Well, we never are ready. Even after 20 years. My mother passed away last
week (Feb.12) after suffering from Alzheimer's for at least 20 years. Now,
I know that is not the norm to live quite that long with it, but we began
seeing "signs" of it at least as far back as 1987. I was so fortunate in
that she was one of the "happy ones". She lived to be 95, was the last of
12 siblings to leave this earth (#10 in birth order). She lived a very full
and happy life and was a blessing to so many. She taught high school Latin
I & II, as well as English Literature and French. My dad cared for her at
home for 10 years, with the help of my and my son. Then the last 10 were
spent in a nursing facility, which became like an extended family. God
bless them all!
Evelyn Ruut - 21 Feb 2008 17:18 GMT
> Well, we never are ready. Even after 20 years. My mother passed away
> last week (Feb.12) after suffering from Alzheimer's for at least 20 years.
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> Then the last 10 were spent in a nursing facility, which became like an
> extended family. God bless them all!
Dear Sue,
Please accept my heartfelt condolences. You are right, we are never really
ready. I think you are doing the right thing by remembering the best
memories and the achievements of her life.

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Best Regards,
Evelyn
perkens - 21 Feb 2008 17:25 GMT
Dear Sue, My condolences. Thank God you can look back on so many positive
things
in your Mom's life. And that she was one of the 'happy ones' is a blessing
with such a horrific
debilitating disease as Alzheimers.
Pam
> Well, we never are ready. Even after 20 years. My mother passed away
> last week (Feb.12) after suffering from Alzheimer's for at least 20 years.
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> Then the last 10 were spent in a nursing facility, which became like an
> extended family. God bless them all!
sweetpickleNO@SPAMknology.net - 21 Feb 2008 18:21 GMT
My sympathy on the loss of your mother. However, it must be a relief to
know she no longer has Alzheimers.
Gwen
> Well, we never are ready. Even after 20 years. My mother passed away
> last week (Feb.12) after suffering from Alzheimer's for at least 20 years.
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> Then the last 10 were spent in a nursing facility, which became like an
> extended family. God bless them all!
suefird1 - 21 Feb 2008 21:33 GMT
Yes, you're exactly right. Thanks.
Sue
> My sympathy on the loss of your mother. However, it must be a relief to
> know she no longer has Alzheimers.
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>> and my son. Then the last 10 were spent in a nursing facility, which
>> became like an extended family. God bless them all!
deerwoodflower@hotmail.com - 22 Feb 2008 02:26 GMT
> Well, we never are ready. Even after 20 years. My mother passed away last
> week (Feb.12) after suffering from Alzheimer's for at least 20 years. Now,
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> spent in a nursing facility, which became like an extended family. God
> bless them all!
Sue,
So sorry, My mom passed about 1 month ago.She too was one of the
happier ones.I will never forget the cute things she did even with
this dieease.One time she pulled me to her to kiss my cheek.Ans she
always said thank you for anything you did for her.It's hard to lose
them but they no longer have this disease.Barb
Chuck Whealton - 27 Feb 2008 02:44 GMT
> Well, we never are ready. Even after 20 years. My mother passed away last
> week (Feb.12) after suffering from Alzheimer's for at least 20 years. Now,
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> spent in a nursing facility, which became like an extended family. God
> bless them all!
Sue:
I'm certainly sorry to hear about your Mother. I'm glad that at least
she was one of the happy ones.
20 years. Wow. That is a long time.
An old colleague of mine had a Mother who was in a home for a very
long time. Unfortunately, her Mother was not one of the happier
ones. When she told me about some of the things that she (her Mother)
used to do when she was younger, I often times wondered if she didn't
suffer from dementia for much longer than their family realized.
Again, I'm very sorry to hear about your Mother, and I wish you and
your family the best.
Charles R. Whealton
Charles Whealton @ pleasedontspam.com
I guess that no matter how happy, it's never easy.