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Medical Forum / Diseases and Disorders / Alzheimer's / October 2005

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Elder Lawyer

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Florence A - 23 Oct 2005 21:25 GMT
I thought the Lawyer was asking an rediculous fee---still think it's
high,,,BUT ridding myself of the anxious feeling about how I would live
after  giving all my assets for my husbands keep was certainly worth it
and it it is part of the spend down..
Hope I read that right.
My main concern now is:  Don has become angry  & combative.---Pray the
Paxil & Respirodal brings back his kind nature.  I hate going to
visit---wonder if my visits stir up conflict.  
I took him to the psych dr for med RX & it was hard to believe,  he knew
my name & that I am his wife.  

I hope he calms down so they wont ask him to leave...It's always
something...

Florence
LJ - 23 Oct 2005 22:07 GMT
My local office of the AD Assoc gave me a voucher for one visit to an Elder
Attorney. I have an appointment on the 12th. Maybe you can call and see if
they have that by you?

LJ
> I thought the Lawyer was asking an rediculous fee---still think it's
> high,,,BUT ridding myself of the anxious feeling about how I would live
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> Florence
carolinasongbird@gmail.com - 23 Oct 2005 22:31 GMT
Cost me less than $200 for an hour with the elder law attorney, but I
already had all the POAs, etc. done. I just went in with all my
questions and knocked them out in quick order. Was well worth it in
terms of being able to sleep at night!

Songbird
Dennis P. Harris - 23 Oct 2005 23:57 GMT
> Cost me less than $200 for an hour with the elder law attorney, but I
> already had all the POAs, etc. done. I just went in with all my
> questions and knocked them out in quick order. Was well worth it in
> terms of being able to sleep at night!

and that brings up a point:  if you don't want to spend a lot of
money on a lawyer, do as much of the work as you can yourself,
and let her/him know that the expense is a concern and that
you're willing to do stuff yourself like type up living will or
POA, or go to the courthouse for documents, that you need the
attorney for expertise and advice.  

then write down the questions you need to ask, and bring any
backup material that may help shorten time.  my mother stopped
doing business with one lawyer who wanted to charge her when a
potential purchaser of the property she wanted to sell called her
attorney and she billed him for a 20 minute phone call without
her authorizing him to do so.  she told him she thought she
shouldn't have to pay it, he took it off the bill, she paid the
corrected bill, and took her legal business elsewhere.

i've always found it the most cost effective to do a lot of my
own research, and then take my draft documents to an attorney.
that's what i'm doing with my new will, and i did it a few years
ago when setting up a non-profit corporation with some friends
who needed to incorporate their arts organization.

www.findlaw.com has lots of info in almost every area of law, and
most state statutes and city ordinances are online these days.
 
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