Hello dear friends,
My caregiver counselor and precious friend, Pat, died yesterday from a
suspected heart attack. She has helped me so much during the last 18 months,
and I'm not sure I would have made it a couple of times if she hadn't been
there for me. She became a friend during that time, and I loved her so much.
Today, I literally had to tear myself from my mother's grip and walk out of her
room. I could hear her all the way to the door of the nursing home sobbing and
begging me not to leave her. And, I can't call Pat. This is too hard.
Becky
Trish Knight - 18 Aug 2004 00:14 GMT
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Dear Becky,
I am so sorry about Pat's death. I can only imagine how awful this must
be for you. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
((((( Becky )))))
Hugs,
Trish
Gwen Love - 18 Aug 2004 00:37 GMT
Becky, I am so sorry. I hope you can get through the grief and remember the
good times having her help you so much.
Gwen
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Darryl - 18 Aug 2004 00:44 GMT
>My caregiver counselor and precious friend, Pat, died yesterday from a
>suspected heart attack. She has helped me so much during the last 18 months,
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>room. I could hear her all the way to the door of the nursing home sobbing and
>begging me not to leave her. And, I can't call Pat. This is too hard.
Hi Becky,
I'm sorry to hear of the loss of your friend. Don't feel bad about
taking a break from seeing your Mom--now is the time for you to reach
out to friends and family and other counselors at the AD society and
for you to take care of your thyroid and blood pressure. This *is* a
difficult time but as you've demonstrated in the past, you will grow
from this experience, no matter how painful it feels right now. Get
out there and talk face-to-face with someone as soon as possible.
Take care,
Darryl.
Evelyn Ruut - 18 Aug 2004 13:07 GMT
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Dear Becky,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Please don't give up on seeking
support, either here on this newsgroup, or through your local alzheimer's
association. Help is there, and may be just a phone call away.

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Regards,
Evelyn
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WCPI46 - 19 Aug 2004 22:03 GMT
Thank you everyone for being here!!!
Becky
turkey in the straw - 20 Aug 2004 04:15 GMT
Becky,
I second that,Barb