Medical Forum / Diseases and Disorders / Arthritis / January 2008
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Nann Bell - 08 Jan 2008 23:33 GMT Things have been busy and lively for us of late. Between Thanksgiving and Christmas we took two 3 day trips to Chicago to see operas we might never see otherwise. ("Die Frau ohne Schatten" by Richard Straus and "Dr. Atomic" by John Adams, for those who care). Between living in a more isolated area and Mike working on Sundays, and often on Saturday as well, we haven't been getting performing arts in the doses the two of us need for our psychological health. But we can only justify the time and expense of going to Chicago for operas we wouldn't see otherwise. Mind you, we're only in Chicago for about 24 hours, the recent of the time we are in transit.
Anyway, I've also been dealing with issues with our (seriously outdated!) iMac from 2000. Came to the conclusion it made the most sense to buy a more recent model off ebay and further upgrade it. Of course, nothing went as smoothly as it should, so that took up extra time and frustration. But I needed to get that done to get the Christmas letter written and organize photos of recent trips to print and take to Florida with us and for job search stuff as below. Oh, and our elderly TV was barely limping along. No one around here has a decent selection, so we bought one downstate on the second opera trip. But I'm in charge of all electronic connection in the house and that took even more time and frustration. The DishTV remote still doesn't work the TV, but that's low on my priorities for now!
Then, we had various Advent and Christmas acivities. When I cooked 5 times in 2 weeks for church purposes - not for home! - I thought it was getting to be a bit much! Thank goodness for old standby recipes one can pull out. Mike ended up doing 3 Christmas Eve services, our two churches plus one without a regular priest. I went with him to two of the three. Christmas Day, we were up early to drive down to Flint and catch a 10:30 am flight south to meet up with our families for a few days. Of course, we'd bought tickets for a flight 2 hours later, allowing a bit more sleep, but Delta changed us and we weren't allowed to change the tickets back. Don't you just love airlines today?
Visiting over Christmas was interesting as always. Fortunately, we weren't sharing any viruses this year, though I was still recovering from yet aother stomach bug picked up the weekend before. I was definitely into full flare though. Even my knees, which have been cooperative of late are aching again. Six months after stopping Enbrel, its lasting effects seem to finally wear off, nd fairly rapidly when they did so. Were it not for my pain meds, I doubt I'd be doing much at all right now. I don't see my RD until early Feb., but it's time to talk about trying some DMARD again. I'm holding onto my last dose pak as long as possible. (took one pack for the second opera trip - gave me a couple of decent days then.....)
I did se a massage therapist in Gainesville a few times who does "lymph system drainage" for fibro. that sounded like what I really needed to help with some of the lingering aftereffects of the biopsy. I thnk it made some difference, but i can't really tell until we get things a bit more "normal" around here.
Over and around all of this has been Mike's job hunt. We've decided over this past year that we really need "sofcobert" in our lives. That's our acronym for "Symphony Orchestras, Fitness Center, Opera, Ballet, Ethnic Restaurants, Theater". One could argue that these are just amenities, but for Mike and I they are the things that feed our souls. Those and *quiet* time spent outdoors. Around here, outdoors time should be spent hunting, fishing or in a motorized vehicle, versus the tent camping and foot hiking we prefer. Anyway, Mike can't be effective as clergy for too long without the things that feed his soul. We both, but especially me, have suffered health-wise from not having the exercise options of a decent fitness center, too.
There are 4 jobs we are looking at now, 3 of whom plan to hire someone this spring. One is outside Buffalo, but not in the worst of the snowbelt. Another is in a Chicago suburb, where we could buy a variety of season tickets for what the three trips to the opera cost us! The third one, drum roll, please!, is in Frankfurt, Germany. I'm dubious about the last - breaking in new docs while trying to get health issues under control is tough enough without it being in a different country and different system! I finally agreed though to Mike applying and us seeing where God leads us. We've been doing that since Mike applied to seminary in 1999, I really should be getting more accustomed to it! LOL The 4th job is back in our home area of north Florida, but doesn't plan to hire until at least next fall.
