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Squirrely - 04 Dec 2004 02:28 GMT I am sorry I might have over stepped boundaries here.
I have sent cards out to many that have been on lists for the last few years. Also any new addresses I get I add them to my list of people who get cards.
I do not under any circumstances expect someone to send me cards back. I just do it because I love to send cards.
I am sorry if I upset anyone for sending them a card and they were not on the christmas list.
If at any time you get a card from me and don't want cards from me please let me know and I will not send anymore to you.
I never thought about this till just now. How rude of me to think everyone I send a card would be cheered and not worry about sending me a card back. that is not why I do it, I send cards to cheer people up or maybe for a minute make them forget their pain because they got a card in the mail.
Sorry if I did over step the boundaries on that. Please if I have let me know.
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Squirrely Jo
RoseB - 04 Dec 2004 03:06 GMT Don;t you dare worry about that. Just do what you do, You never know when a kind word or an unexpected card could make a significant difference to someone,
Never hesitate to show a kindness, even if it at times seems unappreciated.
The thing is in this life we often don't know if we have had an impact on someone.
You all know I was a little sad this morning.
Well, when i was buying my deer tonight the saleslady passed a "Hello" from her grandson, a child I taught a few years ago. This is a child who at grade six has had to be home schooled because he has such anger issues, and mental problems that he can not fit in the mainstream. She said he still remembers me, and that I was one of his favorite people.
Well, what you do is a great thing. How many people take time out of their day to send cards to people they have never even met face to face?
Just be you and don't worry.
(My five cents worth... since it was more than 2) LOL Rose @}>->-- Being educated means that rather than fearing the unknown, one seeks to understand it. RB
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RoseB - 04 Dec 2004 03:11 GMT . This is a child
>who at grade six has had to be home schooled because he has such anger >issues, and mental problems that he can not fit in the mainstream. This sounds like it is only for the sixth grade- actually he has not been able to attend school since second
Rose @}>->-- Being educated means that rather than fearing the unknown, one seeks to understand it. RB
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Kelly Cobb - 04 Dec 2004 03:11 GMT Jo, any time I have received a card from you, it has been at a time when I really needed it. You seem to have a knack for knowing those times.
I understand your reluctance to offend, but I'd like to be on the 'send 'em anytime' list.
Hugs, Kelly C.;o)
> I am sorry I might have over stepped boundaries here. > [quoted text clipped - 18 lines] > Sorry if I did over step the boundaries on that. Please if I have let me > know. Carole - 04 Dec 2004 09:14 GMT > Jo, any time I have received a card from you, it has been at a time when I > really needed it. You seem to have a knack for knowing those times. <Raising hand!> Me too!! Me too! :-)
d'huit - 04 Dec 2004 03:18 GMT sj, i second what rose said. don't second guess yourself like this and make yourself feel bad about the goodness that you bring into other people's lives. don't do that to yourself. what you do is far more meaningful that you can ever know! i can't tell you how much your cards have meant to me over the past few years and to butch, when he was alive. i love your cards and you, for being who you are and doing what you do.
kate
>I am sorry I might have over stepped boundaries here. > [quoted text clipped - 20 lines] > Sorry if I did over step the boundaries on that. Please if I have let me > know. ShenMei9 - 04 Dec 2004 03:19 GMT Jo, Are you just being your usual polite sensitive wonderful self or was there an actual issue about cards? I want to be sensitive too, but I gotta tell you kid, if getting an unsolicited card from someone is a faux pas, then humanity is in deep deep trouble.
I cannot tell you how many times getting a card from you unexpectedly has made my day. What I would like for Christmas is to be as empathetic, graceful, and caring as you are
m
Janet R - 04 Dec 2004 03:48 GMT Ditto what she said....I couldn't say it any better.
Janet R
| Jo, | Are you just being your usual polite sensitive wonderful self or was there an [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] | | m Harvey R. Stone - 04 Dec 2004 11:46 GMT > Jo, > Are you just being your usual polite sensitive wonderful self or was there [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] > > m Well said and a me too. You enjoy the doing and giving and this is the internet and a person just has to throw away what some people say and do. Because what they say and do does not change what you intended to do or the reason you do it. I worry that you might not be able to continue to do it because of the cost and how you would feel about that situation. Please let me tell you ahead of time that you are cared for and that I feel lucky to just get a reply on the internet which is enough for me. There are good things that come into a persons life all the time if we only look to see them and they are enough to make life worth living,,,, no matter what life or the world deals out to a person there is always hope,,, true friendship and the love of people around us. love Harv
Gwen Love - 04 Dec 2004 19:05 GMT Jo, like Harv said, I've been concerned about your sending so many cards when I know Jim doesn't have a job, and I also know you have bunches of medical expenses. When you reach the place that you can't send them (I hope you don't), then just remember how many you have sent in the past and let people send them to you for a change! Gwen
> > Jo, > > Are you just being your usual polite sensitive wonderful self or was there [quoted text clipped - 27 lines] > love > Harv Squirrely - 04 Dec 2004 23:03 GMT Thank you all for your responses. You are all so kind. You said many good things that I don't feel I deserve. I am just doing what the Lord is telling me to do. So I don't feel any of the credit is due me but him instead.
