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Medical Forum / Diseases and Disorders / Arthritis / May 2007Prayers needed
My BIL Harold has his surgery tomorrow for his ectopic goiter. For about three months he was under the impression that this was cancer- then was told it was not. It has been a roller-coaster. Of course they are relieved, but each surgery has its own worry. Iris is doing well. She is having some carpal tunnel issues, but otherwise is now doing great. her surgeon told her that most people would have given in and gone for the amputation. Fortunately she did not need to make that decision. I am doing relatively well. I just completed another course and this is my week off. I have had a mini version of the evil foot thing, with both feet affected, but not to the degree I have had in the past. I put myself on a pred burst, and it is helping. I have made a decision to sell my house. I have only been here since 2005 (July) and love the house, but I have a neighbour fom not a kind and friendly place. He is mean and I do not trust him. He has threated my cat (who has not been out of the house since Sept) and suggested several things he would do should Quigley happen to put a paw in his yard.Both he and his wife are verbally abusive to me. I simply can no longer tolerate the stress. I thought about getting a restraining order, but really, I can't see that that is the longterm solution. A realtor is coming Friday after school. The interesting thing is I did not call him, but he approached me because he heard I was having problems. I was planning to call but kept putting it off. The market is not terrific right now and houses are quite overpriced not to mention that there is not a nice one-level rancher that i can see. But, since he approached me, I am taking that as a sign that I do need to move. (LOL). so pray for me too, that this is a good decision, I get a good price, and can move quickly. I know that is very selfish. I am not homeless and when so many are truly needy, I feel quilty for asking for such things for me. (But it would make life easier). I do have one house in mind, but need to get a good price on mine before I can even consider it. Rose @}>->-- Being educated means that rather than fearing the unknown, one seeks to understand it. RB Please remove "Ima" to reply. Rose, Of course, will keep them in my thoughts. Forgive me being a paranoid attorney, but how did this realtor hear you were having trouble? If from a friend, he's an opportunist, but probably OK. But if he called out of the blue, I would suspect collusion between this person and the nasty neighbor. In that case, I'd still consider moving, but use a different realtor. Adelle > My BIL Harold has his surgery tomorrow for his ectopic goiter. For > about three months he was under the impression that this was cancer- [quoted text clipped - 41 lines] > > Please remove "Ima" to reply. >Rose, > [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > >Adelle Hi Adelle, Thanks for your concern. This is a small town, so gossip spreads easily. His wife is my friend and former colleague. She retired in June, so I have not spoken to her too much except for the odd email. He was my realtor when I sold my last house and purchased this one. Rose @}>->-- Being educated means that rather than fearing the unknown, one seeks to understand it. RB Please remove "Ima" to reply. Rose, I will pray for your BIL and also for Iris to continue to do well. I remember when you bought your home and that you were so very happy to move in. It's terrible to have to put up with bad neighbors and this guy seems over the top if he is threatening your cat. I wouldn't trust him either and wouldn't feel comfortable living next to him. Lots of good wishes for you to sell quickly and find a new home where you will be safe. Ann > Rose, > [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > > Adelle Hhhm, why did that make me laugh,,, I do not know but it did. When another home is bought,,, would a person back out of the neighborhood keeping a good eye on the neighbor? LOLOL Good luck with it all. Harv >> My BIL Harold has his surgery tomorrow for his ectopic goiter. For >> about three months he was under the impression that this was cancer- [quoted text clipped - 41 lines] >> >> Please remove "Ima" to reply. prayers continuing for your family, rose. i'm so sorry your neighbor is forcing you to move. what a terrible situation. i hope it turns out to be the right thing for you. diane >prayers continuing for your family, rose. >i'm so sorry your neighbor is forcing you to move. what a terrible >situation. i hope it turns out to be the right thing for