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EFT improves self esteem
Hi Everyone,
Just about everyone has a self esteem issue in at least one part of
their lives. Carol Henderson shows us how EFT can be a quality aid in
this regard.
Hugs, Gary
By Carol Henderson
Gary,
I have a lot of clients who have low self-esteem. Sometimes,
especially if they are very good looking, I am curious to find out if
they realize they are pretty or handsome. I ask them, "on a scale
from 0 to 10, with ten being movie star good looking, where would you
put your looks". Much of the time they say about four! I just start
tapping with them,
Even though I am below average in looks...
Even though people say I am good looking, I think I am about a four...
Even though I am not very pretty /handsome, I love and accept myself,
anyway.
Usually we don't have to do more than three rounds before the person
thinks they are about an 8 on a scale of 0 to 10. This is HUGE for
self-esteem.
I do the same thing for people who don't think they are very good
parents. They will report being below average as far as parenting
goes. Sometimes I make the EFT setup phrases very negative to get a
reaction out of them quicker.
Even though I am a terrible mother /father...
Even though I never say the right things, or encourage or support my
kids...
Even though I am not a very good parent...
They will go along with saying these negative things for a while,
maybe two rounds, but then start saying, "Really, I do support my
kids", or "I really do love and take good care of them." After a few
rounds of the negative, then I add in some positives.
Even though I didn't use to think I was a very good parent, I am
beginning to see I really am.
Even though I used to think I was just a fair parent, I realize I do a
very good job parenting them.
Even though it is hard, and sometimes I loose my temper, I do my best
to love and take care of them, and will continue to do better and
better.
Then, when they rate themselves, they realize they are actually an
above average parent. This really improves how they see themselves,
overall.
--
Carol Henderson
Certified Hypnotherapist
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Posted by
JPaul
dank - 16 Mar 2008 18:39 GMT
JP wrote...
> From:
> http://www.emofree.com/Articles2/self-esteem-carol.htm
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> this regard.
> ...
What is EFT and why is it worth spending several thousand dollars on
videos for? I can't imagine anyone would feel good about themselves
after spending their rent money on this.
I normally dismiss psychology as a fraud, but there was a recent
study where Americans and foreigners were asked to rate their opinion
of their intellectual skills then those opinions were compared to
their performance on standardized tests. Americans performed the
worst on the tests but felt the best about their performance.
Pixie - 16 Mar 2008 19:32 GMT
> I normally dismiss psychology as a fraud, but there was a recent
> study where Americans and foreigners were asked to rate their opinion
> of their intellectual skills then those opinions were compared to
> their performance on standardized tests. Americans performed the
> worst on the tests but felt the best about their performance.
Many Americans are up their own arse, i think its part of the
"culture" that is promoted.
JP - 16 Mar 2008 19:57 GMT
> JP wrote...
> > From:
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> What is EFT and why is it worth spending several thousand dollars on
> videos for?
Several thousand?
Where did you read that?
One can get all the dvd's available at %50 off for $300.
That is what I purchased.
They are over 100 hours of training seminars.
>I can't imagine anyone would feel good about themselves
> after spending their rent money on this.
I can't imagine feeling good about not beingable to read prices.
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> I normally dismiss psychology as a fraud, but there was a recent
> study where Americans and foreigners were asked to rate their opinion
> of their intellectual skills then those opinions were compared to
> their performance on standardized tests. Americans performed the
> worst on the tests but felt the best about their performance.
You probably couldn't read it.
Your intellect is pretty sad.
pingu - 16 Mar 2008 20:55 GMT
> > JP wrote...
> > > From:
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> You probably couldn't read it.
> Your intellect is pretty sad.
Holy f.ck JP you really take the cake, first of all you are too stupid
not to major cross post your spam to every group, which makes you look
like an idiot advertising spammer and not the "kind JP that cares
about everyone and is posting for your welfare not his".
THEN, HE HAS THE NERVE TO INSULT someone's intelligence, who expressed
interest in his spamming wares on another post, in this current post.
You really are a WHORE arent you JP?
You have to be the HIGHEST FORM of UNITELLIGENT LIFE FORM on this
EARTH JP.
JP - 16 Mar 2008 21:45 GMT
> > > JP wrote...
> > > > From:
[quoted text clipped - 45 lines]
> THEN, HE HAS THE NERVE TO INSULT someone's intelligence, who expressed
> interest in his spamming wares on another post,
Which I hadn't seen or read....
>in this current post.
> You really are a WHORE arent you JP?
Whores usually get paid.
I haven't asked anyone for a dime.
I don't sell the DVD's.
The original poster grossly misstated the price and also implied how
un-intelligent Americans are.
I didn't care for that too much.
> You have to be the HIGHEST FORM of UNITELLIGENT LIFE FORM on this
> EARTH JP.
So are thread stealers.
Get the free manual.
http://www.emofree.com/downloadeftmanual.asp
pingu - 16 Mar 2008 21:52 GMT
> The original poster grossly misstated the price and also implied how
> un-intelligent Americans are.
> I didn't care for that too much.
Why too close to home? They said the Americans that were polled wer
too up there own arse. I guess that hit a nerve did it JP?
Pixie - 16 Mar 2008 19:35 GMT
Will you stop f.cking cross posting you SOB? If you care so deeply
about our needs, then you can at least f.cking TAKE THE TIME TO POST
INDIVIDUALLY TO GROUPS, you f.cking spam advertiser!!