> Duckie wrote:
> when I got to OT, the dragon says with nose in the air
> that I had missed the appointment.
I just had to start another thread when I read this post.
Hi everybody, long time, no see. :-)
I personally dealt with my own dragon a week ago. Or should I say
"office Nazi". BTW, thank you all for your prayers...they are being
answered magnificently.
A bit of background for the newbies: On June 3, my husband had a
very bad motorcycle accident. He was only going 30 mph, but he was
not wearing a helmet (yeah, we've had that fight 1000 times) and he
split his head open on a wooden post. He was Life Flighted to Hermann
Hospital where they took him straight to OR and removed a clot from
his brain and stopped several bleeds. Two days later, they did facial
surgery to repair fractures in his right orbital and temporal bone.
He also broke the bones in his right ear that tore the cochlea, so he
lost hearing in that ear. BUT, he sustained no brain damage that we
can tell, and his long term memory and short term memory are both
fine. However, he did get a very, very severe whiplash. I am so
thankful for all the prayers and good thoughts because I believe it is
just a miracle that he escaped a much worse fate.
He was released from the hospital on June 12, and after being on
Percocet and Morphine in the hospital, they sent him home with plain
Vicodin; enough for *3 days only*. After 3 days, I got the refill,
but called the office to see if they could give him more days supply
since I have to pay the copay every time. I called at 10 am and the
girl said she'd have the nurse call me back. At 4:45 pm, I called
back to see if they had called it in. The dragon said, "We only do
refills between 9 and 3, you'll have to call back tomorrow". I said,
I called this morning at 10:00 and didn't get a return call, and my
husband would be running out of medicine at 1:30 am. She said,
"You'll have to call back tomorrow, it's office policy that we only do
refills between 9 and 3". Again I said that I HAD called between those
hours. She said she couldn't do anything about that!
So, I got him through the night with my meds. The next morning
(Friday) at 9:00 sharp, I called, and the girl said, "All the doctors
are out of the office today, it'll be Monday before we can get it". I
told her that wasn't acceptable. She said if he was that bad, I could
take him to the emergency room! Like I'm going to take a man in agony
that just had BRAIN SURGERY to sit for 6 hours in a room full of folks
who have kids with colds and flu all around. I DON'T THINK SO!
So, I called my angel of a PCP, and the secretary said she'd only
be in until noon. It was already 10:00 by this time. I explained the
situation, and she said, "Bring him in NOW and we'll put him straight
in a room". I did, and she checked him over and sent him home with
plenty of medication and told me to call her that weekend if there was
any problem.
Well, I took him back to her today for follow-up so she could
adjust his pain meds, and she was very pleased with his progress. I
can promise you that when we see the neurosurgeon, he WILL get a large
piece of my mind. I had considered having him do my spinal fusion
surgery (which is put off until Duane can care for me) but now,
there's no way in Hell that I would risk having to deal with the
b*tches in that office. Keepers of the Gate. Perfect description,
Duckie. Glad you got past yours.
As for me, I'm getting by okay right now. The steroid shots in my
back still help tremendously and I'll just have to continue them a bit
longer as long as my renal disease holds out, then hopefully I can
have my back surgery and be kicking up my heels again. (well, as much
as a 46 yr old can) LOL
I love you all and still pray for my ASA family every day even
though I haven't had time to pop in lately. Thanks to everyone that
has kept my inbox cheerful and my spirits up.
Mag
maggiemod [at] houston [dot] rr [dot] com
DiWitt - 26 Jun 2004 05:55 GMT
I'm sorry to hear that you've had to go thru so much with yours and your
husbands health. I have to tell you though that he is soooo lucky to have
sustained such little damage with no helmet. A local lawyer and councilman
in our small town hit a tree going around 40 mph last year. He lingered in a
coma for 6 months and finally succumbed to pneumonia. It's been a horrible
time for his family. He was very well know in our community. Their insurance
maxed out after only one month and they brought him home to care for him.
The community volunteered to help out but it was still very hard on
everyone. I just couldn't understand why he wouldn't be wearing a helmet.
Hopefully lessons learned.......I will keep you both in my thoughts and
prayers.

