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Medical Forum / Diseases and Disorders / Alzheimer's / February 2007

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Grant - 09 Feb 2007 11:08 GMT
My wife was Dx with AD about 8 years ago but things have gone
reasonably well until three days ago. For a year she has communicated
in monosylables but no delusions or wandering
she has dressed herself gone to the bathroom fixed herself simple
meals and has been easy
to take care of. She gave up driving years ago herself without any
urging.About three days
ago she started trying to communicate to me that everything has
washed out of her and that she had died . This was accompaned by
crying jags and extreme agitation. It was also accompaned by short
periods of moving her arms and legs in an erratic fashion. She takes
Aricept, Namenda and Zyprexa. I live in a small town and won't be able
to see Neuro for 4
Days. It is heartbreaking to see her suffer so much . Any advice?
Evelyn Ruut - 09 Feb 2007 13:02 GMT
> My wife was Dx with AD about 8 years ago but things have gone
> reasonably well until three days ago. For a year she has communicated
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
> to see Neuro for 4
> Days. It is heartbreaking to see her suffer so much . Any advice?

That is so sad, Grant.   Can you take her to an emergency room nearby?   She
may have suffered a small stroke or something like that.   Delaying having
her looked at for four days may not be a good thing.   Also, I am not an
expert or a doctor, just saying that a sudden change like that might
possibly indicate a cerebral event of some kind.

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Best Regards,

Evelyn Ruut

Alan Meyer - 09 Feb 2007 19:00 GMT
> ...   Also, I am not an expert or a doctor, just saying that a sudden change like that
> might possibly indicate a cerebral event of some kind.
> ...

I agree with Evelyn that this could be something other than AD.

If you do take her to an emergency room, you may need to
exercise some restraint over what they do.  Hospitals sometimes
have a protocol that they follow for a stroke and stick to it
whether the patient is a 40 year old otherwise healthy person,
or an 85 year old patient with AD, heart disease, and generally
frail health.  If they want to do something risky, painful,
upsetting or with only a small chance of helping, be sure to
discuss it with them in advance and ensure that it's something
that you think is really in the long term interests of your wife.

It might also be just the AD manifesting itself.  It seems to me
that patients sometimes reach thresholds where they can hold
things together pretty well right up to the threshold, then a small
additional deterioration puts them over the line and they can't
hold it together any more.

I can well imagine how upset you are now.  This disease is
so difficult and stressful for everyone.  I'm sure you know
that there's a limit to what you or anyone can do.  Much of it
is just out of our hands.

Take care of yourself and best of luck.

   Alan
Dana Carpender - 09 Feb 2007 17:12 GMT
> My wife was Dx with AD about 8 years ago but things have gone
> reasonably well until three days ago. For a year she has communicated
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
> to see Neuro for 4
> Days. It is heartbreaking to see her suffer so much . Any advice?

I'm afraid I have none, just wanted to say how sorry I am.
((((((((((((((Grant))))))))))))

Dana
Dennis P. Harris - 09 Feb 2007 23:11 GMT
> About three days
>  ago she started trying to communicate to me that everything has
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> to see Neuro for 4
> Days. It is heartbreaking to see her suffer so much . Any advice?

take her to her primary care doc or the emergency room if you
can't see her regular doc, and have her checked for infections,
particularly bladder/urinary tract infection, not uncommon with
AD folks who aren't always good at toileting.

part of the problem with AD is that it not only scrambles the
cognitive parts of the brain, but also the parts that register &
interpret pain.  her feeling of "washing out" may be due to pain
that's not being interpreted as such.
Chuck Whealton - 10 Feb 2007 14:47 GMT
> My wife was Dx with AD about 8 years ago but things have gone
> reasonably well until three days ago. For a year she has communicated
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
> to see Neuro for 4
> Days. It is heartbreaking to see her suffer so much . Any advice?

Grant:

I certainly can't offer any better advice then what has already been
offered.  The only thing I can say is that I hope things work out as
well as possible, under the circumstances.

I hope this isn't a major change and that it's something that can be
gotten under control.  I had it better than most with my late
Mother.   I can't imagine what it's like to go through what some of
the people who post to this group are forced to go through.  Just
reading about it makes me very sad.

Good luck.  I seriously hope it works out well (as well as possible,
considering the circumstances).

Charles R. Whealton
Charles Whealton @ pleasedontspam.com
Chuck Whealton - 14 Feb 2007 15:54 GMT
> My wife was Dx with AD about 8 years ago but things have gone
> reasonably well until three days ago. For a year she has communicated
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
> to see Neuro for 4
> Days. It is heartbreaking to see her suffer so much . Any advice?

Hi Grant...

Have you been able to visit the the Doctor and find out more about
what's going on with your Wife?  If so, was there any (relatively)
good news?  Hopefully?

Charles R. Whealton
Charles Whealton @ pleasedontspam.com
Grant - 18 Feb 2007 16:21 GMT
> > My wife was Dx with AD about 8 years ago but things have gone
> > reasonably well until three days ago. For a year she has communicated
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> Charles R. Whealton
> Charles Whealton @ pleasedontspam.com
deerwoodflower@hotmail.com - 15 Feb 2007 16:06 GMT
> My wife was Dx with AD about 8 years ago but things have gone
> reasonably well until three days ago. For a year she has communicated
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
> to see Neuro for 4
> Days. It is heartbreaking to see her suffer so much . Any advice?

So sorry,to hear this.Check for uti's.They can affect the elderly so
much worse than us young folks.LOL Like someone else posted i too have
had it so much easier than some folks on here.BUT have much experience
in uti's with my mom.We now have her on a preventative plan taking 1
pill of antibiotics a day .Which of course causes havoc with her blood
thinner but we are getting that straightened out too.Wishing you the
best,Barb
 
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