You all will still be on my mailing list for as long as I can afford to do it. Unless I get post or email saying you don't want to be on it.
I really don't like to take credit for doing something that I feel I am being directed to do though. You are all kind in doing so though.
Rose, yes I know how it goes. I already had one person I usually send cards tell me they felt like ending it all the day my card came in and because someone showed them they cared it make them decide some did care and decide to try to fight it some more. It was not someone from this group another group I am on. So I felt that I was directed to do this from then on in. I know how I feel when I get a card or note in the mail. So I just wanted to return the favors. I can't do much else. So this keeps me going.
No M, It was not anything anyone said or did or posted or emailed. Just me. ;-)
By the way when I was reading what you posted, did you feel the smack up side the head. Man you have done way more than I ever could, so I rather me grow up and be like you. You are already empathetic, graceful and caring. You don't need that for Christmas when you already have it. I love you all.
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Squirrely Jo
> Jo, > Are you just being your usual polite sensitive wonderful self or was there an [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > > m johnie - 04 Dec 2004 04:47 GMT I loved getting your card jo. It made my day. It was very sweet of you.
johnie
> I am sorry I might have over stepped boundaries here. > [quoted text clipped - 18 lines] > Sorry if I did over step the boundaries on that. Please if I have let me > know. Kelly - 04 Dec 2004 05:10 GMT It sure cheered me Jo. Received mine yesterday and I know I wasn't on the list.
Thanks so much, Kelly
>I am sorry I might have over stepped boundaries here. > [quoted text clipped - 20 lines] > Sorry if I did over step the boundaries on that. Please if I have let me > know. firechief - 04 Dec 2004 05:18 GMT > I have sent cards out to many that have been on lists for the > last few years. Also any new addresses I get I add them to > my list of people who get cards. I have my original list from 2000 and just add new names and addresses from following years. (Haven't decided if I'll sort through the Spring list and add names from there.)
You and I are in the same boat, and I hope it's not sinking. <g>
Carole - 04 Dec 2004 09:13 GMT Jo,
Keep doing what you are doing. Last year there was no way I could afford to send cards out. I can't begin to tell you how beautiful it was to be told that I wasn't expected to send cards out, just to be a part of the list, and so I did. I loved each and every card, and believe me, they really helped last year as I was majorly depressed at Christmas with no job, being cold, ending up on food stamps, the whole thing. This year I do have a job, and I have bought my cards and will be sending them out soon. I am having fun doing a bit of decorating (they have cool stuff at the Dollar Store :) and this is the first year since my Mom passed away that I can once again feel the joy of the season.
I also do not expect cards back just because I send them. Some people just can't do it, and I've been there, so I know :)
My wish is for everyone to have a happy holiday season and I am enjoying the cards I've received thus far, and will enjoy writing out mine on Sunday and Monday when I'm off from work :)
Hugsies, Carole :-)
Janet R - 04 Dec 2004 16:19 GMT I agree...I wanted to put my name on the list and said the I did not know if I could send some out or not. But I was told it was ok and to put my name down! That meant a lot to me!
Fortunately, I was able to send cards and I had a great time doing it!
Janet R
| Jo, | [quoted text clipped - 18 lines] | Hugsies, | Carole :-) RhondaM - 04 Dec 2004 16:36 GMT Jo I got mine and it made me feel happier on a day when things just were not going my way. I also collect Christmas cards and display everyone of them. It is a tradition. I also have a box labled for past Christmas cards that I look through every year. I save them..:o) I like getting cards from everyone because when we did the postcard thing last summer I displayed all of them and showed everyone .."look I got one from..." RhondaM
>I agree...I wanted to put my name on the list and said the I did not > know if I could send some out or not. But I was told it was ok and to [quoted text clipped - 37 lines] > | Hugsies, > | Carole :-) Nann Bell - 04 Dec 2004 17:00 GMT SJ, I've never heard anyone complain about getting cards from you. Quite the contrary, everyone seems to be quite pleased to get them and it sounds like you have brightened many people's days with them. Still, it is considerate of you to let folks know they can "opt out" of getting the cards, should they so wich. But, don't worry about it - do what you do and if anyone does opt out, cross them off your card list.
 Signature Nann remove the Gator cheer to email me Simply the thing I am shall make me live --- William Shakespeare
Rosemarie Shiver - 05 Dec 2004 02:18 GMT <swat>
Ya can, ya can. Ya can't...don't feel badly. I can't. I sent out the first year I could and I haven't since. The hands are just too screwed up.
What I'm gonna do this year is be an addy harvester and send 'em e-mail. Pokin' 'puter keys with a pencil doesn't set the hands off. Please send me an addy if you want one, everyone.
