no leaks that i could find, and now . . . he
defies dispenser soap to eat through stainless steel fixtures.LOL  i gotta
love that kid of mine.<smile>

kate

> LOL - Kate, I want the rest of the story when you feel like writing.
> Glad to know your still around.
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>> kate
Harvey R. Stone - 18 Sep 2005 14:34 GMT
> well, today's episode entailed replacing kitchen sink fixtures.  those
> cool fixture dispenser's soap and chrome fixtures from the days of their
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> kate

LOLOL,  With good reason,,,, a man to have on your side. LOL
Harv
d'huit - 19 Sep 2005 17:58 GMT
>> well, today's episode entailed replacing kitchen sink fixtures.  those
>> cool fixture dispenser's soap and chrome fixtures from the days of their
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> LOLOL,  With good reason,,,, a man to have on your side. LOL
> Harv

yeah, he is, harv.  i'm a very lucky mom and well i know it.<smile>

kate
Harvey R. Stone - 19 Sep 2005 18:58 GMT
>> LOLOL,  With good reason,,,, a man to have on your side. LOL
>> Harv
> yeah, he is, harv.  i'm a very lucky mom and well i know it.<smile> kate

Everything in this life take a little of what we call luck but I do not
believe that it is luck with what children become.  Things happen that can
change a persons life but how they hand what happens comes from a life time
of training,,, caring,,, and being there when needed.
  I really do like the way your son dug in with a problem with plans to get
it done,,, adjusted to get it done and got it done.   My kind of guy.   In
all honesty one of my sons would of done the same.  LOL The other would of
paid a plumber.   So it goes.
Harv
Sunny52 - 18 Sep 2005 15:19 GMT
Wishing you well Kate, and hoping you will continue to light up this
space with your wit and humor.

Take care.
Bonnie
d'huit - 19 Sep 2005 17:59 GMT
> Wishing you well Kate, and hoping you will continue to light up this
> space with your wit and humor.
>
> Take care.
> Bonnie

auuuwww, thank you, bonnie.

kate
Skip - 18 Sep 2005 17:24 GMT
Hey, that sounds like the day I decided the electrical outlet in my kitchen
was in the wrong placelol.   some time later.... lol!
It works, may not look good but it works and I feel i can work in my kitchen
better. Chalk one up for inexpert efforts!

Skip

> well, today's episode entailed replacing kitchen sink fixtures.  those
> cool fixture dispenser's soap and chrome fixtures from the days of their
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>>> kate
d'huit - 19 Sep 2005 18:16 GMT
> Hey, that sounds like the day I decided the electrical outlet in my
> kitchen was in the wrong placelol.   some time later.... lol!
> It works, may not look good but it works and I feel i can work in my
> kitchen better. Chalk one up for inexpert efforts!
>
> Skip

LOL!  how are you with three-way switches in a bathroom, skip?LOL  just
kidding.  actually, i can, have done so before and will change the switches
myself.

egads, but i'm slowly realizing just how much has been neglected around here
over the years.  i simply allowed house things to deteriorate, so that i
didn't put pressure on butch or make him feel bad about not doing them or
not being able to do them.  it was such a matter of masculine pride, his
self-sufficiency, that loathed the thought of hiring things done, when he
(and i) knew he had the knowledge and wonderful skills to do them himself,
even when his body was failing him and he couldn't.  how hard it must have
been for him, not to be able to do them and to have to pretend things didn't
need to be done.  poor guy.  i can only imagine how he must have felt.

kate

>> well, today's episode entailed replacing kitchen sink fixtures.  those
>> cool fixture dispenser's soap and chrome fixtures from the days of their
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>>>> kate
vickie b. - 17 Sep 2005 22:01 GMT
(((((kate)))))

It's sooooo nice to hear an update on you!  Come back more often.  I
miss you!

Vickie B.
d'huit - 19 Sep 2005 18:17 GMT
thank you, vickie.  how've you been?

kate
> (((((kate)))))
>
> It's sooooo nice to hear an update on you!  Come back more often.  I
> miss you!
>
> Vickie B.
nikki - 17 Sep 2005 22:40 GMT
Sjeeezzz, some story! When can we expect the movie LOL
Where can we take a look at that dr of yours? ;-) You've made me
curious, I do have a very hunky rd too, first 2 visits I hardly heard
what he was telling me, I couldn't help myself staring into his
beautiful eyes all the time, guess there are some lights about having to
visit rd regularly :-)

