A health worker told me about nursing home games where a balloon is
tossed between alz patients. We experimented with a balloon and found
that the unpredictable nature of the movement of the balloon through
the air caused the patient to stumble while trying to catch it. I
went to Toys R Us and bought a small assortment of inflated rubber
balls. I discovered that one that is larger than a large grapefruit
but smaller than a bowling ball works well. It is slightly deflated
and that seems to make it softer and easier for the patient to catch
and handle. It was marked down to $1.88 at the store. It was a
little dirty so I used Clorox wipes to clean it off. I went back and
purchased a second one. My mother and I have been tossing them back
and forth for a total of about 30 minutes a day for 10 days now. It
is entertaining and it's good exercise. It is also simple enough that
a mid to late stager can handle the mental part of the activity fairly
easily. She of course has a hard time remembering that switching to
the other hand prevents fatigue, but that is to be expected. I have
her remove her glasses before playing so that when it occasionally
hits her in the face it doesnt bash her glasses into her face. I wish
I had created this activity 20 months ago. It is very frustrating
living here in Kinfolkville, Arkinsaw with no one to talk to. I have
to figure out EVERYTHING myself. I am hoping that the toll this
social isolation is taking on my own health does not cause me to
predecease my mother. I dont know why in the world they ever decided
to move to Arkinsaw. They could have easily chosen someplace else.
Maybe this post will help someone else.
Gwen Love - 31 Oct 2004 21:29 GMT
Bob, I'm glad you have found something your mother can do, and doing it with
you is an extra bonus. Since you don't have someone available there to
share time and talk with, feel free to join us and share with us any time.
Most of us have, at one time or another, had to stay in with our LO and miss
the social life, but this is a good place to be and to make friends. You'll
find that there will be at least some you will feel really close to. As you
mentioned, many caregivers die first because they have not taken care of
themselves. Be aware of that and be sure to take care of yourself first.
Gwen
> A health worker told me about nursing home games where a balloon is
> tossed between alz patients. We experimented with a balloon and found
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> to move to Arkinsaw. They could have easily chosen someplace else.
> Maybe this post will help someone else.
Suzie Q - 01 Nov 2004 03:55 GMT
My health is shot after nine years of caring for mom. The only time
I've gotten any rest is when I ended up in the hospital for heart and
diabetes related problems.....but if you've been to the hospital, you
know it's not a place you get any peace and quiet. If it wasn't for my
youngest daughter I'd never have a break since my sibs don't want to
have anything to do with physically caring for OUR mom....there's lots
of emotional baggage.
Mom is 87 and I'm 60 and somedays I wonder who's going to die first. I
just wonder how long we both can possily last.
SQ
Dennis P. Harris - 01 Nov 2004 09:41 GMT
> My health is shot after nine years of caring for mom. The only time
> I've gotten any rest is when I ended up in the hospital for heart and
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> Mom is 87 and I'm 60 and somedays I wonder who's going to die first. I
> just wonder how long we both can possily last.
what good will you be to her if you run your health into the
ground? when it really gets to be too much, you truly should
consider a facility, so that you can visit her and have quality
time. if she has no money, that's not an issue, since she will
then qualify for medicaid.
Feather Forestwalker - 01 Nov 2004 08:04 GMT
> A health worker told me about nursing home games where a balloon is
> tossed between alz patients. We experimented with a balloon and found
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> to move to Arkinsaw. They could have easily chosen someplace else.
> Maybe this post will help someone else.
At our local day program, the staff there use large, soft balls, about
the size of basketballs, for the clients to kick (tap gently) around the
room. Of course, some of the clients are stronger than others, and the
ball sometimes bops someone on the head (thankfully they are soft!), but
they all seem to enjoy this activity.
They also do ring toss, where they toss rings over posts. . .they seem
to like that, as well.
We tried to see how they'd do playing poker one day; that was a wash.
Ah, well. . .
Thanks for this idea, I will, if that's alright, print this out for the
director of that program. . .
Feather
Bob West - 01 Nov 2004 20:21 GMT
Feather
By all means print it and do what you like with it. I failed to
mention that we are sitting on either a chair or couch when we toss
the ball. That prevents her from falling during the activity.
> > A health worker told me about nursing home games where a balloon is
> > tossed between alz patients. We experimented with a balloon and found
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> Feather
Feather Forestwalker - 02 Nov 2004 06:29 GMT
> Feather
>
> By all means print it and do what you like with it. I failed to
> mention that we are sitting on either a chair or couch when we toss
> the ball. That prevents her from falling during the activity.
Thank you. We sit in chairs, too, at the Day Program. . .
Feather
>>>A health worker told me about nursing home games where a balloon is
>>>tossed between alz patients. We experimented with a balloon and found
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>>Feather
bherms@yahoo.com - 01 Nov 2004 15:43 GMT
I saw "bean bag pitch and catch" on a nursing home schedule. My Mom
seems pretty good at catching a plastic ball, and seems to enjoy it
too. I want to get a bean bag cuz it would be a little easier to
grab, wouldn't hurt if it hit you, and won't roll away as far when you
miss it.
Bill
>A health worker told me about nursing home games where a balloon is
>tossed between alz patients. We experimented with a balloon and found
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>to move to Arkinsaw. They could have easily chosen someplace else.
>Maybe this post will help someone else.