I got meds. back, Squish. Just yesterday. :-) The card you sent me I haven't opened yet 'cuz I'm waiting for a day when I really need to. They come along every now and then so it won't be too long b4 I read it.
I know you remember I told ya years ago that concentrating on others rather than thinkin' about all the crud that's wrong with our own bods is a healthy thing to do. Your sitting down and thinking lots about who you're sending a card to is good for you! :-)
But if ya can't doesn't mean yer not luved. Ya are....just 'cuz yer Squishy Jo.
So thanks for all you do for all of us.....and remember you do it for you, too.
<unswat> LOL
Luv and Hugs from Rosie
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> I am sorry I might have over stepped boundaries here. > [quoted text clipped - 18 lines] > Sorry if I did over step the boundaries on that. Please if I have let me > know. Squirrely - 05 Dec 2004 19:33 GMT Harv and Rosie,
Thank you.
Hey Rosie that is great that you are finally getting some meds again.
I have been lucky about the cards. Some stamp elfs, have been at times sending me stamps so I can keep sending out cards. I still have quite a few cards left from before Jim got layed off. So that keeps me going for now. ;-)
I hope the meds help you get your hands back. That is horrible. I feel your pain.
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Squirrely Jo
> <swat> > [quoted text clipped - 48 lines] > > Sorry if I did over step the boundaries on that. Please if I have let me > > know. Margaret M. - 08 Dec 2004 22:17 GMT > I never thought about this till just now. How rude of me to > think everyone I send a card would be cheered and not worry > about sending me a card back. that is not why I do it, I send > cards to cheer people up or maybe for a minute make them forget > their pain because they got a card in the mail. Sweety, I've only been able to poke my head in here extremely rarely lately, but your cards in the past 6 months since Duane's motorcycle accident have come at some of the lowest times in my life, AND left me smiling. It has made me feel connected to the group although I've been AWOL, and means more than you could possibly know. I, for one, appreciate your thoughtfulness and hope you realize what a treasure you are to those of us who are blessed to be counted among your friends. Even those of us who have never had the pleasure of meeting you in person. Thanks for being such a wonderful person. Mag
Squirrely - 09 Dec 2004 03:23 GMT Your welcome Margaret,
Thank you so much for the kind words. Those also mean so much to me.
When I got these illnesses, I felt like my life was over. Then I felt like the Lord directed me to the support groups and then the card ministry. I felt that is what he had in mind for me since I had to give up so much of my life for these illnesses. So it does me as good as it does for those that receive them. I feel like my life is worth something to be able to do that.
I hope things are going better for you and hubby. If you can, give us an update.
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Squirrely Jo
> > I never thought about this till just now. How rude of me to > > think everyone I send a card would be cheered and not worry [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] > you in person. Thanks for being such a wonderful person. > Mag ShenMei9 - 09 Dec 2004 04:08 GMT Well Jo, i am for one more grateful than you can imagine that you were given this ministry. It not only is wonderful for each of us but it is a part of the weave that make this group different than most usenet groups. It forms a special awarness about each other that gets channeled through you.
m
Squirrely - 09 Dec 2004 04:34 GMT Thank you so much M.
By the way I saw a post that you wrote about sorry to post this to the group that you meant it to come to me. Guess what I did. I posted it to the group too.
I think I am going crazy, First I thought it said your addy so I responded thinking it was going to you. Can you imagine my surprise when it showed up here. Now I can't find the darn thread that it was in to answer it there. So put my two cents in here instead. Oh boy, am i having a dah moment. Must be the ants took over my brain. ;-)
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Squirrely Jo
> Well Jo, i am for one more grateful than you can imagine that you were given > this ministry. It not only is wonderful for each of us but it is a part of the > weave that make this group different than most usenet groups. It forms a > special awarness about each other that gets channeled through you. > > m ShenMei9 - 09 Dec 2004 04:37 GMT We must be having an aquarian moment, Jo <g>
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Squirrely - 09 Dec 2004 04:44 GMT LOL I love that one M.
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Squirrely Jo
> We must be having an aquarian moment, Jo <g> > > m Joan Carter - 12 Dec 2004 21:18 GMT I have just addressed the last Christmas card in my possession and put on the last stamps I had, both Canadian and American. To me, that is a sign that I need to stop sending cards right now. There are some folks on the asa list who will not be receiving a card from me, please take it as a given that you are wished a blessed Christmas. And for those who do not celebrate Christmas, have wonderful break if you have that, and to all, a much better 2005. --- Joan
Caroline Marold - 09 Dec 2004 15:10 GMT Amen to that. Duckie
> Well Jo, i am for one more grateful than you can imagine that you were given > this ministry. It not only is wonderful for each of us but it is a part of the > weave that make this group different than most usenet groups. It forms a > special awarness about each other that gets channeled through you. > > m
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