My mom within the past 3 months has been acting very strangely. She
seems to be having a lot of difficulty remembering the date or day of
week. She is 76.
A few weeks ago she was watching a show on television about a famous
person. The next thing I know she calls me and tells me that she is in
that persons home and it looks exactly like her own. (It is her own
house- she never left)
Later, she laughed about it and said she must have fallen asleep
watching the show and thought she was in that celebreties home. Yet it
lasted for about an hour.. she called me every few moments, wondering
how to get back to her own house...
What concerns me is the fact that she did not seperate reality and
fiction
Tonight, she called and told me that she was watching a cooking show
on tv and thought that the host of the show was cooking a dinner for
her !! She got up to comb her hair to get ready for the dinner, went
to the dining room and couldnt figure out where the dinner party was
at.. !! This time she was very upset knowing that it was not real, yet
it seemed so real. She is really concerned, as I am.
Things were fine with her up until the beginning of May, when she
started sleeping a lot and getting confused. Much of the time, she is
just fine, but this other odd stuff has really gotten me concerned. Is
this an early sign of alzheimers?
Any comments would be appreciated,
Thanks so much,
MJ
Tumbleweed - 21 Aug 2004 07:51 GMT
> My mom within the past 3 months has been acting very strangely. She
> seems to be having a lot of difficulty remembering the date or day of
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> just fine, but this other odd stuff has really gotten me concerned. Is
> this an early sign of alzheimers?
Could be, get her to the doc and a proper assessment done the medicines for
Az are most effective when taken early on. Though they only act as a
delaying mechanism it might still buy her a few years.

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Mary Gordon - 21 Aug 2004 12:57 GMT
Get her to the doctor, pronto. It could be Alzheimers, but it also
could be mini-strokes, thyroid, pernicious anemia, or any of a long
list of illnesses that cause confusion.
If she DOES have Alzheimer's, she may well be more impaired and
advanced in the illness than you realize. She needs to be seen for a
full physical to rule out some of the causes of dementia - and the
doctor can also do a mini-mental exam in the office for a quick screen
of how disoriented she is. Then she should be referred to a
neurologist or geriatric psychiatrist with a dementia specialty for
further tests (such as a head scan), and an evaluation of her deficits
so you can get a proper diagnosis AND a realistic picture of how
impaired she is.
Get going today - this is serious. If she has something treatable,
time is a'wasting - some things that are potentially reversable need
to be seen to early on to prevent permanent damage. If it is AD, it
can't be "cured" but there are medications that can slow down the
progress, so the earlier you get her diagnosed and on some of these
drugs, the better.
You also need to know exactly what you are dealing with so you can
make plans for the future. If she has AD or other progressive and
incurable dementia, she will get worse and you need to be ready for
what may come next, and have proper plans in place, plus legal and
financial items in place like her wills (both for her assets and a
"living will" if she has preferences), powers of attorney for
finances and personal care etc.- and it also doesn't hurt to consult a
lawyer about how to structure her finances if you are in the US and
she doesn't have adequate money or insurance to take care of herself
if she ends up in a care facility - you need some legal advice about
medicaid etc.
I'm not trying to scare you - but if she has something progressive,
time is short to make some arrangements as she may not be legally able
to sign things much longer.
Call the doctor today. I'd be extremely alarmed about what you are
describing.
Mary G.
Stephen B - 21 Aug 2004 14:14 GMT
>Things were fine with her up until the beginning of May, when she
>started sleeping a lot and getting confused. Much of the time, she is
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>Thanks so much,
>MJ
My mom, who is now 77 and diagnosed wth AZ, showed similar TV/Reality confusion
issues as a first sign of the advancement of the disease. She truly believes
that the TV is a two way device and that she is actually "there" for whatever is
on TV. The absurd part is that she is also at home, not having been transported
to this other place. Watching the Olympics on TV, she believes that the
announcers are personally speaking to her and she responds. When she claps or
waves, she can be seen and heard by the people on TV. A fund raising drive on
the public TV station drove her nuts as she kept telling the hosts that she had
no money to give and finally left the room since they were so persistent! My
father, 84 next month, is the primary caregiver. I help on weekends and as
needed.
