>I am currently 30 years old, and I have spent just about all of my life
> using my right hand for just about everything I do. My father is right
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> all
> the confusion/conflicts in my brain?
I enjoyed reading your post. You remind me of one of my grandsons.
I would say that you were born gifted with many abilities that are
just now breaking loose for you to cultivate. The 'internal conflicts' goes
on with most people and you sound pretty normal to me.
As far as getting confused on which leg to move next.....(I really grinned
at this one, being a former Marine)......you should see how often that goes
on when people in boot camp are training to 'march'. If you find this
bothers you, try calling 'cadence' in your head as you walk (left, right,
left, right and then add a sing-song rhyme in between the lefts and rights).
My sense is your confusion about which leg to move happens when you are
walking near other people. March to your own beat.
Best to you! You sound like a fine young man,
Coleah
> Also, I have suffered from alot of internal conflicts over the years,
> and i'm wondering if being forced to be right handed as a child could
> have been the cause of it?
If that's what happened, it can cause a lot of problems,
because it never completely takes.
> I'm wondering if this could be down to the fact
> that my left brain has been the dominant side
> since I was a child, and it was actually meant
> to be the other way round, and that's what's causing all
> the confusion/conflicts in my brain?
Two useful data points:
1. Which ear do you use when talking on the telephone?
The vast majority of all right-handers use their left ear.
A majority of left-handers also use their left ear, but
it's much closer to 50/50. The ear choice indicates which
side of the brain holds the language function.
2. When you write, is your hand mostly above the line
or below the line? In most people, the hand is below
the line being written. In a few people, they curl the
hand around while writing, so that the hand is mostly
above the line being written. It's almost painful to watch
someone write this way. It is caused by the dominant
hemisphere being opposite from the hemisphere that
does the writing -- the dominant hemisphere picks up
the pen, but then tries to hold it at the angle it would have
if it was being held by the other hand.
sp0ck - 30 Dec 2004 21:24 GMT
> 1. Which ear do you use when talking on the telephone?
> The vast majority of all right-handers use their left ear.
> A majority of left-handers also use their left ear, but
> it's much closer to 50/50. The ear choice indicates which
> side of the brain holds the language function.
I use both ears when talking on the phone... My desk phone is on the left
to where I sit, so I use my left hand to pick it up, and then I use my left
ear to listen. When I use my mobile phone I hold it in my right hand, and I
use my right ear for listening.
> 2. When you write, is your hand mostly above the line
> or below the line? In most people, the hand is below
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> the pen, but then tries to hold it at the angle it would have
> if it was being held by the other hand.
I hold my pen roughly 90 degrees to the right, my thumb and index finger are
pointing to the left when I write something using my right hand.
Vashti - 31 Dec 2004 09:07 GMT
> 2. When you write, is your hand mostly above the line
> or below the line? In most people, the hand is below
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> the pen, but then tries to hold it at the angle it would have
> if it was being held by the other hand.
In one primary school I was at I was *taught* to write like that as a
way to avoid smudging... we were using fountain pens. Another school had
us lefties angle the paper in the opposite direction so our hand was
beneath the line. At yet another school I went to the teacher didn't
seem to want to accept me writing with my left hand and would hit my
hand with a ruler if I smudged while insisting that I *didn't* angle the
paper at all. That last teacher was also the one who told me the sun was
going to fall into the earth and I'd go to hell... I was eight.
Needless to say my handwriting is all over the place and I don't use
fountain pens. :)
Vashti
Coleah - 31 Dec 2004 16:32 GMT
>> 2. When you write, is your hand mostly above the line
>> or below the line? In most people, the hand is below
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>
> Vashti
How frustrating to have so many 'teachers' when you could jolly well
have learned to write eclectically all on your own.
As for that Last teacher.....