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Christine Geary - 14 Mar 2005 00:41 GMT
I have a mom who is diagnosed with beginning-to-moderate alzheimers.  She
takes Aricept and Namenda to help slow the process of alzheimers.  I need
help with dealing with my mom's mood changes.  For example, she may suggest
to go to town for something, then on the way gets angry that I'm going to
town and constantly asks me where we're going.  When I remind her, she gets
angrier and threatens to jump out of the car and walk home but, thankfully
doesn't do it.  I'm at my wit's end trying to cope with this.

Any help is appreciated; thanks in advance.

Christine
Evelyn Ruut - 14 Mar 2005 00:50 GMT
>I have a mom who is diagnosed with beginning-to-moderate alzheimers.  She
> takes Aricept and Namenda to help slow the process of alzheimers.  I need
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> Christine

Christine, I am sure you realize that alzheimers is a disease where the
memory is afflicted, and as such, she honestly can't remember from one
second to the next where she has asked to go, or where she is being taken.
To HER it looks like she is suddenly being taken somewhere against her will,
or something like that.   Even if you explained it to her a hundred times,
if she cannot remember the explanation, it is still going to look that way
to her.

It can be very confusing for a caregiver to deal with, especially when their
actions just seem to make no sense at all.   I don't know if you have a
doctor you can really talk to, but if you do, you should ask if there are
any medications to help with the anger and mood changes.    In our case the
doctor prescribed an anti-psychotic medication which really was a godsend to
us, in addition to the Aricept.   I have absolutely no idea how we would
have coped without it.
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Evelyn

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J - 14 Mar 2005 05:15 GMT
Evelyn is right!  symptoms of alzheimers...  check this out:

What Are the Symptoms of AD?

AD begins slowly. At first, the only symptom may be mild forgetfulness.
In this stage, people may have trouble remembering recent events,
activities, or the names of familiar people or things. They may not be
able to solve simple math problems. Such difficulties may be a bother,
but usually they are not serious enough to cause alarm.

However, as the disease goes on, symptoms are more easily noticed and
become serious enough to cause people with AD or their family members
to seek medical help. For example, people in the middle stages of AD
may forget how to do simple tasks, like brushing their teeth or combing
their hair. They can no longer think clearly. They begin to have
problems speaking, under-standing, reading, or writing. Later on,
people with AD may become anxious or aggressive, or wander away from
home. Eventually, patients need total care.
Karen - 14 Mar 2005 06:39 GMT
Christine, if your car has child safety locks that prevent anyone but the
driver from opening the doors, you probably need to start using them.  Hubby
and I did after my MIL started to get out of the car while it was going 60
mph.  She wasn't even in a snit, she thought we had arrived (even though the
trees were still moving past).  We had a learning curve of having to realize
that we can't expect the rational behavior from my MIL that you normally
would from an adult.  Of course, heaven help you if you say anything to that
effect out loud.  :-)

OTOH, the visit to the psychiatrist and the anti-anxiety drugs he prescribed
were a God send for us and for the caregivers at the facility she was in.
The way I think of it is how often does the memory reset button get pushed?
I can only imagine the anxiety it produces to not know where you are or how
you got there 20-30- times a day.

Karen

> I have a mom who is diagnosed with beginning-to-moderate alzheimers.  She
> takes Aricept and Namenda to help slow the process of alzheimers.  I need
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> Christine
Florence A - 14 Mar 2005 16:58 GMT
Christine--

Her Dr should help you out with some type of med.  Call him on the QT if
possible or send a note in via the nurse.  

Sometimes we must  do things  though difficult at first, become easier
with time & learning.   Some call it "loving deceptions".

Give whatever answer will not raise hackles.  Sometimes no answer but a
comment about the weather or traffic will do the trick.

 Most times, their reality is not your reality.    

Be kind to yourself..  Take care

Florence

 
Ronny TX - 16 Mar 2005 05:22 GMT
> Help with my mom  
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Ronny:
Christine,sometimes it might help to try and change the subject with
your Mom. Anything to distract her and get her mind on something else.
Point out a house,tree whatever that you're passing and make some
comment on it. Say,isn't that pretty or some comment/question like that.
Do that 2 or 3 times or so if you have to and in different ways if the
first time doesn't work. And sometimes this works and sometimes it
doesn't;but it's worth a try.
Christine Geary - 16 Mar 2005 16:33 GMT
I want to thank everyone who comment on my initial post; I will incorporate
the suggestions the next time I go to town.

Christine
 
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