-steve
WCPI46 - 22 Aug 2004 00:07 GMT
We had that problem TJ before Mom totally lost all interest in television. She
thought one night that Archie and Edith Bunker were sleeping over. Another time
she fell before she had to give up her home and yelled all night for the people
on TV to help her. She was mad because they ignored her. I guess it's more
common than I thought.
Becky
Dennis White - 22 Aug 2004 07:42 GMT
> My mom within the past 3 months has been acting very strangely. She
> seems to be having a lot of difficulty remembering the date or day of
> week. She is 76.
> A few weeks ago she was watching a show on television about a famous
> person. The next thing I know she calls me and tells me that she is in
> that persons home and it looks exactly like her own.
snip....
Evan has a related problem. Maybe some of you are familiar with it and
can explain it to me. He has a hard time distinguishing his dreams with his
waking self. Often he awakens from a nap and tells me the most incredible
things. He is aware that he is being confused, but doesn't know what to do
about it. He has decided if he takes his shoes off (which he would normally
do anyway) that he won't "wander" out of his bed and into the dream world.
Of course to explain the nuances of what is happening seem to go right over
his head.
Dennis
Mojogame - 25 Aug 2004 03:57 GMT
> > My mom within the past 3 months has been acting very strangely. She
> > seems to be having a lot of difficulty remembering the date or day of
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>
> Dennis
Thanks so much for the replies. I have talked to mom's family doctor
since I last wrote and she has an appointment for an MRI this coming
Friday. Will let you know what we find out.
Mary Gordon - 25 Aug 2004 12:53 GMT
Some of the frontal lobe dementias cause very vivid hallucinations.
My MIL had Alzheimer's, and although she didn't have visual
hallucinations, she did have delusions based on misinterpretation of
what she saw or heard - she became convinced that people on TV could
see her and interact with her. It started with a children's program -
I think because the host did address viewers and look at the camera in
a way that seemed friendly and personal. Nothing would convince her
that he couldn't see her and talk to her - she thought he was visiting
with her personally via the set. She also thought newscasters could
see into her apartment - and this was upsetting to her. She wouldn't
wear her night attire in front of the set because she was embarrassed,
and she actually put a cloth over the set to protect her privacy. As
others gave mentioned, explanations didn't help at all - she knew what
she knew and there was no point to try and reason with her that TVs
were just a one way signal deal.
On the AD unit where she eventually lived, they had banned TVs in the
rooms, and a big part of it was that so many residents had the same
issue - not being able to separate the images on the set from reality.
After all, if you are confused, even if you are not having delusions,
if you see a news cast of something awful, you may get the idea that
whatever is happening is right where you are - the last thing the
residents needed was to get upset thinking there was a war in the
streets outside the residence. And of course, the other reason for
not permitting TVs was to keep the residents moving around and
interacting, rather than zoning out in front of a set all day and then
being up half the night.
Mary G.
Mojogame - 26 Aug 2004 03:58 GMT
Thanks alot for your observations on this. It sounds a lot like what
my mom seems to be going through. I have even noticed at times when I
talk to her, she may answer with something pertaining to what she has
just seen on the tv screen instead of an answer that applies to the
"real world". Should I say, "That does not make any sense mom?" I am
not sure whether to just let it go.. but it is so new .. that I just
get agravated and ask her what the heck that has to do with what I am
asking her? This sure is not easy is it?
> Some of the frontal lobe dementias cause very vivid hallucinations.
>
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>
> Mary G.
Lee - 26 Aug 2004 04:30 GMT
we try to minimize the number of times we correct my mother in law... if we
can gloss something over so that she doesn't realize she's said or done
something ~off~ we do so ..... don't think I'd point out her error in the
type of situation you describe.
CAN'T do it all the time .... some things have to be addressed ... but when
you can ....
> Thanks alot for your observations on this. It sounds a lot like what
> my mom seems to be going through. I have even noticed at times when I
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> >
> > Mary G.
Tumbleweed - 26 Aug 2004 07:55 GMT
> Thanks alot for your observations on this. It sounds a lot like what
> my mom seems to be going through. I have even noticed at times when I
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> get agravated and ask her what the heck that has to do with what I am
> asking her? This sure is not easy is it?
The answer to that is to ask yourself the question "what difference would
that make?".
But you're right, its not easy :-(

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