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OTP: what can i say about my absence?
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d'huit - 17 Sep 2005 21:38 GMT after i wrote that question on the subject line, i exhaled as if its daunting to answer. 3 months of absence, though i popped in here briefly a couple of times; one time with more of a 'tude than i prefer.
start from the beginning, i guess. the gimpfest was awesome. i sooooo loved finally meeting some of my most favorite people in the world. we gotta do NW gimpfests more often! i think i mentioned i had company for two weeks when i returned from portland and then, had my grandson for the entire month of july (including during the overlap of company for the first two weeks). it takes me awhile to recover from having so much fun. i know how funny that sounds.LOL but i did and it was.
just to give you an idea of what i mean about recovery, my neice's wedding and reception was on the 3rd of this month. i stayed for 3 1/2 hours and recovered for three days, cancelled out my wednesday ortho-surgeon appmt., because i knew i had another wedding to attend on the 10th--adding a doctor's appmt. in the middle seemed like more than i could handle for that week. (sigh . . . and i saw a photo of my doctor on the web too. what a hubba hunk! of course, i rescheduled!--you don't think that part of me is dead, do you?!) and hey, weddings are once in a lifetime things; i know my spine is going to be forever. truth is i've been pooped and pooped makes me have a 'tude (even i don't like) and start thinking weird thoughts and weird rationalizations about why i'm not doing things. low energy levels can be the pitts.
even my trip home from the portland gimpfest was, er, interesting---i had to pull off i-5 every 15 minutes to shut my eyes, cuz pain was making me inattentive (i get sleepy-ish, for want of a better word, when i can't focus), despite having my air conditioner on its cryogenic setting and the volume of my sound system on its "for skydivers in flight" setting. and i don't do drugs and drive. one major carwreck in a lifetime was enough for this kid (even though drugs had nothing to do with that one), thank you.
speaking of car wrecks, but more like wrecked cars---last month, i backed out of my carport, while i was sorta "in" my rav4, with the door open (sortal "out" too, while in motion of tossing a leftover smoothie cup in the trash. good thing my foot hadn't quite left the car when it started to roll.) yep. you guessed it. rav4 got a $4,000 boo-boo (but i didn't, thank goodness.)---car doors are kinda like elbows, they only like bending one way, for some reason. but that was the best test possible, to determine the structural integrity of the carport! solid as a rock, that is. nice to know. the rav left only one little mark on the lazy carport post that wouldn't get out of the way. with only 2200 miles on the rav's odometer, my insurance company didn't want any bondo (neither did i, actually), so it took two weeks for everything to be replaced (and have the cardoor post straightened), from the front fender to the back door on the driver's side. what i think is amusing is that, now, that side of the car (and all of its electrical stuff) is warranteed for as long as i own it. the rest of the car is only warranteed for 7 years or 75,000 miles. blessings abound.LOL that is the very last time i will ever concern myself with tidying the inside of my car, after i've turned on the ignition and put it into gear.
my lawn tractor kinda blew a tire. still working on figuring out why a 5 pound piece of firewood irritated my tractor's sensibilities so much. that tractor, with its tire and axle, grabbed onto that chunk of wood like it was going to strangle the life out of it. must not have known the wood was already dead. but i really think the tractor just didn't want to deal with the huge job ahead of it. so, it transferred its aggression to the wood, instead of strangling the weeds (which we all know are living things. taboo--musn't strangle living things.). soooo, since i was at a loss to repair it for a couple of weeks, and since the alternative was posting signs that read, "weed cultivation area for weed irradication testing--no, i am not unconscious", i hired somebody to mow my 3 front yards. egads! $120 later and i was thinking---i wonder just how much do chest high weeds reeeeally bother my neighbors? they've never mentioned it, though their yards are well-groomed. so, i guess guilt by association (comparing my yard to theirs) can be somewhat motivational, sometimes.
geesh, i just realized i'm writing a book here. too long for a post. will fill in more details in later posts, (for other things, like the garbage disposal dying; my son replacing it and how flooding ensued), so you guys don't have to take more painpills, because of eye-strain. see how considerate i am?<smile>
kate
debbie m. - 17 Sep 2005 22:00 GMT LOL - Kate, I want the rest of the story when you feel like writing. Glad to know your still around.
debbie m.