you. > >diane Thank-you, Diane and Ann. I feel that this fellow is a loose cannon, and because I am alone, do not trust him. I am hopeful that things will work out for the best. Rose @}>->-- Being educated means that rather than fearing the unknown, one seeks to understand it. RB Please remove "Ima" to reply. >>prayers continuing for your family, rose. >>i'm so sorry your neighbor is forcing you to move. what a terrible [quoted text clipped - 6 lines] > will work out for the best. > Rose @}>->-- Oh, I see,,,, where I am from,,, he would soon find out that he is not the only person to have a cannon. Sorry that to move away from where you live is the answer but good luck with it and may you find a wonderful place to live with where people live that know how important it is to be a good neighbor. Harv Rose, You are on my thoughts and prayers, as for moving if you can, do it, some people are mean, and you have enough on your mind then thinking about a lunatic. Take care, hugs and well wishes from a friend. Kiki. > My BIL Harold has his surgery tomorrow for his ectopic goiter. For > about three months he was under the impression that this was cancer- [quoted text clipped - 41 lines] > > Please remove "Ima" to reply. (((((rose)))) (((((bil))))) and (((((iris))))) I'm sorry to hear that you are having to move. love and prayers, vickie B. prayers coming that way. sorry you have to move because of a bad neighbor.  SignatureLove and Hugs to all Jo the squirrely one > My BIL Harold has his surgery tomorrow for his ectopic goiter. For > about three months he was under the impression that this was cancer- [quoted text clipped - 41 lines] > > Please remove "Ima" to reply. Sending Good Thoughts, {{{{Harold,Iris,Rose,mean neighbor}}}} GrampaHugs, Alex, > so pray for me too, that this is a good decision, I get a good price, > and can move quickly. I know that is very selfish. I am not homeless [quoted text clipped - 6 lines] > > Please remove "Ima" to reply. -- **************************************************** * Love radiating from 45.10n x 93.30w M/SP Mn * http://home.comcast.net/~apbarna/ * http://goldenmist.org/ahr_faq/index.html * http://goldenmist.org/grampahugs/ * http://goldenmist.org/ **************************************************** Rose, so glad that the goiter is not malignant. That has to be a great relief. Am thankful that Iris did not go for the amputation and finally got everything going well. Wow, you're going to be the most educated peerson around. Glad you have a week off, but so sorry the evil foot thing is back. I don't blame you for selling your house. Having stress over a neighbor is a bad thing, and it will be much better for you all around. I'll be praying you get a good price for your house so you can get the house you need at a good price for you. Gwen > My BIL Harold has his surgery tomorrow for his ectopic goiter. For > about three months he was under the impression that this was cancer- [quoted text clipped - 41 lines] > > Please remove "Ima" to reply. Rose, my Mom always said that everything happens for a reason. I'm sorry you have to move, it's awful when you buy a house and then find out the neighbors are not the kind of people you want to be living next door to. I will keep you in my prayers for a quick and good sale, and for finding a lovely house in a place with nice people. Come down to Bellingham, we're very nice here :)) BIG HUGS, Carole > My BIL Harold has his surgery tomorrow for his ectopic goiter. For > about three months he was under the impression that this was cancer- [quoted text clipped - 40 lines] > > Please remove "Ima" to reply. Sending all of you healing wishes and good vibes. And to you, #1, the goodest of vibes of all! Hugs from #2 Signature"If you wanna get it done, you gotta fight for yourself." -- Meat Loaf, Bat Outta Hell II > My BIL Harold has his surgery tomorrow for his ectopic goiter. For > about three months he was under the impression that this was cancer- [quoted text clipped - 40 lines] > > Please remove "Ima" to reply. See, this group is so nice. You always make me feel so good. Group hug everyone!! Harold had his surg at 7 am, and seems to be recovering well. All went smoothly. They expect two days in ICU, and then step-down (If I understand correctly). Rose @}>->-- Being educated means that rather than fearing the unknown, one seeks to understand it. RB Please remove "Ima" to reply. > See, this group is so nice. > You always make me feel so good. [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > > Please remove "Ima" to reply. wonderful!!!!!! (I've been busy, but am lurking - eventually!) 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