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Evelyn Ruut - 25 Oct 2004 17:38 GMT
I am totally distraught right now.  Had to put my beloved German Shepherd
Dog down this morning.  He had bone cancer.

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Evelyn

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Adelle D. Stavis, Esq. - 25 Oct 2004 17:45 GMT
Oh, Evelyn!

I'm so sorry. Please accept my condolences.
Too many losses.

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> I am totally distraught right now.  Had to put my beloved German Shepherd
> Dog down this morning.  He had bone cancer.
Camille - 25 Oct 2004 18:02 GMT
Evelyn,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss.  Your beloved pet is now pain free and
awaits you at the Rainbow Bridge.

Camille

>I am totally distraught right now.  Had to put my beloved German Shepherd
>Dog down this morning.  He had bone cancer.
JULIAN HALES - 25 Oct 2004 18:04 GMT
> I am totally distraught right now.  Had to put my beloved German Shepherd
> Dog down this morning.  He had bone cancer.
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>
> (to reply to me personally, remove 'sox")

thats sad, had to do the same years ago, infact my granddad took it not me,
expecting that after a differant diagnose, and i just started a new job.

Had to have my German Shephard but down a few years ago with bad hips, so
sad, and such a nice breed of dogs

Im not looking forward to when 'Arthur' goes, same with my granddad so i let
them spend a lot of time together, not sure which Arthur takes the other
Arthur for a walk!

Enjoy the happy memories
Evelyn Ruut - 25 Oct 2004 18:16 GMT
Thanks all who wrote.  I am still terribly upset, but this is how it all
happened.

Two days ago while out for an airing, my dog Baron suddenly yelped in some
pain while he was just trotting on the grass.   We noticed his right rear
leg was hanging, useless.     He managed to hobble around on three legs with
great difficulty the rest of the night and on Sunday.   We felt it had to be
more than just a sprain since it seemed to get no better.

Not knowing what it could be, and having a really bad feeling about it, we
brought him to the vet this morning for an emergency visit and an Xray.   In
a dog of his size (over 100 lbs) Xrays must be done while the dog is
anesthetized.

We got the call around 10:45 that there was VERY bad news.   The Xray showed
he had a broken femur, but the reason for the break was the really bad news.
Baron had a bone tumor that had weakened the bone so much that the leg just
snapped.

Furthermore there were more bone tumors elsewhere.

The prognosis?  No hope.

While he was still anesthetized from the Xray, our vet gently administered a
lethal injection, since there was nothing left for Baron but great pain if
we did not.   The vet told us that if it was his dog, it was what he would
have done, and that there really was no other recourse.

Gosh I miss him so much as I write, tears running down my cheeks.

This dog was really MY 'baby.'  He slept in my room and was never away from
my side.   He was a wonderful pet, who gave us immeasurable joy, unlimited
love, and guarded our home and our selves with all his heart.   He was a
truly great dog and having him for the last ten years was a blessing.

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Pell Nilly - 26 Oct 2004 02:56 GMT
How awful, Evelyn! I'm so sorry for your tremendous loss!

:-(

> Thanks all who wrote.  I am still terribly upset, but this is how it all
> happened.
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> love, and guarded our home and our selves with all his heart.   He was a
> truly great dog and having him for the last ten years was a blessing.
Evelyn Ruut - 26 Oct 2004 12:56 GMT
> How awful, Evelyn! I'm so sorry for your tremendous loss!
>
> :-(

Thanks for your kind thoughts.

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Evelyn

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>> Thanks all who wrote.  I am still terribly upset, but this is how it all
>> happened.
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>> love, and guarded our home and our selves with all his heart.   He was a
>> truly great dog and having him for the last ten years was a blessing.
Rose - 25 Oct 2004 20:07 GMT
>Subject: Heartsick (OT)
>From: "Evelyn Ruut" mama-lionsox@hvc.rr.com
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>I am totally distraught right now.  Had to put my beloved German Shepherd
>Dog down this morning.  He had bone cancer.

Evelyn, I don't know how to say words that will comfort you, but maybe soon you
can take solace in knowing that your dog had a loving owner who knew when it
was time for him to stop suffering.  You put his welfare above your own need
for the love of this dog and that is heroic.

Your dog was loved, cared for, and is now at peace.  

Losing pets is so painful.  I wasn't able to have cats or dogs due to allergies
so I had a hamster when I was around 12.  When he died I was devastated.  Some
friends didn't understand why I would care about a rodent... but that hamster
was affectionate and knew his "family" of humans.  