> after i wrote that question on the subject line, i exhaled as if its > daunting to answer. 3 months of absence, though i popped in here briefly a [quoted text clipped - 71 lines] > > kate d'huit - 18 Sep 2005 01:44 GMT well, today's episode entailed replacing kitchen sink fixtures. those cool fixture dispenser's soap and chrome fixtures from the days of their innovation, despite the enticing photos on mfg. packaging, were often at odds with each other. with those old chrome fixtures, the soap dispenser's contents (no matter what brand i used) had an appetite for chrome, preferring to nibble at it around the edges for years, at first, no matter how much i wiped. and then, it got piggish and hollowed the chrome out, like a chocolate easter bunny that buckles or fractures if you press too hard.
picture 28 year old son (who has never installed a faucet, let alone a sink before), his friend and his friend's girlfriend (both also having the same expertise) vs. a two ton cast iron kohler double sink that won't get out of the way of wrenches being employed from underneath. after his first grunting session, i told him i would call a plumber to install the new fixtures, so he wouldn't have to suffer so.
but my son is a stalwart and brave soul, despite the intimidating color of the air around him, which was punctuated by an occassional gleeful laugh--whenever the cabalistic mysteries of the plumbing dieties surrendered their metaphysical secrets to his determination. but believe me, there was no zenlike connection going on. problem solved--jack up the sink and he's been using an assortment of some very perplexing, but ingenious plumbing tools for the job, like: razor blades, firewood kindling, old socks, paint stirrers, new hardwood flooring planks and lots of peculiar humor, uttered between toothgrinding.
upon my last venture into the land of "no nod could ever be possible", the glint of his eye and the facile swing of his arm, while hoisting a can of pop to his lips, told me he pretty much conquered everest and felt ready for k-2. it looks good, it works, no leaks that i could find, and now . . . he defies dispenser soap to eat through stainless steel fixtures.LOL i gotta love that kid of mine.<smile>
kate
> LOL - Kate, I want the rest of the story when you feel like writing. > Glad to know your still around. [quoted text clipped - 106 lines] >> >> kate Harvey R. Stone - 18 Sep 2005 14:34 GMT > well, today's episode entailed replacing kitchen sink fixtures. those > cool fixture dispenser's soap and chrome fixtures from the days of their [quoted text clipped - 31 lines] > > kate LOLOL, With good reason,,,, a man to have on your side. LOL Harv
d'huit - 19 Sep 2005 17:58 GMT >> well, today's episode entailed replacing kitchen sink fixtures. those >> cool fixture dispenser's soap and chrome fixtures from the days of their [quoted text clipped - 34 lines] > LOLOL, With good reason,,,, a man to have on your side. LOL > Harv yeah, he is, harv. i'm a very lucky mom and well i know it.<smile>
kate
Harvey R. Stone - 19 Sep 2005 18:58 GMT >> LOLOL, With good reason,,,, a man to have on your side. LOL >> Harv > yeah, he is, harv. i'm a very lucky mom and well i know it.<smile> kate Everything in this life take a little of what we call luck but I do not believe that it is luck with what children become. Things happen that can change a persons life but how they hand what happens comes from a life time of training,,, caring,,, and being there when needed. I really do like the way your son dug in with a problem with plans to get it done,,, adjusted to get it done and got it done. My kind of guy. In all honesty one of my sons would of done the same. LOL The other would of paid a plumber. So it goes. Harv
Sunny52 - 18 Sep 2005 15:19 GMT Wishing you well Kate, and hoping you will continue to light up this space with your wit and humor.