Of course, you know who has been his proof-reader and electronics consultant for all of these applications. I gave up and got MS Office for the PC we have for game playing to make sending application materials as attachments easier. Once again, it reminds me why I prefer Macs! I spent all afternoon yesterday dealing with that. missed my nap - and missed one today as well while i was cooking. With the distinct possibility we'll be moving in 3 or 4 months, I'm trying to use up much of the food we have on hand! (anyone for lamb roast, Indian style with couscous and salad?)
Did I mention that I am getting really tired? Been getting decent sleep at night, but naps have been few and far between. Definitely have one on the agenda for tomorrow. Oh, and we styed in Detroit for a cople of nights on our way home from Florida to go to the Institute of Art (newly renovated and reopened) and to see The Lion King on stage. Couldn't hear the latter well, but the costumes and the actors in them were amazing.
Don't know how often I'll post, but I'll be lurking at least. We have a lot more to take care of in the next couple of weeks. Everyone is in my thoughts and prayers.
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ANN M - 09 Jan 2008 01:00 GMT Well, you sure can't tell us that your life is dull!! Much luck and prayers going out to you and Mike for a wonderful new parish with more city-like surroundings and less work for you. Ann
DeeTee and Bob Taggart - 09 Jan 2008 03:17 GMT Come to Columbus, Ohio!! We'd love to have you here.
DeeTee
> Things have been busy and lively for us of late. Between Thanksgiving and > Christmas we took two 3 day trips to Chicago to see operas we might never [quoted text clipped - 126 lines] > thoughts > and prayers. Nann Bell - 09 Jan 2008 15:32 GMT > Come to Columbus, Ohio!! We'd love to have you here. > > DeeTee Unfortunately, Columbus is in a diocese whose bishop is unlikely to accept Mike as a priest. There's a lot of political stuff going on in the Episcopal church these days.
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Adelle - 09 Jan 2008 03:55 GMT Wow! As Doug would say, you've been busier than a one armed paper hanger!
No wisdom. But wanted to say I went to college in Buffalo (at the State University located in the northern most corner of the city). The last two years of school, I lived in Williamsville, a little town north and West of the city. Lovely people there. Summers and Fall are beautiful. Very short Spring. Very windy and white winters; almost as windy as Chicago. I really liked living in Western NY.
Buffalo is a VERY Polish city. I was there during the hey day of the Solidarity Movement and Pope John Paul II's early papacy. It amazed me how the TV news managed to have stories on Lech Walensa and the Pope - every single day! I'd go back home to NYC and wonder whether the Times or local news affiliate was somehow dropping the ball on some vital story from Poland. (LOL)
Adelle
> Things have been busy and lively for us of late. Between Thanksgiving and > Christmas we took two 3 day trips to Chicago to see operas we might never [quoted text clipped - 126 lines] > thoughts > and prayers. Nann Bell - 09 Jan 2008 15:32 GMT > Wow! As Doug would say, you've been busier than a one armed paper hanger! > > No wisdom. But wanted to say I went to college in Buffalo (at the State > University located in the northern most corner of the city). The last two > years of school, I lived in Williamsville, a little town north and West of > the city. hmm, know much about Lockport? We've gleaned some from the internet and from the church there that's looking for a priest. We'll be off for a on-site interview on the 21st. (By train, from Toledo, at strange hours, as flying would have been Detroit-Chicago-Buffalo and Mike can't tolerate the idea of 3 northern airports in january. Between that fear of his and my fear of what the train ride will do to my sleep and therefore pain levels, we had some lively negotiations over that one!)
Oh, we could really get into living in an area that grows white peaches - we both love those!
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Adelle - 09 Jan 2008 16:31 GMT Lockport? Not really.
To preface, I moved out of the area in 1983, so its been awhile. In fact, when I first read it, I confused Lockport with another town geographically. But after looking at a map, I realize that I'd never gone that far NE, always went West (except for the one Greyhound bus trip to Rochester which stopped at almost every tiny town between the two cities - including Albion where the prison is - a six hour bus ride which is normally a one hour car ride).
All in all, I'd rather live East of Buffalo than South toward the snowbelt in Canandaigua County. With Lockport, you are getting closer to Lake Ontario. I wonder whether that means lake effect snow from two lakes, Erie (to the west and Ontario (north). Usually, the worst lake affect is directly east of the lake or down wind of the lake.
