Do you want to have sex with more than one partner ?
The enthusiasm one has for a new sexual partner wanes. Perhaps you
begin to think about sex with other people. How would you feel about
having more than one sexual partner--not necessarily in an orgy, but a
number of partners that you could have sex with at mutually agreeable
times and places.
Or are people monogamous? Not that newspaper headlines or stories
about politicians or your neighbors support such an idea...
What is the meaning of sexual freedom? Does it mean you are free to
have sex with whoever you want but then you are allowed to prevent any
of your sexual partners from having sex with others? Or does it mean
that you allow others to be free in their sexual relationships. That
you don't prevent them from having sex with whoever they want sex
with. Freedom, to me, means to not prevent anyone from having a
freedom that I want for myself. So that means that if I have sex with
a person then they are free to have sex with anyone else of their
chosing.
swingerspod@gmail.com - 15 Jun 2007 21:54 GMT
Sexual freedom is whatever YOU and your partner believe or want it to
be.
Be open and honest about your feelings is the most important.
YES, I'm a male and would love to have sex with every beautiful woman
that I see in the physical sense. I firmly believe it's only natural
for men to feel this way.
Women on the other hand generally, not always, want or need a more
emotional connection to enjoy sex with another. I'm not sure if the
desire to enjoy sex with multiple partners is because of society or
religion suppression but it seems to be the case.
I'm in my second relationship with a woman that has involved what we
consider moderate or mild swinging in the alternative lifestyle.
In both instances my female partners have desires to be with other
women and not men. If not for this I can assure you in both cases
there would be no swinging.
Both partners have said, and I've asked them to be honest, they have
no real desire to be with other men. Although I've had my jealous
moments I can honestly say if either of them wanted to I would have
allowed them to be with other men.
Without a doubt it makes it easy for me to be in the lifestyle. I have
no worry of my partner getting attached to another man or being turned
on by another.
My girlfriend of 3 years, Jamie, is the only woman that has ever
brought me to orgasm while pleasing me orally.
She's actually so good and loves performing oral I get so excited
thinking about her getting other men off when we are swinging but she
rarely does it. I also fantasize about her having sex with other guys
while I'm watching but she just hajs no interest.
Jamie says the main reason she's not into other guys is because all
her life she's been taunted and far too many times to count followed
by men.
I'm sure this is way more and a bit off topic however we're curious as
to others responses on this as well.
Jimmy & Jamie
http://SwingersPod.com/blog/podcast.html