Take care. Bonnie
d'huit - 19 Sep 2005 17:59 GMT > Wishing you well Kate, and hoping you will continue to light up this > space with your wit and humor. > > Take care. > Bonnie auuuwww, thank you, bonnie.
kate
Skip - 18 Sep 2005 17:24 GMT Hey, that sounds like the day I decided the electrical outlet in my kitchen was in the wrong placelol. some time later.... lol! It works, may not look good but it works and I feel i can work in my kitchen better. Chalk one up for inexpert efforts!
Skip
> well, today's episode entailed replacing kitchen sink fixtures. those > cool fixture dispenser's soap and chrome fixtures from the days of their [quoted text clipped - 153 lines] >>> >>> kate d'huit - 19 Sep 2005 18:16 GMT > Hey, that sounds like the day I decided the electrical outlet in my > kitchen was in the wrong placelol. some time later.... lol! > It works, may not look good but it works and I feel i can work in my > kitchen better. Chalk one up for inexpert efforts! > > Skip LOL! how are you with three-way switches in a bathroom, skip?LOL just kidding. actually, i can, have done so before and will change the switches myself.
egads, but i'm slowly realizing just how much has been neglected around here over the years. i simply allowed house things to deteriorate, so that i didn't put pressure on butch or make him feel bad about not doing them or not being able to do them. it was such a matter of masculine pride, his self-sufficiency, that loathed the thought of hiring things done, when he (and i) knew he had the knowledge and wonderful skills to do them himself, even when his body was failing him and he couldn't. how hard it must have been for him, not to be able to do them and to have to pretend things didn't need to be done. poor guy. i can only imagine how he must have felt.
kate
>> well, today's episode entailed replacing kitchen sink fixtures. those >> cool fixture dispenser's soap and chrome fixtures from the days of their [quoted text clipped - 159 lines] >>>> >>>> kate vickie b. - 17 Sep 2005 22:01 GMT (((((kate)))))
It's sooooo nice to hear an update on you! Come back more often. I miss you!
Vickie B.
d'huit - 19 Sep 2005 18:17 GMT thank you, vickie. how've you been?
kate
> (((((kate))))) > > It's sooooo nice to hear an update on you! Come back more often. I > miss you! > > Vickie B. nikki - 17 Sep 2005 22:40 GMT Sjeeezzz, some story! When can we expect the movie LOL Where can we take a look at that dr of yours? ;-) You've made me curious, I do have a very hunky rd too, first 2 visits I hardly heard what he was telling me, I couldn't help myself staring into his beautiful eyes all the time, guess there are some lights about having to visit rd regularly :-)
:-) Nikki
> after i wrote that question on the subject line, i exhaled as if its > daunting to answer. 3 months of absence, though i popped in here briefly a [quoted text clipped - 71 lines] > > kate d'huit - 17 Sep 2005 23:13 GMT here you go, nikki:
http://www.pssi-spine.com/pssi.htm
my ortho-surgeon is the third guy down the bio list (when you click on the "meet your physicians" link on the lefthand side of the page), dr. martin. my spine "needs" to go to him, but the rest of me doesn't seem to mind having to tag along, for some reason. i think there must be something to be said for the healing potential of pretty. ô¿ô
kate
> Sjeeezzz, some story! When can we expect the movie LOL > Where can we take a look at that dr of yours? ;-) You've made me curious, [quoted text clipped - 82 lines] >> >> kate Gwen Love - 18 Sep 2005 01:31 GMT He's the best looking of the whole group. Is that how you chose him???? Gwen
> here you go, nikki: > [quoted text clipped - 95 lines] >>> >>> kate d'huit - 18 Sep 2005 01:57 GMT nah, he was chosen for me, by my rd. aren't i lucky to have an rd who appreciates fine art? if he's as good as he looks, i should be dancing again by christmas, ice skating again by springtime, lose 50 pounds and 20 years by summer. i can dream, can't i?