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> > Duckie wrote:
> > when I got to OT, the dragon says with nose in the air
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> Mag
> maggiemod [at] houston [dot] rr [dot] com
Newsgroup Spambuster - 26 Jun 2004 08:46 GMT
Hi Mag, good to see you popping in!!! Really glad to hear your husband
is doing better and am actually surprised that he is home already! May
he continue to heal well and may he have no complications!!! Praying
also that you can get relief and do what you need to do until you are
able to schedule your surgery. We will continue the prayers for both
of you, and keep us posted as to how you both are doing please!
Hugs!
Donna G
Cindy - 26 Jun 2004 13:05 GMT
I am happy to hear that your husband is doing well.
Sending more prayers for him and YOU...
All of this stress must be making your life harder..
Hugs Cindy
Carole - 26 Jun 2004 21:15 GMT
> I just had to start another thread when I read this post.
> Hi everybody, long time, no see. :-)
> I personally dealt with my own dragon a week ago. Or should I say
> "office Nazi". BTW, thank you all for your prayers...they are being
> answered magnificently.
I'm glad to hear that your husband is doing better, Margaret. I can
never understand attitudes of people who work in doctor's offices. If
they don't want to work in a job where people need help, why are they
there? I do hope your husband will wear a helmut now. They are even
requiring them now for those riding bicycles! So a motorcycle rider
definitely needs one!
I will keep you and him in my prayers :)
Carole
Squirrely - 27 Jun 2004 03:43 GMT
Mag,
I am so glad your hubby is doing better. I am sure that is such a relief for
you. Aren't the gate keepers something else. That would sure have ticked me
off.
I am glad your pcp did something to help him out with the pain meds. Boy
what were those other people thinking. I know they weren't.
I am glad the steroid shots are helping your back. I hope they continue to
do so.
You take care of yourself because if you are down who will take care of both
of you. So think of yourself too.
Hugs and Love to you.
Healing and good thoughts coming your way.

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Love and hugs to all
Good thoughts coming your way too.
Squirrely Jo
> > I just had to start another thread when I read this post.
> > Hi everybody, long time, no see. :-)
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> Carole
Caroline Marold - 26 Jun 2004 22:02 GMT
You give that man hell Mag. Call on Monday and tell the keepers that you
are returning his call. That is what my PCP told me to tell her keepers
when it was bad. Tell him that he called to speak with you and you are
returning his call.
Oh to be a fly on the wall with that one. What is wrong with these
people. I keep thinking it is all about low intelligence, low paying
job and power control. They get off on it.
So glad that your hubby is doing so well. Prayers continue for you both.
Duckie
> I just had to start another thread when I read this post.
> Hi everybody, long time, no see. :-)
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> Mag
> maggiemod [at] houston [dot] rr [dot] com

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debbie m. - 27 Jun 2004 04:06 GMT
Maggie,
Good to hear from you. So glad things are going better for your husband.
Drop in when you can.
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> > Duckie wrote:
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Margaret M. - 01 Jul 2004 14:34 GMT
Just wanted to take a moment to thank everyone for their well wishes.
Yes, we've had the helmet debate thousands of times. You can't make a
man do what he won't do. I wear mine faithfully and in 2002 it saved
my face and my life when I did a face plant in a Suburban, after a car
turned across my lane of traffic in the middle of a highway by
Galveston, TX.
Thanks for the prayers and I'll try to pop in occasionally to update
on how we're doing. If this rain in the Houston area ever quits,
maybe my leg will stop throbbing and my back will get a little relief.
At least I'm still mobile and thankful for it everyday.
Prayers for all my ASA family continue daily. Thanks everyone for
being there when I needed you guys.
Maggie
Alex Barna - 01 Jul 2004 19:13 GMT
Hi Maggie,
Every time he wants to go riding with out a helmet show him my sons memorial
page. http://home.mn.rr.com/apbiii/dean/index.html
Then tell him to be sure he has his donor card with him if he won't wear a
helmet.
GramPaHugs,
Alex,
> Just wanted to take a moment to thank everyone for their well wishes.
> Yes, we've had the helmet debate thousands of times. You can't make a
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> Maggie
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Margaret M. - 01 Jul 2004 21:22 GMT
> Hi Maggie,
> Every time he wants to go riding with out a helmet show him my
> sons memorial page. http://home.mn.rr.com/apbiii/dean/index.html
> Then tell him to be sure he has his donor card with him if he
> won't wear a helmet.
Thanks, GramPa,
I'm very sorry for the loss of your son. Your memorial page is a
beautiful tribute to him and hopefully it will change the mind of
anyone reading it about not wearing a helmet.
We had the helmet argument everytime he got on his bike without it. I
try to get everyone we ride with to wear one, but you can't convince
the stubborn ones. It was very fortunate that his riding buddy, a 55
yr old friend who was with him that night and also went down, was
wearing one. He used to not ever wear a helmet, but when he bought
his new motorcycle (a very fast sportbike) he decided that maybe he
should start wearing one. During the accident, which happened at only
about 30 mph, his head slid along the pavement and scarred up the
helmet, but he was uninjured. He's been a great friend through this
whole ordeal and I'm very grateful that he wasn't hurt, too. Anyway,
thanks for the good thoughts and prayers.
Mag
Nann Bell - 02 Jul 2004 13:42 GMT
> Thanks for the prayers and I'll try to pop in occasionally to update
> on how we're doing. If this rain in the Houston area ever quits,
> maybe my leg will stop throbbing and my back will get a little relief.
> At least I'm still mobile and thankful for it everyday.
Prayers continue for both of you, and also for a little sense having been
knocked into his skull!
Heard on the news this week that there's been so much rain in Texas that
parts of I-35 are closed. Can't imagine it. I'd be hurting too.

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