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"This is an impressive crowd, the haves and the have-mores. Some call you the
elites.  I call you my base."  -- President George W. Bush
Evelyn Ruut - 25 Oct 2004 22:03 GMT
> >Subject: Heartsick (OT)
>>From: "Evelyn Ruut" mama-lionsox@hvc.rr.com
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> hamster
> was affectionate and knew his "family" of humans.

Thanks so much Rose.   Like you, I believe that animals understand a lot
more than they are often given credit for.
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Gwen Love - 25 Oct 2004 20:07 GMT
Oh Evelyn, I am so sorry.
Gwen

> I am totally distraught right now.  Had to put my beloved German Shepherd
> Dog down this morning.  He had bone cancer.
donnah - 25 Oct 2004 21:02 GMT
(((Evelyn)))
I am so very sorry for your loss...
We had to do that twice in the last few years, and the pain of doing
it was terrible. But both animals were also sick and we could not let
them suffer any longer. Knowing it was the right thing to do did not
make it any easier--I still cry a bit when I see their pictures.
You are in my thoughts,
donnah

>I am totally distraught right now.  Had to put my beloved German
>Shepherd Dog down this morning.  He had bone cancer.
Evelyn Ruut - 25 Oct 2004 22:02 GMT
> (((Evelyn)))
> I am so very sorry for your loss...
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> You are in my thoughts,
> donnah

Thanks so much, Donnah.
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Stephen B - 26 Oct 2004 00:57 GMT
>I am totally distraught right now.  Had to put my beloved German Shepherd
>Dog down this morning.  He had bone cancer.

I am so sorry to read this Evelyn. We lost our Shepherd mix to cancer in
September. She had developed bone cancer over 2 years ago, we had her leg
amputated and went through chemo and she was cancer free for 2 years. A new,
different cancer developed in joint tissue in July. I still miss her every day.
You are in my thoughts.
-steve
Evelyn Ruut - 26 Oct 2004 12:55 GMT
>>I am totally distraught right now.  Had to put my beloved German Shepherd
>>Dog down this morning.  He had bone cancer.
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> You are in my thoughts.
> -steve

Hi Steve,

Apparently this is a very common cancer.   The saddest part about it is that
we had NO idea that he had so much of it all through his body.  We thought
he was just getting an Xray and maybe might come home with a cast or
something.   Instead we will never see him again.

But maybe it is better that way, because had I known I would have been
hysterical a lot sooner.

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Adelle D. Stavis, Esq. - 26 Oct 2004 15:18 GMT
> >>I am totally distraught right now.  Had to put my beloved German Shepherd
> >>Dog down this morning.  He had bone cancer.
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> But maybe it is better that way, because had I known I would have been
> hysterical a lot sooner.

Cancer was why we had to put down our last dog who died in 1994. We were
giving him a bath and he suddenly collapsed, his rear legs paralyzed. We
rushed him to the vet and the xray showed he had a lesion on his spine from
cancer. There was also something about the vertabra being compromised as
well. I know she explained it but I never quite took it in.

Again, I'm really sorry Evelyn. It's so hard when these precious souls we've
cared for leave us.

Adelle
Glenfiddich - 26 Oct 2004 18:45 GMT
>>>I am totally distraught right now.  Had to put my beloved German Shepherd
>>>Dog down this morning.  He had bone cancer.
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>But maybe it is better that way, because had I known I would have been
>hysterical a lot sooner.

Yes, it hurts, but there is also another bright side.

If he'd been in pain you *would* have noticed.
So, concentrate on the blessing that he was able to enjoy life
right up to the end.

He got what we want for all our loved ones.
Evelyn Ruut - 26 Oct 2004 18:57 GMT
>>>>I am totally distraught right now.  Had to put my beloved German
>>>>Shepherd
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>
> He got what we want for all our loved ones.

Yes, and what we would want for ourselves too.

I am in a little better state of mind today, though the house seems so empty
without him.
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Stephen B - 26 Oct 2004 23:31 GMT
>Hi Steve,
>
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>But maybe it is better that way, because had I known I would have been
>hysterical a lot sooner.

Unfortunately, cancer in dogs is all too common. I suspect processed feed and
vaccinations, myself, but that's another topic and another newsgroup. Finding
out and letting go so quickly prevented the pain of knowing that the time was
coming soon, but it sure doesn't prevent the pain of your loss. Dogs are pretty
darn good at hiding their ailments from us as they simply want to make us happy.
They leave all too soon, though. :-(
Take care,
-steve
Evelyn Ruut - 26 Oct 2004 23:51 GMT
>>Hi Steve,
>>
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> Take care,
> -steve

Yes.... we had no clue he was sick at all.....

