Genee, I wrote Matti also, but didn't hear from him/her.
Gwen
Gwen and Genee,
I heard from Jules last night and once again this morning, so it seems he is
really on the mend, thank goodness! He is a sweet guy, having a bit of bad
luck in relationship matters right now, and I hope that knowing that many of
us here care about him will help him through.
Regards,
Evelyn
> Genee, I wrote Matti also, but didn't hear from him/her.
> Gwen
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>> The Cranky Genee
Nati - 02 Jan 2006 13:58 GMT
I can't believe what i am reading. I found it strange that Julian said
goodby. Really did not understand well the meaning of his goodby post,
evidently because i did not think he was sad. Depression is a killer. I
suffered three major episodes in a decade and was hospitalized.
Medicine stopped it and have been well for another decade. The holidays
bring a lot of depression in many, whichever the reason is... decrease
in natural light, stress... Julian, my love, i feel you drink too much.
Alcohol is a depressant. Take it easy. I read all your posts and links
and enjoy you. Life is sometimes sad but it is also sometimes wonderful
and peaceful. There is not just one door, when one closes another
opens. You'll get over this. You are a wonderful loving and lovable
person. Your grandpa needs you. Get well and come back to the group and
keep sharing with us. Happy 2006!
Adelle - 02 Jan 2006 14:21 GMT
This is so sad. So glad he is doing better.
Hoping things start looking better for him.
This is difficult because my sister is also having a rough time. Some
medication (hormone based) and other issues leave her periodically so low
she has been suicidal but not acted on it. She doesn't want to try
antidepressants because she has had a bad reaction to one she tried. Like
me, we seem to get more side effects than most people. But my depression has
never been so severe as to leave me suicidal.
Julian - if you are lurking - You are a worthwhile and good person.
Adelle
> Gwen and Genee,
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>>> The Cranky Genee
Mary_Gordon@tvo.org - 02 Jan 2006 20:56 GMT
Adelle, tell your sister to try another medication. I went into a spin
in early 2005 due work related stress (we ended up in a 3 1/2 month
long strike) compounded by weight loss. I was absolutely in a knot -
couldn't eat, couldn't sleep. The first antidepressant they tried on me
was effexor, supposedly the one they use to bring just about anyone
back from the brink with few of the unpleasant side effects like weight
gain. Not only did it not make me better, it made me MORE anxious. Not
having been through anything quite like this before, it took me a while
to figure out that despite the fact I wasn't at work, I wasn't
improving and in fact was feeling worse (more wound up than ever). I
was switched to another medication (zoloft), and poof, much, much
better within a few weeks.
You have to give a few a try, and since they often take a few weeks to
work, be willing to hang in to see if anything improves, if there are
side effects, and if the side effects pass off with time.
M.
John Inzer - 02 Jan 2006 17:25 GMT
> Gwen and Genee,
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> Regards,
> Evelyn
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Hi Evelyn....
Thanks for the update.
**Jules**...Get well soon...

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