Well, after fits and starts and letting things slide and then getting them
done, Charlie is off being fitted for one of those machines that keep you
breathing when you sleep. I know he has had moderate to severe sleep apnea
as long as I've known him. Age and weight and too much drinking was making
it worse. But I've been married long enough to know you really can't make
another adult do anything. (But to can encourage them BEG)
He of course has his doubts about being able to sleep with the darn thing,
but I've assured him everyone feels that way at first. He is pretty
claustrophobic so I've got my toes crossed.
He has been so tired for so long now, and it would be so great for him to
get at least some of his old energy back.
Jo
PattyDFX1 - 18 Feb 2005 19:56 GMT
Jo Firey wrote: >>doubts about being able to sleep with the darn thing
It is cumbersome at first. But, Jeff had instant good benefits after a
full night's sleep. He felt wonderful and rested for the first time in
years. If Charlie has trouble with the mask, he might ask for a nasal
canula. It's not quite as effective, but, it's easier to sleep with and
way better than no treatment.
Sending prayers and wishes for great sleep for Charlie!
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Gwen Love - 18 Feb 2005 22:12 GMT
Jo, best of luck to Charlie. Tell him to give it at least a week to feel
really comfortable with the mask. It will make a great big difference in
how he feels.
My son said he could even think clearer when he started on his.
Gwen
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Caroline Marold - 18 Feb 2005 22:54 GMT
Got my fingers crossed that it makes a huge difference
to him and he wears it often and well.
When will he get the thing delivered?
Duckie
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Jo Firey - 18 Feb 2005 23:03 GMT
> Got my fingers crossed that it makes a huge difference to him and he wears
> it often and well.
> When will he get the thing delivered?
> Duckie
He brought it home today.
Jo
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Rosemarie Shiver - 18 Feb 2005 23:53 GMT
I've often read that it's the spouse that has the trouble adjusting to
the CPAP because they're noisy so in that way you're fortunate that the
machine won't bother you.
I'm sure Charlie will be like so many others that get great relief from
using the CPAP. Go for it with confidence...it's a great improvement for so
many.
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Jo Firey - 19 Feb 2005 00:24 GMT
> I've often read that it's the spouse that has the trouble adjusting to
> the CPAP because they're noisy so in that way you're fortunate that the
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> many.
Trust me, if I could hear it couldn't be any worse than his snoring as I
remember it. It used to bother be when his mother would visit she would
complain to ME about his snoring keeping her awake several rooms away.
Once in Alaska when we were winter camping I got several volunteers to help
turn him over so any of us could get some sleep.
Jo
Gwen Love - 19 Feb 2005 03:42 GMT
Rosie, I found that Grayson's lulled me to sleep. It's
about like white noise.
Gwen
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Janet R - 19 Feb 2005 00:45 GMT
My husband felt so much better the very next day. I loved it cause I didn't
have to hear him snore anymore!!! My DH can raise the rafters with his
snoring!
Janet R
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Nann Bell - 19 Feb 2005 05:01 GMT
crossing my fingers and sending well wishes for both of you. It will be so
nice if he can sleep soundly again.

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Cindy - 19 Feb 2005 14:37 GMT
Jo,
Charlie sounds alot like Mike...Hence...I do alot of begging...
I hope that he adapts to his cpap with no problems...I know alot of people
who won't sleep without thiers...For me personally...I could never get use
to it...And after WLS... I don't even try....Mike says I don't snore
anymore...I am thinking of going for another sleep test however.and If I
still am having apnea will try again..It has to help with my fibro...
Hugs Cindy
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Squirrely - 25 Feb 2005 06:08 GMT
Have been sending well wishes. I hope he uses the cpap machine. I am sure it
would benefit him greatly.
I have heard great things about the help from these machines. You might have
to watch out if he does use it though because then he might have enough
energy to run circles around you. LOL ;-)

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Squirrely Jo
> Well, after fits and starts and letting things slide and then getting them
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Jo Firey - 25 Feb 2005 20:36 GMT
> Have been sending well wishes. I hope he uses the cpap machine. I am sure
> it would benefit him greatly.
> I have heard great things about the help from these machines. You might
> have to watch out if he does use it though because then he might have
> enough energy to run circles around you. LOL ;-)
That isn't hard to do as I don't tend to move around much!
The first day he went out and bought a car, and then came home and cleaned
the bathrooms. That better not be typical!
He is complaining about the machine triggering his claustrophobia, and I
have to be very careful not to push him. Hope he goes back to where he got
it for adjustment, and encouragement.
Jo
Squirrely - 27 Feb 2005 20:30 GMT
Oh boy Jo, But it does sound like he has more energy. A man that cleans
bathrooms. Would you think of renting him out. ;-)
Could he use a nasal thingy instead of the mask. If he could that might help
with the claustrophobia feeling. But I don't know if the nasal thingy is
just for oxygen people or if they have such a thing for the cpap machine.
I hope he goes back for adjustment and encouragement too.

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>> Have been sending well wishes. I hope he uses the cpap machine. I am sure
>> it would benefit him greatly.
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Joan Carter - 27 Feb 2005 22:38 GMT
>Could he use a nasal thingy instead of the mask. If he could that might help
>with the claustrophobia feeling. But I don't know if the nasal thingy is
>just for oxygen people or if they have such a thing for the cpap machine.
We used to use nasal prongs to administer CPAP to some of our babies in NICU.
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Bruce - 28 Feb 2005 21:16 GMT
I have a friend here whose husband uses a nasal canola for his CPAP. It's
actually cheaper than the other masks. I use just a nasal mask and find it
comfortable. I thought I would find it claustrophobic but such is not the
case.
Bruce

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