Medical Forum / Diseases and Disorders / Arthritis / May 2007
Share your Day!
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Ladybug75 - 15 May 2007 11:27 GMT Donna,
I like the share your Day thread, ok, in France Mother's Day is June the third, she's be living there for over 7 years, but of course, Me, number 1 pain in the a.., had to call her telling I wish she had remember, the Holyday here. Second I was trying to make my husband breakfast upon his request, bacon was hot and sizzling, looking for the eggs he bought the Days before and no way to be found, I was immediately to blame, he looks everywhere including the bathroom, telling me I was crazy enough to do that, I got p....off took the bacon and proceed to put it in the trash, few hours later he found them in his truck, under the seat, the Day was not going well. But I worked on my new resolution, do not answer, if confronted, stay calm, leave the room, sound like a tornado drill...but so far, so good, and I learned he was leaving July 15, for 15 months, and I again, I resent the fact that he doesn't want to be here, I was really thinking that if all is well for the firth surgery I will get the other hip replaced also, so next year,finally I will be able to be better, but its life. So here was my Day, spend in the bedroom all Day avoiding any confrontations. I'm glad most of you had a wonderful Mother's Day.
Kiki.
Harvey R. Stone - 15 May 2007 13:22 GMT > Donna, > [quoted text clipped - 20 lines] > > Kiki. Hi Kiki, Please tell your husband what a great guy he is. After finding your work in the trash,,, you might of found yourself there. Combative escalation is not the way to find peace. :-) Harv
Ladybug75 - 15 May 2007 14:56 GMT Harv,
I don't know any other way, but will give him the message... :-) he will be so proud of himself to be right for once....
Take care,
Gigi.
>> Donna, >> [quoted text clipped - 27 lines] > is not the way to find peace. :-) > Harv Joan Carter - 15 May 2007 16:48 GMT >So here was my Day, spend in the bedroom all Day avoiding any >confrontations. >I'm glad most of you had a wonderful Mother's Day. Kiki, sounds dreadful, but at least no confrontations. Did he apologize for the egg mix-up? Sorry, silly question. :-)
Harvey R. Stone - 15 May 2007 17:26 GMT >>So here was my Day, spend in the bedroom all Day avoiding any >>confrontations. >>I'm glad most of you had a wonderful Mother's Day. > > Kiki, sounds dreadful, but at least no confrontations. Did he > apologize for the egg mix-up? Sorry, silly question. :-) Nooo, it is a good question. Did she apologize for throwing way his bacon on purpose?
Harv
sweetpickleNO@SPAMknology.net - 15 May 2007 18:27 GMT Harv, the way he treats her, my thinking is that she had no reason to apologize! Gwen
>>>So here was my Day, spend in the bedroom all Day avoiding any >>>confrontations. [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > > Harv Harvey R. Stone - 15 May 2007 18:36 GMT > Harv, the way he treats her, my thinking is that she had no reason to > apologize! > Gwen That may be true and I missed that part but still,,, it does not make peace likely. Spite, revenge, and one upmanship just make things worse and it does not matter if it is a man or woman doing the deed. Harv
Nann Bell - 15 May 2007 23:20 GMT >>> So here was my Day, spend in the bedroom all Day avoiding any >>> confrontations. [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > > Harv Harv, have you been reading Kiki's tales of her husband's behavior? She WAS justified! And BTW, if Mike ever seriously told me I was crazy enough to put the eggs in the bathroom, he'd get an earful back from me!
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Ladybug75 - 15 May 2007 23:21 GMT Harv,
Tell me you are kidding....:-)
>>>So here was my Day, spend in the bedroom all Day avoiding any >>>confrontations. [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > > Harv Harvey R. Stone - 16 May 2007 05:26 GMT > Harv, > > Tell me you are kidding....:-) I wish I was. You know it is only going to get worse with things like this taking place. I hope it is not too often. I also hope you will consider some of the other things I had to say. I am not a person that lets things slide or go on and on. If you are,,, I am not the right person to talk too. None of us here want anything but the best for you and yours. That does not mean you should put up with abuse. I think you can deal out just as good as you receive but then we have to ask ourselves is this the way I want to live. Harv
Ladybug75 - 16 May 2007 12:14 GMT No Harv, that's not the way I want to live, and I wish things were better, I do apologize a lot, too much, action should speak louder than words, I'm under a lot of stress, and sometimes you can't just take it anymore, but you are right maybe you are not the right person to understand that type of situation, I appreciate the good advice you're gave me in the past, regarding the disease, but when it comes to personal life, you have failed to understand, and you know what, I do take the blame, I open up too much with my problems at home with the group, but what is a support group if you have to be selective and be afraid to express my feeling. I will be more careful in the future and stick to OA. Have a great Day.
Kiki
>> Harv, >> [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > ourselves is this the way I want to live. > Harv Harvey R. Stone - 16 May 2007 13:00 GMT > No Harv, that's not the way I want to live, and I wish things were better, > I do apologize a lot, too much, action should speak louder than words, I'm [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > > Kiki That is a very defensive reply when you are the one that is being pushed around and no one here is saying you did anything wrong except throwing your husbands bacon in the trash. :-) If you have given up on making your husband understand his own behavior,,, stick to OA. I have not given up on you and I do not think anyone else has either. Harv
Ladybug75 - 15 May 2007 23:20 GMT Of course not...lol
>>So here was my Day, spend in the bedroom all Day avoiding any >>confrontations. >>I'm glad most of you had a wonderful Mother's Day. > > Kiki, sounds dreadful, but at least no confrontations. Did he > apologize for the egg mix-up? Sorry, silly question. :-)
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