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Alix - 30 May 2007 15:14 GMT
I know I have been AWOL for a long time.  My life filled the plate and then
flowed over in spades.  My computer committed suicide plus my father started
failing--several trips to Alabama--and the flares to go with it.

My father--as Squirrely told you--passed away very quietly May 22.  Somehow
it seems that the sun is not as bright and the earth is spinning slower in
space.  He was almost 87--had served in the Army-WWII, Korea, Vietnam, the
Cuban Missile Crisis (was on one of the blockading ships) and well--he was
my hero--He died of complications resulting from cancer caused by Agent
Orange.  He will be buried at Arlington with full military honors in August.

Physically I am not so good--flarey as I went to Alabama this time with just
so much meds and overstayed--so I am doubled up on Pred.  and trying to get
back on schedule and get this flare under control--plus do all that is
needed at such times--

I can use all the crying towels I can get as the tears seem to erupt at
random moments and triggered by seemingly innocuous things like passing the
cereal in the he store and remembering what he always ate for breakfast.

Thank you for all you love and support.

Pax,

Alix

               This is the day that the Lord has made.
                        Let us rejoice and be glad!!
Cindy - 30 May 2007 18:48 GMT
Alix...So many hugs and prayers for you. Praying that you get the flare
under control and that your spirit is lifted...So hard to do when you lose
someone you love.
He is still with you watching over.....
Prayers and hugs
Cindy
>I know I have been AWOL for a long time.  My life filled the plate and then
>flowed over in spades.  My computer committed suicide plus my father
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>                This is the day that the Lord has made.
>                         Let us rejoice and be glad!!
Kelly - 30 May 2007 19:37 GMT
Alix,
Take one day at a time and if that is too much go by the hour.  There is no
time limit on grief, no person is too old or too young to be missed.  Sounds
like a special person.

As to the flare - can they give you a prednisone pulse or shot to get you
over the worst.  Give your body a little extra tlc - lots of rest, splints,
hot showers, whatever it takes.   As for the gentle hugs, the best thoughts
and the healing thoughts - well that is a given.  I will be sending them
your way.

Hope this flare ends quickly but don't be afraid to ask for help with it.

Gentle hugs,
Kelly in BC
>I know I have been AWOL for a long time.  My life filled the plate and then
>flowed over in spades.  My computer committed suicide plus my father
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>                This is the day that the Lord has made.
>                         Let us rejoice and be glad!!
Kelly C. - 30 May 2007 21:13 GMT
(((Alix)))

>I know I have been AWOL for a long time.  My life filled the plate and then
>flowed over in spades.  My computer committed suicide plus my father
[quoted text clipped - 26 lines]
>                This is the day that the Lord has made.
>                         Let us rejoice and be glad!!
debbie m - 30 May 2007 23:46 GMT
(((((((((((((((((((Alix))))))))))))))))))))))

I'm sorry about your dad.  My dad passed away April 12, 2006.  I still
miss him.  I went into a store the other day that we had visited right
before he got sick.  I thought I couldn't make it through my
shopping.  So, I understand about seeing something and then triggering
memories of you dad.  My dad would have been 89 in October.  He too
fought in WWII  That generation was such a proud generation.  I hope
as time passes the pain will ease.

debbie m.
nanny - 31 May 2007 01:12 GMT
Alix, I'm so sorry about the loss of your Dad.  As I read about all the wars
he fought in his lifetime, he is not only your hero, but should be OUR hero
as well - all of us who breathe freedom!

Of course, you will be grieving for some time, and you have his rich
heritage within you.   Nanny
>I know I have been AWOL for a long time.  My life filled the plate and then
>flowed over in spades.  My computer committed suicide plus my father
[quoted text clipped - 26 lines]
>                This is the day that the Lord has made.
>                         Let us rejoice and be glad!!
Nann Bell - 31 May 2007 13:09 GMT
((((((((((((((Alix)))))))))))))  I wish I could tell you that the tears will
end tomorrow, but they simply won't.  It will get much easier after a while
though.  For now, grieving is the right thing to do.

May the double pred help out your body so your spirit can move on with
grieving.

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Lyn - 01 Jun 2007 14:45 GMT
((((((Alix))))))

One day at a time.

Lyn
Donna G. - 02 Jun 2007 02:26 GMT
{{{{{{{{{{{{ Alix }}}}}}}}}}}}

so very sorry for your loss.  Praying that you find strength, peace, and
an easing of the pain, both physically and mentally!

Hugs,

Donna
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