kate
> He's the best looking of the whole group. Is that how you chose him???? > Gwen [quoted text clipped - 99 lines] >>>> >>>> kate Skip - 18 Sep 2005 17:30 GMT lol! I feel the same way about my dentist. haven't missed an appointment in 10 years (grin)
skip
> nah, he was chosen for me, by my rd. aren't i lucky to have an rd who > appreciates fine art? if he's as good as he looks, i should be dancing [quoted text clipped - 109 lines] >>>>> >>>>> kate nikki - 19 Sep 2005 21:46 GMT lololollol, and it;s getting worse; my dentist just retired and his VERY hunky son has taken over, guess who was in the chair every 2 weeks for replacement of fillings (and I mean teeth, you diry minds lololololol)..
nikki
> lol! I feel the same way about my dentist. haven't missed an appointment > in 10 years (grin) [quoted text clipped - 114 lines] >>>>>> >>>>>>kate Gwen Love - 18 Sep 2005 01:26 GMT Kate, I was just getting into your story. Why did you stop? Come on tell all. Can't see that you've had any problems thus far <vbeg>! Gwen
> after i wrote that question on the subject line, i exhaled as if its > daunting to answer. 3 months of absence, though i popped in here briefly [quoted text clipped - 73 lines] > > kate d'huit - 18 Sep 2005 01:48 GMT see today's serial episode beneath debbie's comment on this thread, gwen. i had to stop, to run in and out from here whenever beckoned to the kitchen by, "hey, mom, come in here a minute."
kate
> Kate, I was just getting into your story. Why did you stop? Come on tell > all. Can't see that you've had any problems thus far <vbeg>! [quoted text clipped - 78 lines] >> >> kate Diane - 18 Sep 2005 16:29 GMT kate, i am just glad to see you're back!
diane
d'huit - 19 Sep 2005 18:19 GMT > kate, i am just glad to see you're back! > > diane <smiling> thank you, diane. i'm glad you are here.
kate
Kelly Cobb - 18 Sep 2005 02:35 GMT *squeeze*
We have to get together again soon. :)
Kelly C.
> after i wrote that question on the subject line, i exhaled as if its > daunting to answer. 3 months of absence, though i popped in here briefly a [quoted text clipped - 71 lines] > > kate d'huit - 19 Sep 2005 18:20 GMT > *squeeze* > > We have to get together again soon. :) > > Kelly C. i could dig that, totally! (((((kelly))))
kate
>> after i wrote that question on the subject line, i exhaled as if its >> daunting to answer. 3 months of absence, though i popped in here [quoted text clipped - 102 lines] >> >> kate Mary Z - 20 Sep 2005 04:07 GMT >3 months of absence, well about damn time you came home! enough said! I haven't been posting much either. It was a blast meeting you, I need to go up to Seattle for a visit.
Visit my website: http://www.mzuschlag.com
d'huit - 20 Sep 2005 05:18 GMT >>3 months of absence, > > well about damn time you came home! enough said! I haven't been > posting much either. It was a blast meeting you, I need to go up to > Seattle for a visit. LOL! yeah, it IS about damn time.LOL you crack me up! LOL
the blast was mutual. so fun. it would be wild and fun having you up here, too. of course, i've gotta get back down there again. we have some wine tasting to do and there's this thing about a river i would totally love to experience. ô¿ô
kate
> Visit my website: > http://www.mzuschlag.com Squirrely - 21 Sep 2005 10:23 GMT Kate,
boy you are just the really busy woman arent you. I don't know how you do it but I am proud of you. Take care and don't overdo. Take a long needed rest.
 Signature Love and hugs to all Good thoughts coming your way too.
Squirrely Jo
> after i wrote that question on the subject line, i exhaled as if its > daunting to answer. 3 months of absence, though i popped in here briefly [quoted text clipped - 73 lines] > > kate
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