:-)  Nikki

> after i wrote that question on the subject line, i exhaled as if its
> daunting to answer.  3 months of absence,  though i popped in here briefly a
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> kate
d'huit - 17 Sep 2005 23:13 GMT
here you go, nikki:

http://www.pssi-spine.com/pssi.htm

my ortho-surgeon is the third guy down the bio list (when you click on the
"meet your physicians" link on the lefthand side of the page), dr. martin.
my spine "needs" to go to him, but the rest of me doesn't seem to mind
having to tag along, for some reason.  i think there must be something to be
said for the healing potential of pretty. ô¿ô

kate

> Sjeeezzz, some story! When can we expect the movie LOL
> Where can we take a look at that dr of yours? ;-) You've made me curious,
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>> kate
Gwen Love - 18 Sep 2005 01:31 GMT
He's the best looking of the whole group.  Is that how you chose him????
Gwen

> here you go, nikki:
>
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>>> kate
d'huit - 18 Sep 2005 01:57 GMT
nah, he was chosen for me, by my rd.  aren't i lucky to have an rd who
appreciates fine art?   if he's as good as he looks, i should be dancing
again by christmas, ice skating again by springtime, lose 50 pounds and 20
years by summer.  i can dream, can't i?

kate

> He's the best looking of the whole group.  Is that how you chose him????
> Gwen
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>>>> kate
Skip - 18 Sep 2005 17:30 GMT
lol!  I feel the same way about my dentist.  haven't missed an appointment
in 10 years (grin)

skip

> nah, he was chosen for me, by my rd.  aren't i lucky to have an rd who
> appreciates fine art?   if he's as good as he looks, i should be dancing
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>>>>> kate
nikki - 19 Sep 2005 21:46 GMT
lololollol, and it;s getting worse; my dentist just retired and his
VERY    hunky son has taken over, guess who was in the chair every 2 weeks
for replacement of fillings (and I mean teeth, you diry minds
lololololol)..

nikki

> lol!  I feel the same way about my dentist.  haven't missed an appointment
> in 10 years (grin)
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Gwen Love - 18 Sep 2005 01:26 GMT
Kate, I was just getting into your story.  Why did you stop?  Come on tell
all.  Can't see that you've had any problems thus far <vbeg>!
Gwen

> after i wrote that question on the subject line, i exhaled as if its
> daunting to answer.  3 months of absence,  though i popped in here briefly
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> kate
d'huit - 18 Sep 2005 01:48 GMT
see today's serial episode beneath debbie's comment on this thread, gwen.  i
had to stop, to run in and out from here whenever beckoned to the kitchen
by, "hey, mom, come in here a minute."

kate

> Kate, I was just getting into your story.  Why did you stop?  Come on tell
> all.  Can't see that you've had any problems thus far <vbeg>!
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>> kate
Diane - 18 Sep 2005 16:29 GMT
kate, i am just glad to see you're back!

diane
d'huit - 19 Sep 2005 18:19 GMT
> kate, i am just glad to see you're back!
>
> diane

<smiling>  thank you, diane.  i'm glad you are here.

kate
Kelly Cobb - 18 Sep 2005 02:35 GMT
*squeeze*

We have to get together again soon. :)

Kelly C.

> after i wrote that question on the subject line, i exhaled as if its
> daunting to answer.  3 months of absence,  though i popped in here briefly a
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> kate
d'huit - 19 Sep 2005 18:20 GMT
> *squeeze*
>
> We have to get together again soon. :)
>
> Kelly C.

i could dig that, totally!  (((((kelly))))

kate

>> after i wrote that question on the subject line, i exhaled as if its
>> daunting to answer.  3 months of absence,  though i popped in here
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>> kate
Mary Z - 20 Sep 2005 04:07 GMT
>3 months of absence,

well about damn time you came home!   enough said!  I haven't been
posting much either.  It was a blast meeting you, I need to go up to
Seattle for a visit.

Visit my website:
http://www.mzuschlag.com
d'huit - 20 Sep 2005 05:18 GMT
>>3 months of absence,
>
> well about damn time you came home!   enough said!  I haven't been
> posting much either.  It was a blast meeting you, I need to go up to
> Seattle for a visit.

LOL!  yeah, it IS about damn time.LOL  you crack me up! LOL

the blast was mutual.  so fun.   it would be wild and fun having you up
here, too.   of course, i've gotta get back down there again.  we have some
wine tasting to do and there's this thing about a river i would totally love
to experience.   ô¿ô

kate

> Visit my website:
> http://www.mzuschlag.com 
Squirrely - 21 Sep 2005 10:23 GMT
Kate,

boy you are just the really busy woman arent you. I don't know how you do it
but I am proud of you. Take care and don't overdo. Take a long needed rest.

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Love and hugs to all
Good thoughts coming your way too.

Squirrely Jo

> after i wrote that question on the subject line, i exhaled as if its
> daunting to answer.  3 months of absence,  though i popped in here briefly
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> kate
 
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