it's so hard to know what is growing pains, what is just kids complaining and
what is a real concern!  My folks thought I was a hypochondriac when I kept
complaining of headaches in grade school.  When the headaches finally led me
to give up something I loved, they took me seriously and we went to the
doctor.  Sure enough, bigtime allergy to milk and pollen/mold allergies were
starting up.  I quickly learned what a joy medications can be!  LOL

I wish they'd taken me seriously earlier, but I understand why they didn't
and I appreciate that they DID take me in when it all became obvious and that
they subsequently did a great deal to accomodate my allergy.  I'm sure your
son also appreciates having the opportunity to reverse this now.

Dear All,

I finally took my 18 yo son with me to the podiatrist.  He has
complained for years about generalized pain in his feet, but I really
didn't think that there was a problem.  I always thought that he had a
toddler walk!  Weeell, he does!  He walks without putting his heels
completely down!  So this causes extra stress on his feet, ankles, and
legs.  He is starting the processes to correct this.  But I feel so
guilty!  I knew to watch for this condition and still missed it!

Thanks for listening,

Vickie B>

(((((((((((vickie))))))))))))  we caught alex "toe-walking" when he was
about 6 and got that taken care of right away.  sounds like we were on top
of everything, doesn't it?  ha!  he was 3 or 4 years old before either of us
realized he was lip-reading perfectly and couldn't hear us (even his
pediatrician didn't catch that sooner!).  what i'm trying to say, vickie, is
give yourself credit for all that you do notice and take care of for his
sake.  nobody's perfect, sweetie.  being a good parent is a difficult job,
especially with all of the other distractions and challenges we face.  now,
give yourself a loving hug, hon.

kate

My grandson toe walks...And we have had him to the podiatrist and he isn't
doing anything for him...So chances are...even if you had taken
him...nothing would have come of it anyways...So ...Mom...we do the best we
can...and still we are human...and we spread our love and God takes care of
the rest...
Hugs Cindy