Recently one of my sisters was very hurt by something the other said
and ended up saying something very innapropriate to her. In my heart I
believe that it was not so much what was said, that was the problem as
the fact that she was angry that her son was not here and Christmas is
coming. I think she was angry because she has had cancer, and has
never really recovered. The other one is having health issues as well,
and as a result has needed a great deal of physical and emotional
support. I believe that sister A was not really upset at sister B, but
was displacing her anger.

I wonder if this is what is up with Harv.

so I am asking from my heart, Harv- and this is for you tho think
about, not necessarily share- but are things ok for you now? Is your
RA stable, is the family OK, is there something going on that is
eating at you?

I can see no other reason for the deep anger and resentment you have
shown. Something has to be going on with you and you need to address
it.
Please find someone you can talk to- someone not involved with your
life so that he or she can see the total picture. Perhaps you would
feel comfortable talking to your minister, doctor, counsellor, or
other health care provider.

Unresolved anger can result in bigger health issues.

I believe that you need to deal with this. Christmas is a stressful
time for many, and that is why the suicide rate is the highest at
Christmas time. You need to deal with whatever it is that is causing
you such grief.

Someone who means well,
    Rose   @}>->--
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