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Songbird - 26 Oct 2004 15:17 GMT
(((((((((((Evelyn)))))))))))))

Songbird

>I am totally distraught right now.  Had to put my beloved German Shepherd
>Dog down this morning.  He had bone cancer.
Boydette - 26 Oct 2004 20:03 GMT
Ohhhhh sorry Evelyn...I have two dogs and the oldest one is almost
nine...I know that there will come a time when he is not around and it
will break my heart....(((((Evelyn)))))
Evelyn Ruut - 26 Oct 2004 21:10 GMT
> Ohhhhh sorry Evelyn...I have two dogs and the oldest one is almost
> nine...I know that there will come a time when he is not around and it
> will break my heart....(((((Evelyn)))))

Thanks so much Boydette.   I am in a little better shape today.
Yesterday was the kicker because we just didn't expect it.

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Robert E. Lewis - 27 Oct 2004 00:43 GMT
> I am totally distraught right now.  Had to put my beloved German Shepherd
> Dog down this morning.  He had bone cancer.

I am very, very sorry, Evelyn.

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Charlene Donahue - 27 Oct 2004 03:09 GMT
Dear Evelyn,

I am so sorry about your loss.  When we had to put our Boxers down (both
from old age) I just cried & cried.  We still lived on the boat & people
were used to seeing me with both Kay-C & Seigmond.  Even months later
when someone would ask where Kay-C was I fought back tears.  Remember
though that famous prayer, written from a pet's point of view, about not
letting them suffer.

I haven't shared the following story with many but will share it with
all of you.  Before the vet gave Kay-C her shot, I told her that the
doctor was going to give her something to take away the pain & she would
have wonderful dreams--dreams of being a puppy again & running on the
green grass in England.  That night I had a wonderful dream.  I saw
Sterling(our son who died from cancer) standing on our green lawn, big
smile & healthy with arems outstretched.  Then Kay-C went running up to
him & giving kisses like only a Boxer can do.  That dream was really
comforting to me.  When Sterling was bedridden, Kay-C was always
sleeping beside his bed.  Sounds crazy, but it really did help me.

I am thinking of you---

Always,

Char
> I am totally distraught right now.  Had to put my beloved German Shepherd
> Dog down this morning.  He had bone cancer.
Gwen Love - 27 Oct 2004 03:27 GMT
Char, how wonderful that you had the dream to comfort you.
Gwen

> Dear Evelyn,
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> > I am totally distraught right now.  Had to put my beloved German Shepherd
> > Dog down this morning.  He had bone cancer.
Evelyn Ruut - 27 Oct 2004 12:35 GMT
> Dear Evelyn,
>
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>
> Char

Thank you so much Char.   That was a wonderful story you shared.
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Boydette - 27 Oct 2004 20:21 GMT
wow Char that was something
Mary Gordon - 27 Oct 2004 20:41 GMT
Char, not sure if I knew you had had a son named Sterling.

My middle son is a Sterling. He's named for my maternal grandfather,
but he uses one of his middle names (Connor), since at 10, he's
freaked out by being a Sterling. Relatively unusual name these days
for kids.

I have dreams about my mother all the time - she died almost 31 years
ago. In my dreams, she's living in a very pretty small town - and she
went there because she was sick and didn't want to be a burden or a
source of upset. In one of my dreams, I found myself visiting her with
my late father - and I was livid with him, since he hadn't told me she
was alive, and I was also mad at her for leaving us (i.e. how could
she think for one minute she was a burden!).

The town is very distinctive and unlike many places in dreams - its
concrete and consistent. So, sometimes I dream about parts I've seen
before, and sometimes its new streets or buildings. Its nowhere I've
ever been in the waking world. When I see it in a dream, I know I'm
going to see my mom. Kind of comforting to think she's somewhere I can
go see her. Funny thing is, in real life, she's gotten kind of fuzzy -
its hard for me to bring her physical self -living face (as opposed to
a still picture image)  or voice, the way she smelled.. clearly to
mind. So in my dreams, when she's entirely herself and it all comes
back, its a shock - my reaction is always - oh, of course...how could
I have forgotten this about her?

Mary G.
Darryl - 27 Oct 2004 19:54 GMT
>I am totally distraught right now.  Had to put my beloved German Shepherd
>Dog down this morning.  He had bone cancer.

Hi Evelyn,

I'm sorry to hear of your loss, I just went through a similar
experience with my SO's rottweiler.  They don't call them (wo)man's
best friend for nothing!

Take care,
Darryl.
Evelyn Ruut - 27 Oct 2004 20:20 GMT
> >I am totally distraught right now.  Had to put my beloved German Shepherd
>>Dog down this morning.  He had bone cancer.
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> experience with my SO's rottweiler.  They don't call them (wo)man's
> best friend for nothing!

Thanks Darryl,  He was my constant companion for the last ten years.
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