well mom has been having shortness of breath now and irregular heart
beats. The hospice nurse is going to sit by her side at night which I am
grateful for that. I am going down to see mom everyday. she is at
summerville villa colima----a beautiful place and everyone seems to be
on top of things -----I am very pleased with her assist living situation
and feel comfortable that she is being well taken care of. I think mom's
time is coming close now , and even tho" I kept saying I wish God would
take her I still am not ready to lose her. This has been a very very
long good bye for me.
keep both of us in your prayers as I do not want mom to suffer I hope
she will go peacefully when the time comes. thanks JJ
Evelyn Ruut - 04 Sep 2007 14:27 GMT
> well mom has been having shortness of breath now and irregular heart
> beats. The hospice nurse is going to sit by her side at night which I am
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> keep both of us in your prayers as I do not want mom to suffer I hope
> she will go peacefully when the time comes. thanks JJ
JJ, I genuinely do hope her passing is gentle and that you are able to
handle it well.

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Dennis P. Harris - 04 Sep 2007 20:41 GMT
> I think mom's
> time is coming close now , and even tho" I kept saying I wish God would
> take her I still am not ready to lose her. This has been a very very
> long good bye for me.
> keep both of us in your prayers as I do not want mom to suffer I hope
> she will go peacefully when the time comes.
Remember the good times, and remember that release from suffering
is a blessing.
Hospice offers grief counseling. All you need to do is ask the
hospice nurse and one will visit and assist you through this
passage.
sweetpickleNO@SPAMknology.net - 05 Sep 2007 02:36 GMT
"J J", I'll pray for the same.
Gwen
> well mom has been having shortness of breath now and irregular heart
> beats. The hospice nurse is going to sit by her side at night which I am
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> keep both of us in your prayers as I do not want mom to suffer I hope
> she will go peacefully when the time comes. thanks JJ
Chuck Whealton - 09 Sep 2007 02:23 GMT
> well mom has been having shortness of breath now and irregular heart
> beats. The hospice nurse is going to sit by her side at night which I am
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> keep both of us in your prayers as I do not want mom to suffer I hope
> she will go peacefully when the time comes. thanks JJ
JJ:
I know this feeling. My own Mother went through some of the same
symptoms. Then, she pulled out of it, only to die unexpectedly
(probably only unexpectedly by me) at a nursing home where she was
supposed to be temporarily.
It's not easy. I felt the same way you do, that maybe it would
somehow be better once it's over. It wasn't. For a while, it felt a
lot worse. It's been just over six years and I still think about her
all the time.
You've done everything you can and it sounds like you got your Mother
into a good place. It's out of your hands now.
I hope it is peaceful for her.
Charles R. Whealton
Charles Whealton @ pleasedontspam.com