Dear all
I finally lost my mam last week. I was called the tuesday before last to go
home. I drove all through the night to get home and my sister flew in from
Ireland. We were at her bedside when she died. It was so difficult to see
her take her last breath.She had been in terrible pain but after they put a
morphine pump into her she slipped away peacefully.
We had her funeral yesterday, the fourth anniversary of her mum's death from
Alzheimers. I believe everyone has a guardian angel and I truly beleve that
mam's guardian angel was my grandma coming to take mam away from her pain.
I feel I have some closure now. I'm devestated but at least my dad can move
on from this living nightmare and that I don't have to worry.
Thanks for all your previous kind words.
Best wishes
Tumbleweed - 19 Feb 2006 17:02 GMT
> Dear all
> I finally lost my mam last week. I was called the tuesday before last to
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> Thanks for all your previous kind words.
> Best wishes
Steve,
my condolences, glad that at least it all happened relatively quickly so
that no one had to suffer for too long, If i recall correctly your dad cared
for her at home for most of the time, until she was relatively recently
hospitalised?

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Steve - 19 Feb 2006 17:30 GMT
Thanks for your condolences. She was put into respite social care in the
first wek of January. They could not manage her and so went into a
palliative care ward within two days. She basically died in about a month of
going into care
>> Dear all
>> I finally lost my mam last week. I was called the tuesday before last to
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> cared for her at home for most of the time, until she was relatively
> recently hospitalised?
carolinasongbird@gmail.com - 19 Feb 2006 17:33 GMT
Steve,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I'm glad she was
able to pass peacefully and that you and your sister were able to be
with her. As sad as that time was, I'm sure that and other memories
will be a comfort to you.
May your mam rest in peace and rise in glory.
Songbird
Gwen Love - 19 Feb 2006 20:09 GMT
My sympathy Steve. Glad she is no longer in pain.
Gwen
> Dear all
> I finally lost my mam last week. I was called the tuesday before last to
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> Thanks for all your previous kind words.
> Best wishes
June - 19 Feb 2006 22:05 GMT
Steve.....I know that we are never ready to give them up but as with all
things there is a time to die. Glad it was peaceful death. God bless her
soul......June
> Dear all
> I finally lost my mam last week. I was called the tuesday before last to
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> Thanks for all your previous kind words.
> Best wishes
michelle - 20 Feb 2006 07:44 GMT
Sincere condolences may time heal your pain and loss
Michelle
Australia
Nati - 20 Feb 2006 15:02 GMT
Dwell in the good memories, she is now at peace. Hug.
A R Pickett - 22 Feb 2006 22:40 GMT
All my sympathy, Steve, to you, all your family, and your mother's friends.
I hope the knowledge that her suffering has ended will eventually be a
blessing to you.
Woodstock
Evelyn Ruut - 23 Feb 2006 15:03 GMT
Dear Steve,
I have only just returned from vacation and read of your loss. My deepest
condolences.
May you find peace in your very best memories of her.

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Evelyn
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> Dear all
> I finally lost my mam last week. I was called the tuesday before last to
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> Thanks for all your previous kind words.
> Best wishes
Steve - 24 Feb 2006 06:35 GMT
Thank you everyone for your compassion. I have found this group very
supportive. I do feel a sense of release now, so much that I have started
sleeping again . Slept in twice this week!
In a while my dad and I are going to do a sky dive to raise money for the
Alzheimers society.
I don't think dad finds the idea of being strapped to a big butch man as
appealing as me but he's up for it. We just want to give something back and
help others going through the same nightmare.
Thanks, again for your support.
Best wishes
Steve
> Dear Steve,
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>> Thanks for all your previous kind words.
>> Best wishes
A R Pickett - 25 Feb 2006 13:53 GMT
Steve wrote - > In a while my dad and I are going to do a sky dive to raise
money for the
> Alzheimers society.
> I don't think dad finds the idea of being strapped to a big butch man as
> appealing as me but he's up for it.
Send pictures!
Sounds like a blast!
Woodstock
Tumbleweed - 25 Feb 2006 20:23 GMT
> Steve wrote - > In a while my dad and I are going to do a sky dive to
> raise
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> Woodstock
Do they have an alternative where you are strapped to a hot babe? Thats
about the only thing that would get me to do that (hmmm, delete the
'about'). Good luck Steve, got a sponsorship page?
FWIW I did a sponsored event last year and found
http://www.justgiving.com/default.asp invaluable, I raised a *lot* more
money than I ever thought I would simply because it was so easy for people
to sign up, no need for grub eared bits of paper or chasing up after the
event, plus for UK donations they can reclaim the tax, which is very
difficult if you arrange it yourself.

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Anthony Shipley - 26 Feb 2006 02:07 GMT
>Steve wrote - > In a while my dad and I are going to do a sky dive to raise
>money for the
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>Sounds like a blast!
Nah! Go up in a Cessna, or similar, and do some aerobatics!
Now that's unforgettable, Steve!
Who's funding your sky diving? I might try to do something similar over here and
what your strategy (unless you want to keep it private?
anthony shipley
Run away with me; I can make you unhappy.