Learning to let Mom alone on somethings or what I might call,don't sweat
the small stuff! :-)

Example;I got the dishes washed Sunday and Mom helped dry them. Just not
a big problem to me if everyone of them wasn't spotlesly dry.

Had a few dirty dishes in the sink Monday morning. The gal from home
health care was to wash them;but I was sitting in here on my WebTV
yesterday morning and saw Mom starting to wash those dishes,rinse then
and put them in the drainer. That used to really bother me some and I
would tell her and try to get her to stop and that because she just
doesn't remember how to wash dishes too well. This Monday though,I just
let it go,watched her a bit to be sure she was allright. The when they
lady got here from home health care,I told her what had happened and she
just took the dishes out of the drain and rewashed them. So Mom was
happy to get the dishes washed by herself and I was happy to let her do
them even though they did need some checking and some rewashing later
on! LoL