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Mother's surgery

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Duckie - 23 May 2005 08:04 GMT
Well, she is fine. But the surgeon got in an discover
things were more complicated than he thought and he
abandoned his original plan and has decided to just do
the pacemaker. However, he did not get her signed off
for that and she was awake but VERY mellow from the
drugs they were giving her so not able to legitimately
give consent. He didn't call and I finally located her
about 5:30pm. Dr. was in the room and I got to talk to
him. When I told him I had medical power of attorney,
he swore softly. Later my mother told me she had given
my name to the first nurse and also told them that I
had medical POA. She told the next person the same
things. You know the drill in the hospital -- they ask
and then the next person comes and asked the exact same
thing. Apparently they ask and they write down but they
never listen or look at what was written. Don't you
think that someone who went over all that stuff should
actually be present in the operating room. grrrrrr
So instead of being able to go ahead and install the
pacemaker then, they are going to have to reschedule
surgery for about two weeks and do this all over again.
I told my mother that she had better be sure that his
staff actually tells him what they ask.
Anyway, she is home and tired but fine.
Reruns within the month...
And if I have typed this all before, forgive me. I have
been fending auntie calls for two days.
Duckie
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Cindy - 23 May 2005 15:19 GMT
Hugs Duckie....For you and your Mom...Makes you worry about using such an
incompetant group of idiots...
When Mike has been in the hospital...About 4 different people ask him what
meds he takes daily....And then we still have to scream and hollar to get
them to give him his daily maintenance meds...Finally I started just
bringing them to the hospital...Makes the nurses stand up and get things
done...
Cindy
> Well, she is fine. But the surgeon got in an discover things were more
> complicated than he thought and he abandoned his original plan and has
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> auntie calls for two days.
> Duckie
RhondaM - 23 May 2005 18:04 GMT
You have your plate full!!!!!!!
(((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))))))))
Sometimes medical professional (I use this term loosely)
do not have patients concerns first.
RhondaM

> Well, she is fine. But the surgeon got in an discover things were more
> complicated than he thought and he abandoned his original plan and has
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> auntie calls for two days.
> Duckie
Carole - 23 May 2005 18:08 GMT
Sorry to hear about all you and your Mom went through, Duckie. HUGS and
PRAYERS are on their way.

Didn't the hospital ask for a copy of your POA?  When my Mom was
admitted, I had copies of her health care proxy and her living will,
both of which named me to make decisions if she were unable to do so.
They asked me for copies and I brought them immediately. When the time
came and Mom could no longer make decisions, I had the power to carry
out her wishes. Those two documents are invaluable when things happen
and I was so glad we had everything in place.

Carole

> Well, she is fine. But the surgeon got in an discover things were more
> complicated than he thought and he abandoned his original plan and has
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> auntie calls for two days.
> Duckie
Gwen Love - 23 May 2005 23:56 GMT
Too bad about your mother's situation Duckie.  It seems that no one at a
hospital looks to see what has been asked and answered previously; they just
ask again if they want to know.  Hope the next time goes perfectly.
Gwen

> Well, she is fine. But the surgeon got in an discover
> things were more complicated than he thought and he
[quoted text clipped - 24 lines]
> been fending auntie calls for two days.
> Duckie
Squirrely - 24 May 2005 01:23 GMT
Duckie,

You and your mom are still in Denise and my prayers and thoughts. I am so
sorry to hear what happened. That was pure and simple stupidity on their
part. I would be so upset about that if it were me. I would hit them hard.

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Love and hugs to all
Good thoughts coming your way too.

Squirrely Jo

> Well, she is fine. But the surgeon got in an discover things were more
> complicated than he thought and he abandoned his original plan and has
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> auntie calls for two days.
> Duckie
kenny - 25 May 2005 02:55 GMT
>Well, she is fine. But the surgeon got in an discover
>things were more complicated than he thought and he
[quoted text clipped - 24 lines]
>been fending auntie calls for two days.
>Duckie

Hang in there Duckie.

~Kenny
 
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