We used to joke about how it snowed every day, but the only accumulation used to be on the cars. We used to start our cars before breakfast, then come in to eat so it would be thawed enough to drive (so a remote starter for the car would be a good thing). Never got used to having to brush off the car every time one went out almost all winter long. With the wind, it just blows around. So sometimes it isn't even snowing, it's just the stuff being blown around all the time.
While there was never a snow I couldn't drive in with my little Mazda GLC, I wasn't in town for the record snows, or really anything over 2 feet. But there were times when they recommended that only 4 wheel drive vehicles be in the road during height of a storm or immediately after. Lockport, being smaller and more rural, may wind up a little more snow bound than closer to the city. But they do plow more often and use a lot of salt. They really know how to handle snow removal. Being snow bound doesn't go on for long. And because it snows a lot, people know HOW to drive in it. You see far less stupid driving than say, here in Massachusetts.
On the very bright aside, Lockport is a reasonable distance from Buffalo which has great arts programs, both from the city and from the MANY colleges and Universities in the area (about 60, back then). The Albright-Knox is a fantastic art gallery. Good, good restaurants, too. Every show comes through the area. And Canada is close; Toronto is about hour and a half, two hours away with the most amazing museums, restaurants, etc. You would also be in farm, orchard and vineyard country. Yum.
Adelle
> On Tue, 8 Jan 2008 22:55:44 -0500, Adelle wrote > [quoted text clipped - 13 lines] > we > both love those! Nann Bell - 11 Jan 2008 14:56 GMT Ah, you reinforce what we've heard about where the geographical snowbelt is (NOT Lockport - they get plenty but not the epic snows, hallelujah) And Buffalo sounds even better in terms of the arts than we thought, which is great. A plus for us is the rectory has a garage - not attached, but at least it'll keep the snow off the cars. And there is a YMCA with great facilities a short walk away for exercise.
My railroad fan husband has already worked out the train rides to Toronto and to London for the Shakespeare festival. If we move there, we'd better keep our passports current!
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> Lockport? Not really. > [quoted text clipped - 39 lines] > > Adelle Nann Bell - 09 Jan 2008 15:34 GMT Oh, and curses on whoever introduced the game Bookworm to this group. Too many short breaks have turned long for me recently with that game! I need to ration myself for a while to get some stuff done around the house. LOL
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Kelly - 10 Jan 2008 04:46 GMT I understand the thing about culture but have to say after so many short moves, renos etc this year I don't envy the two of you another move. Of course if you need it we have packing boxes and paper (kept because the kids will need it again this month). Can you hear my scream.
Kelly
> Things have been busy and lively for us of late. Between Thanksgiving and > Christmas we took two 3 day trips to Chicago to see operas we might never [quoted text clipped - 126 lines] > thoughts > and prayers. Nann Bell - 11 Jan 2008 14:56 GMT > I understand the thing about culture but have to say after so many short > moves, renos etc this year I don't envy the two of you another move. Of > course if you need it we have packing boxes and paper (kept because the kids > will need it again this month). Can you hear my scream. > > Kelly Can't say I'm looking forward to doing it again either. On the up side, ths time we should be able to afford movers rather than doing it with a U-Haul. Neither of us is in the shape to do it ourselves right now anyway. We still have the better boxes from the last 3 moves, but may have to buy some to keep sizes more standard. I hope you have planty of space for storing yours!
Part of the reason for doing this all now, even though it is the 4th move in under 8 years, is that Mike will be 63 in a couple of months. Even in clergy circles, it's hard to get another job past 65. Now's the time to get somewhere we'll stay at least until Mike is 70 1/2, which is when the best retirement benefits for him will kick in, both in pension and health coverage terms.
 Signature Nann remove the Gator cheer to email me Simply the thing I am shall make me live --- William Shakespeare
Squirrely - 10 Jan 2008 07:52 GMT Oh Whoa, I got tired just reading all that you have been doing. But it sounds like fun well at least some of it did.
I hope all works out with the job situation and moving and such. You take care and rest as much as you can.
 Signature Love and Hugs to all Jo the squirrely one I am nuts about you. "Nann Bell"
> Things have been busy and lively for us of late. Between Thanksgiving and > Christmas we took two 3 day trips to Chicago to see operas we might never [quoted text clipped - 126 lines] > thoughts > and prayers.
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